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my name is jessica. i'm 14, but i've been through a lot, and i'm not just saying that because everyone else says it, i have. if you ask me a question i'll give you an answer, i don't give out my personal info, because i don't want to, but i do have a screenname that i'm not on a lot, but it's there for answering questions. if you want to ask me a question, ask me it. if it's a stupid question expect to get a stupid answer. my rule in life is i give people the respect they give me, respect me, i'll respect you and we'll have no problem, don't respect me, i won't respect you. i'll answer your question honestly, and i don't care if you don't rate me a 5, whatever.

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im not sure this is really an injury.....

i was wondering if there is anything to get rid of acne scaring besides covering it up with make up. and if there is where can you get it?

neosporin works wonders, just put a little dab on it every night, and they should be gone soon. it's also good for any other scars you have.

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i don't know why i do it, but i always seem to cheat on my boyfriend. how can i resist temptation? i try but its so hard!!!

i think you should dump your boyfriend, because it's probably hurting him a lot, if you continue to cheat on him, and your obviously not that into him because if you were you wouldn't cheat on him. end of story.

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ever since my allergic reaction to monostat (which has cleared up now) my vaginal discharge has been really weird. Even though i now wash my vaginal region twice a day, it has a strange smell to it (not fishy, more like tangy), and the discharge is white and really thick and cakey. I went to the doctors countles times but they kept telling me that its natural adn i know for sure that it is not. Any suggestions as to what has happend?

hun, if you went to the doctors a lot, and they always tell you it's natural, then listen to them, they've studied this type of stuff. you could just not be used to this type because it's not what you're used to.

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Basically what the title is. I'm having trouble knowing whether or not I should take the next step for fear of being rejected. If I knw what to look for if he likes me then I may be more confedent to take the next step.

Thanks

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you


http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You


they're not 100% correct, because everyguy is different, but usually it's pretty obvious when a guy likes a girl, they're not good at hiding it., but don't be mistaken since guys are stupid they could think what they're doing is harmless.
but good luck!

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okay so i heard a song in the hookah bar and i can't figure out the name of it.

part of a verse was like
"i smoke like a hippie back in the seventies"

bla bla bla "then i get high" or something like that

its really bugging me.

help?

i googled it, and i couldn't find a specific song, with i smoke like a hippie back in the seventies.
but then i got high, it could be because i got high, by afroman.

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15 f
How do you make a boy jealous? The reason why I want to know how is because the boy I like lied to me by saying he had a girlfriend when he really doesn't just to avoid going out with me and now I want to show him that I don't need him and that he missed out on someone special who really did and still does like him. Any boys out there who wouldn't mind sharing what makes you jealous of a girl?? Girls how do you make a boy jealous?

simply forget about him, because you honestly don't need him. what i do is whenever i see my ex i don't make eye contact, i continue doing what i was doing, like talking to my friends, or another boy, and even if you do notice him, don't let him see you noticing him, it shows that your better off without him, and hes not even worth your dirty stares.

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How do you know when your meant to be with someone, when you've never have really been with that person romantically ?

I feel like im meant to be with him but how would I know that?

honestly, you can't tell if you're meant to be with someone if you've never been with them romantically. maybe you could, like if you've been really good friends for years, but if you've never been in a relationship, how would you know if he is even into you. you feel like your meant to be with him, because you obviously like him a lot, but in order to see if your meant, you would need to be romantically involved.

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Is there any way I can get on blocked websites at school? There's something called proxy? But I really do not understand what that is..

you can go to unblockmycrap.com
and go to where it says url, then just type in the website you want to you on.

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My Favorite jeans on the whole planet are a pair of skinny VENICEs from Pac Sun. Does anybody know where i can get another pair like them, but maybe not exactly the same? Different wash maybe, or different pocket. I like them dark but colorful works too. Thanx so much!!

well you can always try pacsun again, they always have new stuff. but also, depending on where you live, theres a store called rue21, it has really cute stuff. and you can always try like forever 21, or any stores that sell a variety of clothing brands.

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18/f

ok so im still a virgin but the guy i like isnt. do guys care if a girl they date is still a vigin or not.

it all depends on the guy, some guys would rather have a girl who's a virgin because it means like hes the first one to get her, or he just wants someone who's clean.
or a guy might want the girl to have more experience, but in all honesty, if the guy really likes you, i don't think it should matter if you're a virgin or not.

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okay well there is this boy and he just is driving me nuts. Like i have liked him sense november something. and i like him alot and he always jokes about having sex with me and i guess this sounds nasty and wrong but i guess i sorda like it because it makes me like him more. I think he dosnt like me though and i have no clue on how to tell if he does and i also want to know if a boy likes when a girl make outs with him before their going out? How are you sopposed to know how to kiss and when to?

well for the knowing if he likes you part, you can read these,.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you

http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You

they pretty much say the same thing.
and for the kissing, it kind of just happens, and how to kiss, you just go with the flow, just don't be nervous and let it happen.
and for the making out before they're going out, it depends on the guy, some guys like it, but some guys if they're old fashioned might want to wait till you're are going out, but from what you said about him making jokes, he seems like the type of guy who wouldn't mind making out before hand.

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kay so i download music on frostwire. and after i download it i dont know where it goes? where do i find it to put it on my itunes

well i have limewire, but i think they're alike, so if there is a place called library, and i'm pretty sure you can just highlight them from your library and drag them to itunes.

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Ok so i'm in spanish 1 and i have been assigned a project; I have to pretend I'm in Paraguay [the country of my choice, i can`t change it] and i'm writing a letter to someone about it in spanish.

Does anyone have any creative ideas on how i can do this?
Thanks a ton!!
xoxo

since it's only spanish 1, you probably haven't learned a lot of stuff, so try to keep it simple. maybe discuss what you like about Paraguay, if you do like it there, what you do in your time there. things like that.
hope i helped.

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heyy does anyone know any songs about a girl being perfect while your not, for example, girl next door by saving jane?

thank you :)


i don't have alot,
but one that i think is really good is when it was me, by paula deanda.

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What are some cute nail polish colors that are pretty unique, like ones that are really cute but also not many people wear them. Like turqoise and navy.

i have a orange nail polish, it's like a light metallic color, but it looks really nice and i don't see many people wear it. also my friend got a nail polish at rite aid, i don't know the exact name, but from one angle it looks blue, but the other it looks greenish.
it's amazing.

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There's this guy, Danny. He's like, my best friend. We've both liked eachother, a lot. But whenever I think he'd ask me out, I always try to make it not happen, and it never does. The thing is, although I love him, I don't think I'd want to go out with him. I don't know why, it's not because I'd be judged or anything, he's a really cool guy. I just don't want to be in a relationship with him. Anyone know why? And have any advice?

i was in your position, it's hard. it could be because since you guys are so close as friends, you don't want to damage your friendship, because that does happen often. it also could be because even though you like him, you just cant picture him as anything more than a really good friend. and sometimes the people who you were really good friends, end up being the worst boyfriends, because it's completly different from a boyfriend, to friend.

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where can i find a site other than youtube and itunes that plays music videos

aol.com
yahoo.com
go to music, their selection is limited, but they still have alot of things.

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do you think that an answer to question has to be long because mine are nice and short. i do this so that the person getting the advie can quickly read it and decide wither or not to follow it
anyways ive had lots of good comments (more tan 40 with a rating of like 4.7) and feedback on my advice but then i got someone saying that my advice was not thoughtfull eneough
what do you think? do you think answers need to be super long or short? why?

it depends on the answer your giving, and the topic.
if someone is asking a simple question, and you can explain the point without writing a whole essay, go for it.
but some questions require more details, even if its the same amount of thought, it just depends on the question.

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is it diabe-tees or diabe-tus?

diabetes.
for spelling.
idk if you were trying to pronounce it, but for that its diabe-tees

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Buffs shy era fids
bacon hajj seer
safe elk’s age
one true son gild dill

i dont know what this means but my friend told me to fing out. any help?

well since you didn't say what language it is, it's harder.
but you can go to google, and type in free translators, or try freetranslation.com
theres english words in there too, so idk.

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