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alright me and this boy lets call him "a" have been going out for a year and 7 months.he lives in georgia and i live in conneticut. we lived in the same state then moved. well i started getting worried because he is now in a band and is always being wanted by chicks. well i called him one morning and he thought i was checking up on him so he wanted a break. we had a break and he did alot to uncalled stuff with like 2 chicks. he didnt have sex tho. he says hes waiting for me. anyway we talked it all out and he bought me a ticket to go see him so we can be together because after all this thats just what we needed. the thing is while on the break i did stuff with a guy here that really likes me. he asked me out and i had to say no because i still love "a" so now everything is good with me and "a" but people here are saying i should just break up with him because hes not here and the stuff he did while on a break. (what he did was worse then what i did) i have no idea what to do. i like this other guy but i am in love with "a" and i dont want to just end a almost 2 year relationship on something that might not even last a week. what should i do?

if you feel this way then dont listen to what other ppl have to say. they are not the ones that are in the relationship, so they dont kno what you and "a" have together. what you and him have together must be special becuz, obviously, you dont want to let go of it. and thats ok. you both have made mistakes and talked about them. go with what your heart tells you...i kno you want "a." you wouldnt be asking for help if you didnt want him, but you do and that's all that matters.

hope i helped
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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
thanx

If you dont know what to say to her then dont say anything. just be there for her, she needs to kno that someone is there to help her through this. I kno that it is gonna be hard for her ,and for you becuz of the fact that you have to watch her go through it, but you and your friend will get through this.

hope i helped and good luck!
keep her safe
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