about

I am an easy person to get along with. I also enjoy giving advice, and I am pretty good at it. I tend to have a bit of a gift for giving advice. So if you need help then feel free to ask..The one thing about me though is i will not "sugar coat" anything if you want to know then you need to accept whatever answer I may give you. Hmmmm..some things you may want to know about me?
-I'm 17 years old,female. No, because of the obvious reasons..I will not release my name, or my state I live in.
-I absolutely love little kids, and animals.
-I am in a really serious relationship
-I have had a lot of experiences and I am very wide ranged..for advice giving I mean. I have had a tough past, and can answer alot.
Thanks for listening

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I have two questions about my Dell Inspiron 600m.
1. My computer makes these lines on my computer screen whenever I scroll on a website or move a window around (almost like it is "ghosting"). I recently upgraded from Windows XP to Windows XP Pro. How would I resolve these "lines"?

2. I am missing the A, Q, and space bar keys. Where might I be able to get replacements just for the keys without replacing the whole keyboard?

cannot help with the first question sorry dont want to give first help. as for the 2nd question you should call the company and ask them..and by the way if it came that way then complain like hell cause they owe you! GOOD LUCK. dell pisses me off.

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my bf is serously sweet but like @ partys and stuff we spend every second 2gether and i dont know how to tell him i just wanna dance with my friends and have a good time. without him thinking i dont like him or dont want to be with him. how can i be with my friends and tell him to be with his?

oo yikes well he is just trying to show he likes you alot..just tell him gently that you really like him but that you need some time to dance with your friends,suggest he does the same. that you two should be able to be close but still spend time with friends, and dance with friends. he will be fine if he is a nice guy. if not ditch him

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Hello. I'm in 9th grade. I have guy friends, not a lot but I still have some. Most of my guy friends are either in grades below or ahead of me. Most guys in my grade are like..I don't know they either don't want to talk to you, or they want to stare at your ass all day. I really want some more guy friends to hang out with. How can I get more? I'm a very outgoing person and I can make friends easily, so I can start conversations. Please help me. Thanks :)

lets see you need to be friendly.i dont mean overly just talk to some guys maybe show you are not afraid and just be yourself. be bold, flirt a little some guys respect girls who are not afraid of them. i use to be like you.

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Where can you find a myspace layout thats default (it looks completley like the default) except it has arial font instead of the default font? THansks

i reccommend layoutpimper.com

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how long does bleach for body hair (arms) last?

aprx

thxx

a month tops..if your lucky..sorry to say

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I recently washed my new 100% merino wool sweater and it shrunk considerably. It said to hand wash cold, reshape and lay out to dry. I put it in my washing machine (I have an HE front loading washer) on handwash cold and then in the dryer at the "no heat" selection. My question is, does wool actually shrink or will it reshape after another wash (I hand washed it and layed it out after I found out it shrunk).

Thanks

no sorry it will not go back to normal. you should of never dried it..the motion made it shrink.

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How do u burn a DVD that is right protcected?

you need a special code from an online site..though you should not do it anyhow. and some dvds actually are protected against that to. but you could try to break the code..you can sometimes find the program on limewire or kazaa..good luck

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Does anyone now a way to make a nice month budget ?
I want to go on vacation but me and my bf are on a really low budget because we have to pay so much depts at the end of the month ,we work hard but we always broke

I don't quite understand this ,i did everything
But the worst is that the whole family is going back home (curacao)for the birthday of my grandma and I'm the only one staying because we don't have enough money
I wanna try to go though but I don't know how


(just for the record I live in Europe)

go to debt consilidation, and for saving money to go you could maybe each get a part time job at somewhere nearby or try to put certain paychecks immediately in the bank rather than spending any. buy only what you need, and maybe sell a few things you dont need?

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I have a Video iPod, and I'm just wondring how to get some pics on there. thanks!!

you need itunes, plus you need to have enough space, and there is a little tab in itunes, and also in the help area it tells you how

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I ate like 20-30 jelly beans in 1 hour and now i keep on getting pink bubbles in my spit.. it like gurgles and comes out. its happened twice. ugh is this normal? is it cuz i ate too many at once? why?

see a dr. ive never heard of that before..it could be just a coincidence..but really a bigger problem

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So here's the scenerio, I got a set of proactive skin care for christmas and started using it that morning. It was working really well and my skin was looking better...

But.. the day after Christmas I left for a snowboarding trip with some friends. Now, I've heard from several sources that Proactive dries out your skin a BUNCH when you first start it, but it was only a day or so after we'd gotten there (and me continuing to use the proactive twice a day, once in the morning and night) that my skin got so dry it started to flake.

I used it once or twice more and then stopped, thinking it was just making my skin worse and worse. So I just started putting moisturizer on my face, hoping to repair it. It's been a week and my skin is still kind of flakey and dry and I don't know how to fix it or if I should start up my proactive again.

I'm also wondering if it was just the proactive that caused this intense reaction of my skin. I'm guessing that it might have been a mixture of the intensely dry air in our cabin from a fire, and the intense cold, plus the proactive..

And as an added bonus, my skin started to break out again today with zits. Should I start the proactive back up? Or should I wait for my face to completely heal again and then start it back up? And how do I heal it effectively? Has anyone else had this happen to them, and what's your experience with proactive skin products? :/

If you need more detail just indicate so and I'll send you another message in your inbox. :] Thank you!

-Sarah

proactive has been known to overly dry out skin ir you have sensitive skin its not good to use. but if not it was the combo and you should use it again.

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fake lip rings? is there such a thing? where can i gt one? besides online? i dont want my mom to know. SHE'D FLIP

they exist but my friend used one and it got her lip to swell up..you best make sure they are real..and btw if you live anywhere near a "sallys" they have them

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I really want my nipples pierced. I've researched it and I know any risks involved.. not to mention I can handle pain pretty well. I just want some stories about yours.. or anything you've heard about them. Did yours get infected? What made them feel better, etc. Thank you in advance! =]

ouch..umm i know someone who had them done..i mean he handled pain really well. but they really hurt him and they rub and get irritated..overall he likes them. but i mean he had to go through REALLY STRICT cleaning..and was in tears and he has had multiple tatoos, and peircings whatever you do GOOD LUCK

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ok, here's the deal. there's this guy i have a pretty big crush on, he's about three years older than me and he most likely has no clue i exist. how do i get him to notice me?

first of all do not change who you are, be yourself, talk to him, try flirting a little,and see what happens from there..if you are really bold ask him out

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On your ipod when you make playlists with song that are already on you ipod it doesnt take up more space.. like i still only have 1 of each song on my ipod directory but if i take the song and put it in the playlist it doesnt take up more room right??
thanks in advanced

no it just means that you wont have to look through the entire song listing you can just find that one playlist sooo much easier trust me

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13/f
I only like the guys that like me. I'm intimidated the guys that I really do like and I feel like he'll never like me. So whenever a guy likes me first I feel braver. I end up liking the guy that liked me first.
Am I just desperate? I know that I don't have to worry about if he likes me, so I just want to be with him, even if I really don't like him. Am I desperate for a boyfriend?

you may just be tricking youself into it because you are too afraid to be bold and like someone else and hope they like you. try to be more bold. but no you are not alone a lot of girls do this.

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I really don't know where else to turn right now but here. Okay, I know that I really shouldn't cut myself, but It's addicting. The teachers, my parents, they can't help! They don't get it. My parents say 'Pray'. I am Christian, but what do you do when Faith isn't enough? My teachers tell me I just need to want to stop. HELLO! I've wanted to stop! I can't! Someone please, If you know how to get unaddicted to the pain, please help me!

i am sorry but the best way to stop is 1-seek immediate counseling. 2-get your parents to send you to a local mental place. because one day you may just cut too deep. i know you may not like this bit of news..but I did go through it and thats the only thing that helped me. please for you and your family and all your loved ones go get help.

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i've had a myspace for about 2 years. today i tried to login but, it wouldn't let me get in. i go on myspace EVERY single day.. so it kept on saying, "you must be logged in to..." but whatever. so i was thinking ..i probably forgot my password. so i wrote my email and myspace sent my password. the twist is, that's the same password i typed in TEN times!! and it still couldn't work. and i used the correct email. so what's the problem? and it wasn't the "fake myspace" it's he real one.

umm either make a new account or keep trying, wait it out. and sorry i cant helo you much. but myspace is not an urgent problem either..i think you may be a little too obcessed.

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Ok soo my best friend has two hot relatives. One..is a year younger and the other is 2 years older. Well i like the one 2 years older than me..he goes to college..and plays baseball for college. Its soo attractive to me. Like..i basically want to run over to him and just makeout! This is the first guy ive ever like..had these feelings for. Its not like "love" feelings more like i jsut wanna makeout with him. I dont like him..i jsut wanna makeout. Is this weird? cuz this feeling sure is weird

no it just means instead of "liking" him or having "puppy love" or even thinking your in love..then you are lusting after him. meaning you dont want to get to know him or date him you just want to fool around with him. theres a big difference bewtween lust/love. you have lust.

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okay i've never had sex before and don't plan on it for a long time. my boyfriend & i of 7 months will make out n do stuff like that naked. he'll ejaculate on like my thigh but not my vagina, is there anyway from that that i could get pregnant? can you get pregnant from a guy not going into you, like if it touches my region is there a chance of me geting pregnant or something? please help! thankss a bunchh xox.

well you dont have a high risk. but unfortunately you do have some because if he does ejac there, or rub his penis along you and say there is some sperm infested semon then you could in fact get preg..sorry if this bothers you. just be more careful. maybe have him ejac on your chest or somewhere further from your vagina.

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