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I got a pup when I was in about 4th grade. I'm in my junior year now. He's 9 years old. I find this strange that when I look at other dogs and meet them.. they are just animals.. pets.. dogs to me.. But when I'm with my dog, he's not just someone [hah, an animal] you go "aww cute" and pet.. Isn't that strange? I treat my dog almost like a person and he gets the affection he deserves.. but other dogs.. I don't know how to explain this.. But why am I thinking like this? Is it just because I grew up with him and he became so familiar? He does not act like a normal dog you can say. He's not hyper and he's not confusing to me or unpredictable. I can tell when he's sad, sick or in pain. I feel out of place. I met my cousins new puppy and he was wagging his tail.. being hyper.. To me, that dog was just a pet you take care of. But my dog, he's a part of the family and sometimes i feel like i can understand him just by looking at his eyes... It makes me feel weird, is this wrong?

NO! This is not wrong! You actually are a very good owner! This may be brought on by you and the dog knowing each other for so long, but if you want to have some fun with this you can call your dog a "familiar". To have that connection with a pet is not only good for you, but for the pet itself. I believe that everything has its own spirit. Your dog probably does too! By being able to relate to your dog in ways other people can't relate to their pets is not bad! It's good! If everyone could do that with their pet, the pet and person would be much happier. Don't find it weird. Continue to understand your dog, and if you feel uncomfortable then you can pretend the feelings aren't there. But go with your feelings and remeber that animals may be animals but they still have minds of their own!

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ok last night i had to this nightmare that totaly freaked me out it scared me alot and it was really weird and i dont know why it scared me but it did and i was crying my eyes out in the whole dream basically it started out me my mom my dad and my sister who is only a year and two days older then me were driving through somwhere like taco bell or something then for some reason my parents got out of the car and went inside then my sister got in the driver seat and floored it starting to drive and crashes into another car killing the person in front of us then looks back and me grins at me and started laughing and i have no clue why that scared me so much but it did like maybe i wasnt even scared but i was crying in the whole dream does anyone know what this nightmare meant or anything or maybe why it scared me so much i know it sounds really weird or something but yeah

I think that dreams are your mind and feelings trying to speak to you.I heard that if you are in a passenger seat of the car, your usually passive. Or play a passive role in your life, or not you could be just used to sitting there! Lol, but apparently deep down maybe your haveing some issues with your sister. What sisters don't! You may feel that sometimes she takes over, and you might think she doesn't take over well. You might think she can be restless and not notice her actions. You may feel guilty or responisible for something, or being to hard on yourself.Either way it is an anxiety dream, and whatever is bothering you, you should get it off your chest.

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I've been with my boyfriend for ten and a half months now and I find myself trying to start problems with us. Like yesterday for example, my boyfriend was completely happy and everything was perfect for him and I don't know I just decided to push myself away from him. He spent the whole entire day asking me what was wrong. I don't know I guess I don't like him being happy unless its just me making him happy. I just don't know what to do. The fact that I'm not happy most of the time unless its because of him kind of makes me want him to feel the same way I guess.

Hey B.F. of 10 1/2 months,

It's a common case of jealousy. It may be hard at first, but I think if you try to feel happy for your boyfirend not only will you statr feeling happy in return, but he will be even happier that you're happy when he is. I know easier said then done, but in love you sometimes have to be selfless, and if you really love him, which its obvious you do, then you will try to feel happy for him. If that's to hard try saying I'm sorry, but don't let this ruin your relationship ;)! Keep going! Start to feel his feelings.

~Bluemoonw747~

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