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im that little girl in the corner. The boy i like is the popular boy. What should i do?
confused in the corner

you try to get him to notice you and stuff. talk to him more so he gets to no you... you kinda didnt tell me much so i dont have much to say but i all you should do is just show him who you are.

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ok, after viewing symptoms and stuff, im pretty sure i have depression. my friends that dont know have gotten worried about me,and the ones who do know well...they just dont talk about it so i dont know what they think. my question is that ive gotton rele cloze with some people and theyve been worried about me, and im not sure if i shud tell them and risk ruining our friendship over it,or tell them. any advice?
(female age 14)

well you should tell your friends what/how your feeling. i dont think telling them will ruin your friendships at all. if they are truly your friends dont you think they would understand? them getting worried about you is showing that they care about you. if you do tell them there just going to try to help you more. its jsut going to be harder for you to g through this alone, if you tell your friends im sure they will help you along the way and things will turn out better for you. so my advice is to defonlitly tell them because i think they will understand. dont be scared to tell your friends things about you. i hope i helped you =]

xox

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well me and my friend have been friends since we were like 2. we got in this huge fight because .. well she didnt really hang out with me anymore. so i just told her howi felt .. and she didnt take it seriously... she just pushed me away. she started hanging out with other people and stuff .. poeple i didnt really like. she was flirting with guy i liked in front of me just to get me jelous. .. well it worked.. i know this isnt the way a friend should treat you .. but i just couldnt let this friendship slip.. i tried but .. i just couldnt do it . i know she treats me like crap .. but i still love her to death. She kinda went boy-crazy- some people agreed with me- i just dont know what to do anymore- we are talking .. but thing will never be the same- i just wish thing would be like they used to.. whenever i think about how we told each other everything .. and we would always be there .. i cry my heart out .. i just need help .. i dont know what to do? please help me

if you guys are really meant to be best friends you will be soon enough. it will never be to late for you guys because i know how close you two were. people change, and so do you. always forget and forgive. but dont do it as quickly so it means nothing do it in time so things will go right. every girl is gonna be boy crazy sooner or later and all you can do is go through it with her. just try to ignore the stupid stuff she does. dont ever cry because she is never gonna be worth the tears. try to make new friends and or just hang out with the other ones you already have. theres really not muhch you can do. its hard to face the facts of how things can jsut slip away from you but if they were meant to be there always gonna come back.

i really hope i helped =]

xox

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hey,,well umm theres this kid i lik rlly lik nd he broke up with his gf lik last week i think nd hes lik always lookin at me nd askin me for hugs wenever he see me nd once he lik blew me a kiss - but that was wen he was wit his gf- nd im not rlly sure if he liks me or if hes just messin wit ma head,,, idk wut to do should i ask him if he liks me but i dont wanna feel stupid if he says no, lik im scared that he'll say that,,, idk im tryin to think of a way to find out if he liks me or not, so i wont risk makin a fool out of maself,,,,,,,,

try to test him to see if he likes you.. flirt with hima dn see how he reacts.. even if he reacts at all. from what you say about him i think he likes you =] dont be so worried just try to be yourself and sooner or later he will ask you out =] lol

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What do you do when the person you love isn't mad at you but you know your involved but you are too shy to hug him?

just hug him =] pretend its me or something you know you'll love it =] lol its all over now just try to hang loose with all teh other guys for now you know lol

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Well, I had this boyfriend and we haven't hugged yet. It's not that i dont want to..its just that im wayy too shyy =/ all my friends are like ohh go now! and i feel bad saying not right now..i really want to hug him and my friends make me feel sooo confident but when i see him im like ahh and get shy =/ what do i do? -CuRiOuS

seems like you have awesome friends =] =] =] =] lol !! jp hehe if you hug your first time it will you wont be shy to do it over and pver again.. its just a hug really not so much of a big deal you no.. you should give him hugs as esaily as you give me hugs =] lol

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Yeah but I really want to talk to him over the 2 days we have off..but i dunno wut 2 do..i - ugh!! i luv him and he dosnt even care..its so hard to hear that from my friend because i luv him..i really just want him 2 call me sumtime..but i gess its 2 much 2 ask 4..if i call him and see if he wants to hang out..?? i dunno thanx 4 the help u rele r helpin

omg... i love you to death.. i no how hard it is with him but you are the best for having to go through it all. you should try to do the best you can to show him how much you care for him... you erally ahve to work up your courage and just give him a hug, show him you like him.. the reason he flirts with other girls is to get you jealous, you no it worked. win him back lol !!! jk!! but really he only does these things to maek you like him more and more and you should show how much you like him.. because we both no its a lot. but he doesnt. dont be shy around him. he's your boyfriend you have to feel comfortable with him, call hima s much as you would call your best friend. hug him as nautrally as saying hi. talk to him like you gosssip with friends. get closer !! sooner or later.. you'll fall in love =]

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Hey. Well there's this guy (you know) and I'm really worried he likes *her*..My friend tell's me that he flirts with her in seventh and eight period. I tried to call him..but I get too scared to actually talk to him..because I don't really know how to ask him if he likes her..what can or should i do?!?

if you think your boyfriend likes another girl its the best thing to do is NOT to go up to him and ask him if he likes her.. like do you think he would tell you? lol so i think what you should do is try to test him to see if he is telling you teh whole truth. i mean i no he does flirt around sometimes but remember he did pick you over every other girl and he didnt just pick out of a hat.. he really does care for you. i dont think you should let this flirting bussiness get in the way with your relationship.. if he is flirting with your friends you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, just dont straight out ask... do you like her, and believe and no that he doesnt becasue well.. he doesnt lol !!

call him, ask how his day is going see if he wants to hang out try to show him you really like him and you guys will get closer and make your realtionship better. hug him, flirt wit him, and he'll stop flirting with other girls becasue he knows he shouldnt be

if he doesnt stop... and he keeps treating yo this why.. think to yourslef why are you going out with someone who treats you this badly. if yourrelationship doesnt get better maybe sometimes you to learn if its worth it the hard way. brake up. you guys have been togetether a long time and he shoudl be treating you better.

i hope i help you =/

lyl xoxo

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well i need some help?

see there is this guy i have liked since i met him and i just found out like a few months ago he liked me to. so i was so glad but then he kind of got a gf and he kind of ignored me so i kind of moved on. well hes been calling me everyday telling me he loves me and im the girl for him and i just fall in love with him all over again, but then he tells me he likes all these other girls and so im not sure he knows what he wants well last nite he asked me if i liked him and if i would go out with him i said no and he asked why i told him he didnt know what he wanted, so lets just be friends and he said he did he wants me and he hates being only friends but i dont think so im just scared that when i go out with him he mite get tired of me and go with someone else thats what he does with other girls he likes them and then he doesnt like him and he wants me again so what should i do go out with him or just stay friends???

My opinion is you should stay as friends. Friends is the best thing you can be with anyone. Even if it is for someone you really like. If you went out with him there aren't promises that he won't hurt you. So why would you ruin a friendship that can last forever on something that might not last as long as you hope.

i hope i help you

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Hey, I need a new screen name, can anyone give me some ideas? I don't care what about. Just like nothing sad or stuff like that. Thanks a bunch. I rate 5's!!

favorite song ? put your fav. song

GoLd x DiggAh

name ? [Jennifer Lyn]- put your name

JeNnIfEr x3 LyN

singer ? put your favorite

x0 50 CeNt

Color ? put your favorite

PiNk 4 PrinCess

something like that
hope i helped

xox

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Ok so there is this guy that i like but he doesnt even no that im alive but i realy like him and ive liked him since 3rd grade when i moved to my school. i realy want to tell him how i feel but im scared of rejection and once again be more dorky then i am if its even possible!can u help me Withs alot of lovin J.H

i am really shy to. but i think you should try to get him to notice you a little more. are you in any classes with him? try to sit next to him and get noticed. pass by him in the hallways try to smiles at him and get to no him and let him get to no you. you shouldnt be afraid of rejection... your right, it is a scary thing but your never gonnna no how he feels until you talk to him. if he doesnt like you back its his loss not yours becasue you no your something real special
hope i helped ;]

xox

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Im doing a survey to see how different people take on trying to loose weight quickly. Quick is probably not the most healthy way of getting fit, but still I'd like to see what kind of expierences you all have had when you needed to shed a few pounds fast.

Did you have a certain diet? I know that cutting carbs seems to be all the craze.

Any diet pills that you took that seemed to have work?

Did you exercise. If so, what kind of exercises did you do and for how many hours a day?

Any other strange ways that you lost weight fast? Let me know please. I'll rate everyone 5's.

Hey, i am in the same situation as you are. i am trying to loose weight to. what works for me the best is to eat healthier. buy things that you can eat that have low calories. make up a system for your self saying "i can only have this many calories a day" or something like that. give your self goals. its always goo to drink a lot of water because it can help to be less hungrey. i do exersise. i go for walks when i wake up after breakfast, and then one after i eat dinner. each day try to go a little longer then the day before and a little faster to get used to it. for example: the first night go for a slow walk to only 1 block away from yours house the next day go a little faster in walking and go two blocks and back. pretty soon you will be running a mile. lol i do crunches to, becasue i am so anxious to loose it i do as much as i can. but always believe in yourself that you can do it, having doubts willl always make it worse, dont worry if results dont come so soon, but they will x3


xox

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