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my mom and 2 brothers and 1 moved in with my grandma and aunt. they treat us like crap! my mom is so depressed i try to stop the fight i do but then 4 sec. laster my grandma will open her mouth again and its non stop fighting and i stick up 4 my mom and shes is always upset and it bothers me .. my life my mom and my 2 brothers life r not right here and were tryin our best to move but we cant yet cuz we dont have enough money.. but my mom is soo upset here.. im tried of all the fighting but i cant stop it my grandma thinks she does nothin worng and its all my mom and that also makes my mom upset.. what should i do to help? what should my mom do? and what can we do to stop the fighting? p/s we tell them to leave our stuff alone but they dont and thet ruein our clothes in the laundry cu the ammonia and we say were gonna wash our clothes but they wash ours neway... what can i do??
Ashley
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Hi Ashley,
First of all, I know how family fighting is soo horrible, I`ve been in the middle of some some bad ones. You should talk to your brothers, maybe if they are old you can tell them how you feel and how its possible you can team up and confront your mom and grandma together and tell them how this isnt working and your need them to stop because its really starting to hurt you. You are 13, so many people would think you old enough to get little jobs such as babysitting, maybe mowing or raking. That could help with the money issue a bit. This bit is none of my business, but perhaps your grandma is just getting old .. =[ i know my grandmother sometimes acts like that and it bugs me s0o much .. as for clothes, as soon as you have dirty clothes, wash them then there is no chance your grandma can ruin them. You should also listen to what the fighting is about and what you are sticking up for with your mom. It could just get worse if you are sticking up for the wrong things (you might already have done this).
I really hope things get better for you! Good luck. -xox-
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