Gender: Female
Location: michigan
Age: 15
Member Since: August 1, 2008
Answers: 25
Last Update: January 23, 2009
Visitors: 1760
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I've been friends with this guy since I was in 10th grade. I'm 23 now, so we've been friends for awhile. Recently, I got a phone call from this friend. He said that he was upset and he needed to talk. To make a long story short, he needed to borrow $80 to get himself to and from a funeral that was three hours away. I of course lend him the money.
The problem is, he lied about WHY he needed the money. There was no funeral he was attending. His friend didn't die like he said. He was going to some 3-day camping trip with like 500 other people.
He said he would pay me back on the first of the month and that's fine. But should I approach him about the fact that he lied to get money? Or leave it alone? (link)
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you guys seem extremely close, so say to him that he doesnt need to lie to you about why he needs the money, the reason shouldnt matter and that you trust him enough to pay you back
..hope it helps!:)
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Last year I started cutting myself. My friend told me why she cut, and after I was extremely depressed and so I decided to try it. To my surprise it actually calmed me and felt good. And for the next year it was a coping mechanism for me. But I stopped three months ago and vowed never to hurt myself again. But it is so hard not to. Sometimes its all I think about. what can I do to keep me from cutting again?? Please help me. (link)
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DONT ever punish yourself because of something you are upset about. instead of cutting, write down how you feel or write poetry, or vent to your best friend, or write down your bad feelings or whats hurting you and burn it. watch it burn. that will make you feel better.
i hope this helps!:)
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If I (guy) see a movie with a friend (girl), should I buy her ticket? It seems like doing so would be awkward, and not doing so would also be awkward. So which is the least awkward? (link)
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yes of coarse you should buy it, you guys are on a date and that is the right thing to do, she may ask are you sure so just do it, she will be very happy with you for that:)
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hi, if you have ever seen those sunglasses they look plastic but its like there are strips across the lenses
i'm seeing a lot of people wearing them, does anyone know where i can get them
i'm sure they aren't expensive or brand named or anything like that (link)
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the store: metro park
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okay, so for most of the summer me & this kid have been hanging out a lot w. mutual friends and every time he alwayss flirts with me hardcore, cuddles with me, puts his arm around me and acts like he likes me. he's a flirty person but still..it felt like more because of how much chemistry we had. even our friends say so and think we look soo cute toghether..then last night we hung out and it was totally different. he was nice to everyone BUT me &acted like he hated me! he even flirted with my friend right in fronttt of me..& avoided me like i was a disease or something! :[ i don't understand how it could go from one extreme to the next. except that a lot of people found out i like him..and i think maybe someone told him..now i have no idea what to do..its so awkward but we dont know eachother well enough for me to talk to him about it..thatd just be weird. what do i do? i have to keep hanging out with him because hes still friends with my friends and whatnot. i just hate that its awkward now. i tried to be nice to him, but he acted creeped out and wouldnt even make eye contact with me. im sooo confused at what to do here. (link)
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wow, he probably realized you have a thing for him or that the flirting could turn into something more, and got scared. i think you should just make him want you, like show off in front of him (for example: like laugh and look his way stuff like that) but reallly i think hes just scared because things are progressing well. maybe even make him think you like someone else..then he will be jealous and not as much scared. hope it helped:)
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