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" align=left hspace=10> Hey! My name is Kimberly and i am 17 years old. I'm a very outgoing girl and i love to have fun with my friend. I play basketball, shop, and i'm in love with the beach. My family and friends mean the world to me, and i would be no where without them. I've learned a lot about myself and who my real friends are in the past year.

I love helping people if its anywhere from what outfit to wear to which boy they should date. Yeah, i have made mistakes in my past but i have learned from them and it has only made me stronger. So feel free to ask me anything and i will try and help the best way i can. :D

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so this kid nick, we're really close and all, but he's so caught up in his friends and well i wish we would go out, but he just doesn't have time for a girlfriend, so what do i do? pfhaaaaha.

Well i think you should talk to him and tell him how you truly feel. Tell him that you think he should spend a little more time with you.If that doesnt work then you might want to take a little break from eachother.Just until he figures out want he wants. If you guys were really meant to be, then everything will work out. Good Luck! (:

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well this will be long im sorry but its love okay? ok so i've been going out with this AMAZING guy for the past two months (2 month anniversary on 8th August) and we really love each other...he's really tall and sweet with curly brown hair...ohhh, i could go on n on i'm so in love with him =) but dats not da problem

You see, my normally perfect friends absolutely DETEST him... and its wrecking my life... but let me explain the whole story okay.

in the sixth grade (we're in the ninth now) my bf, say john, was very very popular and was like one of the biggest jocks around school and was considered really really cool and dated all these popular girls. Then he had a stroke (i know i know, so young, i cried for hours after i heard this it was so sad...) and was admitted to a hospital, fighting for his life. The doctor performing the surgery went all oversmart and tried to experiment on an eleven year old kid and messed about with the equipment and even though he recovered the messing about left him paralysed in the right side for a couple of months...he's fine now of course except he has a slightly deeper voice but back then when he came back to school everyone just began ignoring him...you knnow, the way those popular people generally act...and it was like suddenly they didn't even know him anymore and he sort of became, well, NOT popular. They talk to him of course but only with a sorta pity and the girls treat him like dirt (only the popular ones he dated). And all the people who were jealous of him when he was popular are really mean to him nowadays...so anyway I joined the school last year and he's had a crush on me since last year and we've had a complete fairytale story... until now of course...my friends (only some, the really close ones are okay) are being total bitches and dissing him and no matter how brave i am (i stood up to a group of twenty all alone!) and how much i tell them he's nice they wont listen...all they care about is his popularity and i'm beginning to hate EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM for it. And i'm the type who'll die for her love and stuff but its just so sad...i mean am I the only person with a heart in this school? or should I break up with him to please my friends? Please dont give one line advice...you understand i'm gonna need a lot of it...i really cant stand it anymore... help, please!

oh and did i mention that i'm totally in love with him and he sort of cannt go to sleep without hearing my voice (likewise) and i think i'd die if i cant tbe with him...but then i'm dying this way too... HELP!!!

Okay, well first of all don't let your friends tell you who you can and can't talk to or be with. If you like this boy, then by all means stay with him. He sounds like a very nice kid. I think you should just forget about all the "popular" girls. Because after high school, it doesnt even matter if you were popular or not in school. These girls sound like they are self-centered and live to make people lives miserable. So don't let what they say bother you. Yeah, it's going to be hard but don't make it seem like it bothers you. Cuz if you show them that it does, they are going to continue with it. But if you show that it doesnt, they will move on to someone else.

As far as your "close" friends.They should be supporting you. Anyone that would do that to anyone is not worth it over the man you love.

Your boyfriend had a horrible thing happen to him. I'm sure that he feels lucky that he has you in his life. Keep him. He sounds like an amazing guy, so why would you want to give him up???

I know it might be hard at first to do this, but you will get through it. Hope everything works out for the both of you. (:















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17/f.
me and my best friend sara like the same guy but she doesnt know i like him too. ive known this guy longer than she has though and i think he likes me too. the thing is shes one of my best friends and i dont want her to get mad at me. everytime that he comes around, she's like he's so hott and i dont say anything because i dont want her to get mad. last weekend we were at a party and he was flirting with me and he gave me a hug when he left and she got a little mad at me. he knows that she likes him, but he doesnt know about me. im really good friends with his best friends sister and she said that she would talk to him for me but idk. do you think i should talk to sara? or should i just play it off until she gets over him cause at the party she didnt even talk to him and she's not shy.


thanks in advance =]

I was in a situtation just like this once before.
You are better off letting your friend know how you feel. Explain to her how much you like him and how you think he might like you too. If she is a good friend she will understand. Yeah, she might be mad at first. But she will get over it.Just give it some time. (: Go for it girl!!

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