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i think it is aweosme that you have your own website to help people with there problems.. but any ways i have this friend and it seems liek everytime we fight it is over a stupid guy and its always her fault to start it.. she still likes her ex.. but he likes me and i like him and he lives down the street and he has been coming over my house mostly every day this summer hes liek my best friend. and we made out.. and she found out and she hates me now. i dont knwo what to do i like him alot and he likes me i guess but io dotn know how to tell her.. and she is a very suborn person and dosent listen to anything anyone tells her. please help me -thanks (link)
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aww..well, you both cant help your feelings and since you like the same guy..yeah thats a problem. this guy is getting in the middle of your friendship, and you have to decide whos more important. your friend or the guy. you guys really should talk about it, and yes you should tell her the truth and everything. if you dont want yer friendship ruined, you both may have to put aside your feelings for the guy. but you guys should defenitley talk it out and hear what the other has to say, without fighting. it`ll help you figure out what to do.
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im 14 and my bro is 16...lately hes being acting really weird and i've been uncomfortable...one time me and my family was in the car driving home from texas and i felt my brother touching me...down "there" and i acted like i was sleeping b/c i didnt no wut to do and later it made me cry thinking about it...then another time i was sleeping in my room and he came in and started rubbing all up on me and kissing me and when im in a bakini i see the way he stairs at me and it makes me relly uncomfortable. hes made some sexual comments that are really discustin and i cant tell if hes kidding around or not. i dont wanna tell anyone cuz i dont want to embarras my brother but at the same time i dont wanna embarras me and i also dont want him 2 get in trouble...wut should i do? (link)
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this is something really serious and you shouldnt let it continue. your BROTHER is sexually abusing you, and unless you want to keep feeling embarassed and uncomfortable you have to tell someone. this isnt normal or right, and it has to stop. either tell your parents or a councelor, or some kind of adult you trust but you have to tell someone. dont worry about embarassing your brother because its not worth it, you dont desrve the abuse. this kind of sexual realationship beetween family isnt healthy but you can put it to an end.
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i feel sorta stupid asking this but i really need someones advice! i am really shy when it comes to the opposite sex...i dont know why! i know im pretty good looking so i dont understand why im not confident enough to talk to a guy. im so shy that i dont even like talking to guys on the phone b/c im scard that i will make a fool of myself! i no its pathetic and im 13 and i should be over this by now. can u give me any advice on how i can be less intimidated when it comes to being around guys? i feel like such a loser! all my friends arent shy in front of guys at ALL! any help?
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god. i know you feel..especially since im like..the shyest person ever, espeically with guys!! but its totally ok..yer only 13, you have alot of time to get used to boys!! i kno its hard, but try not to worry so much about what they think. have a lil confidence in yourself. have yer friends back you up! it ok. one day youll get to know a guy, and hell love you cuz he got to kno who you really are.
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well i have a boyfriend and we been together not that long but i was with some1 b4 him but the guy i was with was not my boyfriend we just acted like it then my bf now asked me out and i said yeah so i stoped being with the other guy then me and my bf broke up and then i started being with the other guy again plus he is like mmy best friend but i still had other feeling for my bf that dumped me but then we got back together and im not sure i should tell my friend wut shold i do im realll confussed (link)
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woah. confusing story. thats kinda hard to understand, but all i can say is, you cant control your feelings and if u have feelings for another guy while you have a bf, you should either break up and spill your guts, or stay that with him. decide who you like and who you wanna be with, then do what you want to do and what u think is best
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hey i wanna be noticed !! i wanna help people with their problems but not very many people ask me !! what can i do to get more people ?? (link)
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just let people know you can help and your there for them, and eventually if ppl wana come to you for help with there problems they will.
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me n this guy we were best friends n then we started to like each other so we talked like we were going out but his excuse for not wanting to go out is " it will mess up our friendship" but he is the type of guy who uses gurls n i was stupid n still did something with him n now i regret it n the day after he started going out with this gurl n his excuse was i couldnt have u so im just using her so we stopped talking n now he wants to b my friend again n im afraid the same thing will happen again .. wat do u think i shud do ? (link)
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i think to avoid this whole mess again, is to just stay friends. and if he just uses girls anyway, then theres no point in going out with him. it isnt exactly right. you should give him another chanse at friendship, but make sure you trust him.
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i went out with this guy 2 times a few months ago.i loved him so much and he told me he was never gunna talk to me again.little by little he started talking to me.then one night he called.after that night he kept on calling at like 12 at night.one day i went to his sisters house and i saw him there and things were so great.it was like we were going out again.but the thing is he has a gf.he said for my birthday we were gunna "mess around" but i dont want to do that unless were going out.since he has a gf,i dont know what to tell him...can you help me? (link)
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gosh this guy sounds like a ass. but anyways, if you really dont wanna mess around till you guys go out, just tell him that. and if he wants to go out with you, be careful, cuz if he was willling to cheat with his gf with you, chanses are he mite do it again. if he stopped talking to you then started again, thats not a good sign. he may not be right for you because it seems like hes using you. but if hes gonna stay with his gf, then dont push it. you may have to except you guys may only be friends. cuz this is sort of like 'friends with benifits' kind of thing. its not right but i hope you make the right decision, but try to understand whats right in front of you. and be cautious.
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alright.. im starting to like this guy i liked a long time ago again. and i dont want to. we dont really talk anymore and we accuse each other of hating each other. i dont want to like him but i do. how can i try and forget him and not care? (link)
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well, you guys really have to work at it. you cant help your feelings. but if you wanna make it work out, you have to make sure you trust him, and you both have to be willing to work at it. find out how he feels about you. if you really wanna forgive him and not care, then do so, but be careful and make sure your making the right decicsion. but you guys absoulutley have to communicate and let each other know how you feel. let it all out to him if you can, and see how it goes.
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both of my parents work , usually leaving me home to clean the house. when they get home , i would like to do something outside of the house , but they are always too tired or w/e ... sometimes when they go out (rarely) i am left home alone to clean more . what can i do besides talk to them so they will understand where i am coming from ? if i don't clean they see that as a reason to not let me go somewhere even if the house has been clean all other times ... what should i do ? (link)
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well, basically the only thing you can do is talk to them. explain your side. you shouldnt have to clean all day and never go out. tell them that you work hard in cleaning and you deserve a little down time, and youd appreciate them taking you out. because then your doing something for them (cleaning) and there doing something for you. (taking you out). even if there tired if you communicate with them and tell them how you feel im sure theyll come around. after all, you deserve it!
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okay my boyfriend got a lap dance and got flashed by a girl besides me .. and he still told me he was sorrry and he loved me but i dont know if i should break up with him .. what should i do? (link)
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you could give him another chanse, and make it work out. but if he did something like that while you guys were going out, it might not work. you may of lost his trust, and he may be chaeting or be capable of it. its up to you what to do, but be cautious.
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I have this friend, who is a boy, but I think Im starting to have feelings for him, what should I do? (link)
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first, find out if he has feelings for you. you can try to give him hints that your into him, and he`ll eventually get it. you guys could end up going out. but if he doesnt have feelings for you, dont push it, you might ruin your friendship.
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I like this boy n i asked him out and he rejected me...how can i get him to like me? (link)
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well, if he rejected you chanses are, he wont ever like. you. =( sorry. and dont try so hard to make him like you, because if he didnt like you for who you are he probobly never will. forget about the jerk, youll find someone find someone much better.
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Me and my boyfriend are so close. He comes over almost everyday but the problem is we cant make out because it seems like my mom is always right there. what should i do before he dumps me for someone else? (link)
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Simple. jus get away from yer mom! go to the movies or the mall or his house. just get away from your home! go anywhere that can guaruntee you make out time. but if hes understanding and u guys are really that close, i dont think he`ll dump you just cuz you cant make out a couple of times.
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my best friend always gets mad at me when i hang out with someone else thats not her friend what should i do? (link)
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It seems like your friend is feeling a little neglected. she may be a little jealous, and the best thing to do is talk to her. Tell her you love her but you have a right to hang out with people, even if shes not friends with them. If shes a good friend, shell understand. you can also get her to meet your other friends, that way you`ll both be happy and shell make a new friend.
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i know a friend whos..well..started um, hurting herself. im really really really worried and i dont know what to do. HELP! (link)
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wow. well this is pretty serious and i can understand how worried you are. Talk to your friend, and confront her. if shes doing something like cutting herself she must be unhappy and something might be really wrong. comfort her and let her know your there for her. as for the part where shes hurting herself, tell a trusted adult or councelor.
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