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Q: Sorry this is kinda long but i relly need help!! PLEASE!

7th Grade, That time in your life you start to see who is actually your friends. It's only one friend with me. Say her name was... Jane. Jane and I have been BFFs since before preschool. Me and her did everything together. Anyways, in grade 3 i met a girl named, say.. Kelsey. Kelsey lived only a few houses away from me and we hung out a lot. (The longest we've ever gone with out a sleepover starting 5th grade, 8weeks) Kelsey was also a bit spoiled but i didnt mind she was still a good friend. Jane and Kelsey werent the best of friends and never saw eye to eye. Me and kelsey do everything together (I'm going to see Rihanna with her tomorrow!) and i can see how Jane would be a bit jealous. Well ever since before a camp i went to in the summer, Jane has been acting like a bi*** to me. I still wasnt shaving my legs then and she came up to me (out of no where), ran her hand up my leg and said when was the last time you shaved? No not said YELLED! to the whole camp. I also had streaks put in my hair before school started. I kinda went a little beserk and now there's a huge streak of blond right by my face. It looks BAD! Jane points it out to everyone I meet. I HATE IT!!! She makes up secrets about me that sooo aren't true and she tells my true secrets to people! I tlaked to her on the phone the other day and yold her. She said she just wanted to be one of those POPULAR grade 8s next year. I asked her if being popular was more important than being my friend. She didn't answer and i hung up. She done a lot more horrible things to me but if i wrote them all it would take you alll day to read this.
I reallyy need help and im stressing about this 24/7. She calls me a geek and calls me not smart and AHHHHH!!! Please help i sometimes cry myself to sleep. Sorry ity was sooo long but don't take that out of me by not answering the question.

PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay well if "Jane" is doing all this stuff to you, then she isnt your friend. There is no need for you to cry over the stupid stuff that she does. Trust me, she isnt worth crying over or worth your time. Dont even worry about it, people will see right through her.

She is just doing all this stuff, rumors, ect. just to get attention because she cant get it from anything else.
Dont let it get to you.

15/f

Q: If you wear on fake eyelashes, can people notice? Is there a way to make it natural?

I'm 15/f but like my eye lashes are less then 1cm long! Which is really weird and mascara doesn't change it at all

Well you can try to wear fake eyelashes, but im sure it will be noticable.

but of you were to try them, try it on a weekend or time when you arent going anywhere, just incase they look wrong. get them, put them on your eyelash, or however the instructions say, & put eyeliner on the top of the eyelash thing,
& then add mascara.

My friend does that when she is going out. & they look natural but knowing your eyelashes are less than a cm. long, idk.

& also, they have this Rimmel Lash Maxxx it works really good & its good at making your eyelashes longer, seriously.

Q: Hi! Ok I am going to Homecoming soon Oct. 13th and I dpn't know what type of dress to get or where to go to get one! I am 5'3 and 113 pounds so im relatively skinny and want to know what kind of dress would probably look good on me and that i should where. It's formal and I love pretty things. My style is kinda preppy if that helps. Include links if you can too. Thanks so much! And not too pricey because after a certain amount I have to use my own cash. Thanks again! :D I rate too!

try dillards.com
they have cute dresses.

Q: i have some stretch marks on my breast. does anyone know of anything that i can use that i can find around the house to get rid of them? cuz i dont really want to buy anything. im 13/f

I heard that you can tan over it.

Q: Are Crest White Strips healthy to use? Will it do anything bad to your teeth? Or are there any concerns/problems I should know about? Thanks!

i use crest white strips, & the only thing happening to my teeth is that they are whiter.

Q: i just wanted it simple
thanksss (:

okayyyy , did you like the one i suggested?

Q: hi i need some ideas for a new screename for aim.
my names nicole and i like spaces in sn's.
i just cant get any cute ideas lately
pleaseee help
thanks in advance (:

Hey !
Well do you want numbers in it?
Or do you want it simple like " Nicoleeeeeee "
Msg back.

Q: i recently cutmy hair extremely short, not by choiuce but by force from my mother.. i was wondering if there was anyway to someone getmyhair togrow faster, i absolutly hate how i look with short short hair, and extensions are not anoppion because well basically i think its a waiste of money... so are there are products i can use, or special foods i can eat to helpmy hair grow faster???

Okay well, there is this shampoo and conditioner called mane and tail horse shampoo. ( its not really horse shampoo )
it makes your hair grow faster.

Q: What is the best teeth whitening system (like whitening strips). I need my teeth to be white by August 27th. And i need something cheap.

Crest white strips do a great job just after 5 days, seriously.
I use them, yes they are expensive, kinda.
But soo worth it.

Q: How do you change your ringback on
the chocolate phone? Because my ringback
is some really weird Beethoven music &
its pretty embarrassing haha.

Thanks in Advance

i have verizon too.
& my first ringback tone that i had was that exact same thing, but i didnt care.

but anyways, just try and get another one.
my second one worked.
& im still on my second one.

go to google and type in verizon ringbacks,
& it tells you what to do.

Q: okay so my acne gets a little worse in the summer and it's like mild i guess you could say. it's not too bad but is there ANYTHING that could possibly clear it up a little bit by tomorrow? and it has to be something that i might have at home. but any ideas would be great

and i'd google it but i want someone who had experience using it. or if you know it could work becasue someone else used it.

thank you sooo much!

well ive heard that toothpaste doesnt work.
ive heard honey works, put honey on the zit and it minimizes the size
and ive also heard to take some of the redness out put a piece of ice on the pimple for about 10 sec.

Q: i wrote on my wall with washable crayola marker about a month and a half ago and i cant get it off now, how do i get it off?

Try Mr.Clean magic eraser.
Thats gets off anything.

Q: My hair is very thick.
It is past my shoulders
I am trying to grow it out past my boobs,
So it will have that lose curl look you know?
Like the girl off of degrassi- darcy?
Well I think it is really pretty.
What can I do when my hair grows out so that it will look liek that.
If I grow it out do you think it wil have that type of look?
People say if I get it thinned out and layered kinda it shoudl have that curl to it.
\But i think it wil just be fizzy and have a wave to it.
What should i do.
Right now I have to straighten it everyday for it too look good.
I just wnat ot be able to grow it out
Get out of the shower put a little prodct in it, and be done, and have it look really pretty, with a littel lose curl to it.
Is that possible.
please help me get my hair to look like that

Well first of all if you want your hair to grow faster get mane and tail horse shampoo and conditioner, it makes your hair grow wayy fast.

I would suggest going to a hair salon and getting it professionally done, then ask them how they did it. then try to do it yourself.

Q: how do you put pictures side by side on myspace?they automatically go down vertically. is there anyone i can make them go side by side?

I used to have that code but I think its:
djgkhdfhg

If thats not right, im terribly sorry>

Q: This may be a dumb question, but I just now started to wear the bras with cups and how do you wash those? Wouldn't a washing machine damage them?

Well I wash mine regularly, i just dont dry them.
& dont use any special soap or anything.

Hope I helped.

Q: I have acne all over my face!I try to eat foods with alot of iodine in them, does that help or just make it worse?

Okay, try not to drink so man carbonated drinks if you already do. Coke, Dr.pepper, Sprite, ect.

Get neutrogena acne stree control from your local drug store.
It works.

If not that, try getting something that has benzoyal perixiode or sasylic acid (sp)

Q: What's the name of this font, and where can I find it?

Here's a picture of it..

http://i15.tinypic.com/4znz4ti.jpg

Thanks!

Ive seen that font on top 100 fonts on dafont.com
or dafonts.com

get there and find top 100
& just look for it and you can download it.

Q: my friend had this icon a while ago. it had a green background and said ew. but i cant find it. does anyone know where to find it??

What kind of icon?
Like aim icon?
or myspace icon?

if its a myspace icon, sorry i cant help.
but if its aim try www.iconator.com

hope i helped.

Q: Hello. Ok so i want to re-do my room. I want it to look different. I already know i'm going to have one wall with newspaper on it.

something like this:
http://i144.photobucket.com/albums/r161/ambiepie13/room1.jpg

i like color too and i like the way this room looks:
http://i144.photobucket.com/albums/r161/ambiepie13/room2.jpg

But i'm having trouble putting it all together. Like what wall color to use because i don't think i want it white.

Any ideas?

thanks for reading

-amber

my idea has to go with white walls.
okkkay, You get white walls but get way colorful things in your room.
get like a colorful carpet/rug.
look my friend did her room like this
http://a56.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/82/m_b762854b572461c7722f6c3e43e02c4f.jpg

thats the best picture i can get right now.
but get reeaaallly colorful and random things in your room.
make your room different
maybe do one wall newspaper
and one wall like, white with strips or polka dots. make your room, you.

hope i helped.

Q: Ok today was like so not your average day. I was wearing like my marc by marc jacob's expresso ballet flats and thats when I triped and fell on the stairs and twisted my ankle. Back in drama class I had some ice but I had to apply it to my ankle so I took both my flats off to apply the ice. I forgot to get the materials for the class (mind there were at lease 15 students) so I took off for 10 mins. next thing you know when its time to leave I they were missing. In the end I searched everywhere went to the office found one ballet flat deep down hidden in the desk and I could find the other one. So I ended up wearing clown shoes borrowed from the office. MY PARENTS ARE SOO CROSS WITH ME AND THERE LIKE STRESSING ME OUT BAD ABOUT MY ANKLE AND THE STOLEN SHOE. THEY WERE LIKE TOMORROW WERE DRIVING YOU TO DRAMA SCHOOL OR W.E. AND THEN WERE GETTING TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS. I REALLY THINK MY PARENTS ARE EMBARASSING I REALLY DON'T WANT Anyone to see them... I feel like I can handle it out on my own.. not sooo sure... WHAT SHOULD I DO?? THERE EVEN THINKING OF SWITCHING SCHOOLS FOR ME!!! OH MY GOD (DRAMA CAMP IS IN THE SAME SCHOOL I GO TO) sooo MAJOR STRESS!

Tell your parents not to worry about it, its just a shoe. No telling why someone would want just one shoe that they would have to steal it. Just tell your parents that you lke the school your at. Tell your parents, that this is your problem and you want to get through it by yourself.

bio

Hey, I'm Kelsey and i'm cooool !
Well, I'm a Junior and I love it.
My life is all about my friends and family.
I really want to be famous one day.
I like to play video games, not alot of girls do.
I seriously say a lot of pointless stories, for no apparent reason, its kinda funny.
I love music loud.
I like to talk about love life, because I can relate to what is going on.
& Im not one of those advice people who just give you a yes or no answer, im up to any questions and ill give you true answers.