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Okay...
So my sister had dated this guy for 7 months and they broke up, so they were still friends for the 5 months since their break up, but then we noticed our other friend's (who is a girl) screename on this chain letter. So we dug a little deeper and it turns out that this "friend" of ours (who knew about my sister's and his relationship) is trying to get him to out with her. So my sister called the boy and asked him if he liked our friend... and he does, and to make things worse they're going out now...
My sister is really depressed because she realy hated the idea of this girl dating her ex... and i don't really know what to say to make her feel better... (link)
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hey girl, you tell your sister that she will defintly find somebody better, no doubt, but just have sex with them if she meets some1. Tell her to hang in there. And it sucks that , that "friend" did that to her but its funyt. You defintly have to watch your asz, and trust very manty people. Because they will be there 1 second and turn their back, and you just give head. Maybe when this guy breaks her "friends" heart than she will apoligize haha. But dont start any fights u moron. Help her find a better guy to suck up! A bigger one! And one who you know will treat her like a true bitc and not care for her, thats what every girl needs.
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hey i have this friend, lets say her name is allie, well me n "allie" are supposed to be good friends, but now that we've grown older, i've matured just a bit more, im not into the stuff she likes any more, like she's more of a tom boy, and i like sports n stuff, but like at the movies and the mall, she HATES goin into stores like claires and forever 21, and anything wit too much "girl" stuff, but i go into stuff i dont like as in spencers and K B toys, she refuses to go where i wanna go, but i go where she wants to just to be a good fair friend,we've kind of split up when it cumz to interest, and i dont wanna be her friend, cuz we agree on almost nuttin, the problem is i live rite behind her in a manner of speaking me n "allie" "share" backyards, and when we start high skool next year, all of our church groups will be help at her house, and if im not her friend, i'd feel awkward, what should i do
also im a soon to be 14 yr old, and her n my sis and her n my bro are GOOD friends, and i just dont want her to get upset because she considers me her Best Friend
sry i've written so much, and if its confusin lemme kno and ill try to edit it!
Confused in Concord (link)
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Hey, I defintly think you need to talk to your friend. And tell her how you feel. And since you feel that you guys have grown apart ask her if she feels the same way.
I bet she will eventually mature. But maybe your clicks are just diffrent. And you two are two totally diffrent people. So after you talk to her, see what she says. Dont shut her out though. Like maybe when she starts maturing and you guys get to the highschool she will meet new friends, and you will have new friends. And you guys can just be acquaintances. Alot of people who are friends for a long time figure out their diffrences and both agree to be mutual. Whatever you do, try not to make it into a fight though because you still have to see her a church groups, so try to get along. But trust me you guys will fall into your clicks, no stress dont worry!
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heyy. ok well im going out with this guy hes really cool and everything he said he likes me a lot but i went away on vacation a few days came back and ive been home only a couple days but hes not talking as much and hes the kind of guy where if we dont see eachother often he loses interest. i want to see him really soon but we both have to find the time and ik im overreacting but i just want to make this a long term relationship. its summer he lives pretty close so i guess i just dont know if i should call him and everything. hes only called me twice. (link)
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Girl! Call him!!! And just see whats up and if he wants to chill. And when you see him, make sure to show him a great time and he should for sure be intrested and if hes not than you will defintly find somebody better! Im sure of it. Your either going to be with him or you are going to find somebody better! And dont worry about him only calling you twice, i bet he still likes you, I dont know what it is about these guys but im guessing they are too lazy to pick up their phones and dial some digitz! Dont worry though! I hope that helps hun! if you have any other questions cheak out my advice column!
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hey girl!
i love ur hair! wut kinda shampoo u got? i want sum of that (link)
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Hey!!! I use Paul Mitchel, The smell is great, Just dont use too much conditonar because sometimes if you dont wash it out enough your hair might feel harder to brush through!
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Hey! I have had my boyfriend for almost a year and I truly love him. He recently told me that we need to take it to the next step in our relationshop, and I am very scared of HOLDING HANDS! I've heard nasty things about holding hands, bacteria and even STD's! Everyone holds hands, is there a special protection they use?
Thank you! (link)
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Hey, I honestly dont think holding hands can really be that bad,especially if you have ben with this guy for almost a year and you know where hes been and that he is clean. if you are nervous about bacteria use some purel, my bestfriend carries around a lil everywhere she goes just incase. And no i am pretty sure you can not get STD's by holding hands.
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Ok, my brother, he's 18, and he has Asperger's Syndrome. It doesn't mean he's mentally challenged or anything, but it caused social and behavioral problems, and basically, he is absolutely impossible to live w/. I can't go through one day w/o him making fun of me, beating me, stuff like that. I don't think I can live like this anymore. He's always stealing mine and my other brother's money and stuff like that. He's so annoying and it's so hard to explain what it's like living w/ someone like this. Maybe if you looked it up on the internet, you could understand better, but I just need help. Does anyone know what I can do? I need help bad. Thanx.
Erin (15 female) (link)
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Hey Erin! Im sorry, i will try to help but i have a story also, my sister, she is 18 too and just like your brother impossiable to live with. She was dignoised with bi polar when she was younger. And has a chemical imbalance in her brain which makes her act immature and mean. She can be a real witch at sometimes. But latley we have been getting along because I have been trying to get closer to her. And it works but she steals money from me and is mean and nasty to me but thats all part of her personality so i have pretty much have to try to learn to deal with it. But maybe if you act super nice to your brother even when he is mean to you than he will see and realize and maybe even feel bad, i do that with my sister and usually itworks and she will come in and apoligize to me.but you just have to try your hardest and talk to your parents also. I understand how hard it is. Sometimes when i look at my sister i ask myself why my family, but no matter what i will always love her, but i bet your brother has some good in him so you just have to believe. And Erin, if you need to talk about it anymore than talk to me on my aim xXcMLw420 , ill be glad to share n try to help you out. Knowing we are pretty much on the same page! Dont worry hunny, everything always gets better in the end!
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Well there is this boy named Joseph and i really like him and so i have heard he likes me to we talked some he has come over the house a few times. and we have kissed a few times. But see he used to like my friend named jasmine and she dont like him he say he over her but i dont think so. How can i get him to ask me out with out me askin him?
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hey, I think you should wait a bit to see if he really likes you, and if he says hes over your friend jasmine than you have to take his word, because she says she dosent like him and he is saying he is over her so you really just have to trust him, and if you can than talk to him about being more than friends. Go somewhere where you two can be alone, like someplace special or where your first kiss was! And it might remind him how he acutally does like you, and he might even ask you out! And after him telling you that he is over jasmine dont ask again! Because it might seem to him that your insecure, and yo never want to make a guy think that your the insecure one! so hang in there! things will work out for the best!
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