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i dont like who i am, i joined the military about a year ago, and have done a few months at my first duty station, i hate every day, i hate oklahoma, and for some reason i thought i would make friends here, but to no avail. i sit in my room all weekend by myself, my roomate doesnt even seem to want to talk to me, although i have tried. I HATE my life, and whi i am. i wish i wasnt me anymore and it kills me... (link)
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I don't think it's so much that you hate who you are but more your worried why people don't approve of you the way you do yourself and it's makin you insecure,
I think you still love your self just fine, but wish everyone else did too and I'm sure they do but maybe you come off as an unapproachable person,
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hi..! its the same girl tht asked you how do you get your ex back nd umm ..?! what happens if like you still talk to him and stuff and still chill with him nd things like that is that a sin of getting him back ? (link)
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This is what happens when couples break up.
the dumper tells the dumpee that they can still be friends.
So for a while you guys are hangin out and of course you still have feelings for him so you imagine there is something still there especially because you guys are together still
But I say no not necessarily getting bacCk together but maybe he'z starting to put his trust back in you or w.e but it's a start on a start on a start on getting back together=)
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is a lumpy armpit normal? (link)
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depending on the size of the lump because sone ppl have medium to big sizes lumps which could be a cyst. But if it's small it could just be filled with pus.
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i've been seeing this other guy for about a month, but we've only hung out once, which was yesterday. most of our "relationship" has been through text and facebook.
my boyfriend was neglecting me and i needed affection, which this other guy offered to me. i thought i could do it without feeling bad about it. but after hanging out with him yesterday, i realized i cant. all we did was kiss and stuff but it felt wrong, the whole time. i went home and felt shitty as hell. i couldnt sleep last night, which, if you know me that's really odd. usually i'm tired all the time. i was tired last night i just couldnt sleep, i was wracked to the roof with guilt.
my only problems now are leaving the other guy and coming clean to my boyfriend. i've NEVER been a good dumper, i've always been dumped.
someone please help me, i don't want to do this anymore and i don't want to lose my boyfriend. how do i dump the other guy? thanks for any help. (and please refrain from calling me a heartless whore or whatever else you can come up with. i'm plenty aware, i just need advice.) (link)
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ADVICE FOR IF YOU HONESTLY WANT THE OLD GUY: Try to remember what it is that made you want this person over anybody else because obviously you forgot (no offense) and once you remember it will be easier to stop and be faithful. Also if your current bf doesn't know about it never hide your feelings for another person. let them know that you cheated on them and how you felt about cheating if you never say anything about it I promise you that you will most likely end up cheating again because you didn't get to see how much it hurt your boyfriend. Also since he is your boyfriend you guys must be really close so maybe he Aldo has advice for you about past experiences or maybe he used to cheat on you but got over it.
ADVICE FOR IF YOUR HONESTLY WANT THE OTHER GUY: when people cheat it's because they are looking fir something that they can't get with the other person now that does not mean they are giving you more.. for example if your current boyfriend doesn't want sex until he Is married but everything else is perfect you might go out and look for sex somewhere else thinkin that you are happier but all your really getting is sex and not the other happiness that thee original guy provides for you.
so I'd say just realize the reason why you are cheating and base your motivation on that.
Hope I helped
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how do you tell someone who likes you, you like them but dont want a really big relationship as they are your best friend? i know its a kind of complicated question but if you could answer it thankyou sooo much...btw dont say 'just tell him you like him' cause i've tried that...its too hard... 13/f ^_^ (link)
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Of course you like the person ITS YOUR BESTFRIEND! laugh out loud
but depending on what yu like about her/him you should never come out and just say I'm feelin you because it will absolutely positively make your bestfriendshipness awkward. so if you like the way he/she looks then that's not neccisarily liking him/her it's just being attracted.
If you enjoy spending time around him/her then of course you do because ITS YOUR BESTFRIEND! laugh out loud
But if he/she is always on your mind and your dreaming about him/her then that's something different.
sooo yea decide what it is that you like and if it's just because that is the closest person to you then it's just showing how much you appreciate your bestfriend, and if it's something more then your should definetely SHOW it not SAY it
show it by getting a little fancier when you go out together, or look at him/her with a little twinkle in your eye, laugh out loud
hope I helped
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So im 17 and the guy i like is 21. In elementary school my big brother and him were best friends and we hung out all the time, but we never really talked ya know! In middle school and high school they drifted apart. Theyre finally graduated now(of course) and he is still my NEIGHBOR!!! We just recently started talking, and hanging out a few times. I never stop smiling when were together, and he kissed me for the first time the other day. =) My parents know that i like him. They have never seen me so happy with anyone like i am with him. All of the sudden, they told me i couldnt go anywhere with him. I love it that my parents are looking out for me. but they know him, and they tell me all the time that they know he is a good guy. and sexual wise, we are both virgins, and sex is not what we want. i made that clear to mom to. its more dad freaking out then mom. Just because of age. To me age is just a number. and i think that if my parents actually talked to him and let him prove himself that he wants to be there for me, there should not be a problem. What do i need to tell them to make them realize that he wants me for who i am, and that his age shouldnt be a factor in the relationship if they like him? (link)
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Ok first never go out of your way to sneak and be with him because he is and adult adult(21) and if your parents decide to call the cops on him he could be in big trouble. Also if anything does happen to you while your with him( car accident, arguement and he leave's you at the bowling alley or w.e) then your gonna have to explain to your parents why yu were with him in the first place when you weren't supposed to be just so they can pick you up then they really extra won't like him because he left yu alone on a date.
And second make your parents understand that you are 17 and capable of Maturity and trust, don't give up if they are being stubborn because if yu do then it will look like you are still a little childish if you can't handle hearing the answer "no"
sooooo yea hope I helped
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