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i hurt my wrist playing volleyball about a month ago. my dad told me it was sprained and it would stop hurting in about a week or so. but my wrist has been hurting for a month. i can't do pushups or lift anything without it hurting. what do u think i've done to it? i rate high!
I think about your wrist injury is not that severe. The weightlifting is what you shouldn't do since your wrist is hurting. That would make it severe. It's best if you go to the doctor, and try to convince your parents to go to the doctor. If they're not taking you, then tell them that your wrist is hurting for atleast a month. Also, how did u sprain your wrist? Did you sprain it while you were serving or spiking it or etc? It seems like you have sprained it by the volleyball hitting your wrist with such force while you were spiking. Just be careful the next time when you play as your wrist feels better.
ive been very unhappy latley. maybe that is normal for emo kids, but i dont know. i just wish i could be happy.. is it because i dont have someone to love me?? is there anyway i can be happy at all?
If you're very unhappy, do you try to make yourself happy? Are you failing every single shot you get to be happy? Why don't you do something that you like to do? Do you have any favorite hobbies? Why don't you keep yourself busy in what you like? If you have errands, think about what makes you happy while you're at them, and don't spread your grouchy attitude to other people. Make new friends! Go to the movies to watch a comedy! Look through your scrapbooks and yearbooks to find all the great stuff you've done in the past. Make yourself laugh! Every single time you feel unhappy, keep yourself busy with the things you love, and don't think that nobody loves you because God does.
I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???
Yeah, who's gonna know? I think it's fine to wear that $125 necklace you got there. Don't be so worried about who's gonna see it. If you like it, then wear it, and if you think it brings back too many memories, its your choice whether to wear it. Even if coincidencially you find your ex bf in the middle of N.Y.C, no sweat! He may like it anyway that you still remember him.
How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16.
Dear female 16,
to be honest with you, he's using you for sure! He might like you because of your looks maybe, or maybe you protrude something that he has an attraction for. When you want to have a conversation with your bf, cover up! Since it's cold outside now, wear a turtle neck and if you wear lipstick, wear some chapstick or lip gloss. Tell him that you really need to talk and keep a distance from him because he may get lost into your looks. If he doesn't listen, tell him straight how you feel about your relationship with him.
You can also do one more thing: Dress ugly. If he's in for your looks, dress the dorkiest, ugliest clothes you can find. If he freaks out, he's in for your looks, and if he's not, ask him what's going on and why is he treating you like a sex object. If he's in for your looks, it's best you should tell him how you feel and how you should be treated. If he doesn't listen, you should break up, and don't feel sad if you broke up with him. He's not worth it.
ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do?
I know how you feel, and this has happened to me before too. Talk to a counselor about it, or talk to your parents, such as your mom to reduce the guilt. Those are not your friends anyway if they hate you for your money. They're actually jealous of you as I observe it, and be happy of what you have. Real friends are people who like you because of who you are, not what you have. You don't have to tell people about how much money you have, and even if they figure that you're rich, say that you're proud of it instead of feeling left out from your friends.
This isn't really advice, but... well, what makes Avril a poser? Some GC fans (not you) are so hypocritical -- they hate Avril for being a poser but they listen to Good Charlotte! What can I do about them?
ttyl,
sruv
Nothing! You can't really change about what people think you know. If you want, you can share avril's music to your friends that they might like, but not the music videos. Appearance can decieve many people.