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personaly when i design a t-shirt i love buying boys t-shirts, they fit great because their a little tigter around the waist, but gives you space around the arms. check walmart! :]

if you want to design something yourself download photoshop or psp. then you can express your creativity on your own! search for local shops who do screen printing in your area and visit them with some of your ideas! :)

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i am a 16 year old teenage girl .. my parents are divorced and my dad is verbally abusive, like he says he doesnt love me and i dont have a relationship with him. im EXTREMELY involved in my parish and have gotten close with my pastor over the past 3 years, hes like a father figure. but i dont like it because i get so jealous when he even TALKS to another kid or asks for their help and not mine, im afraid he wont like me anymore. i hate this feeling of jealousy its like controlling my life. ive never had good self esteem but im afraid he will stop liking me and like someone else better. how can i make this stop and not feel jealous anymore?

it sounds like you have attached yourself to a male figure who will listen and cares. just because he is speaking to other children does not mean he does not care about you and your problems.

a pastor is there as a helper to god, god loves all of his children, and has to listen to every persons prayers. do you think god should only listen to yours? that isnt quite fair, now is it.

you really should talk to your mother about this, if you feel comfortable enough with her. and express how you feel. also, school counselors are amazing. i know it sounds lame, but they have a degree in this stuff and are great to talk to. they dont judge you because of what you say, and plus they help you get into college.

feel free to talk to an adult figure, but dont get jelious that he is helping others. that is what he is here for. :}

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well im 14/f and im starting to look around at colleges now so that i have a secure grip on my future.
These are the things i want to be:
-Magazine Editor (maybe publish my own?)
-Orthodontist
-Writer
-Archaeologist

what classes should i take for each of them? And which would be the most promising?

also any school suggestions are greatly appreciated. =]

Well honestly, an orthodontist makes great money. In college you have to take all intro classes before doing any to do with your major. Such as Algebra, Sociology, Physcology, Biology+lab, College Writing, Literature..

Just do well on the SATs and get into a school you want to. check out www.collegeboard.com there you can do a college search and put in specifics, like do sports matter? how far away do you want to be from home.. little things.

Prepare yourself by doing well in high school, i slacked and im not at my first choice school because of that! :]

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I want a really pink lipstick of lipgloss that really shows its pink. I live in MO and i've checked walmart and walgreens ... so what places should i check.?

check victorias secret! they have a great selection and variety of colors. personally ive gotten mine from victoria secret, american eagle and target. love target!!

if you have money to spend, check out MAC.

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so i had sex with this guy ive been inlove with for 3 years the other day
im 14
anyway
it hurt but like felt good at the same time
i obviously broke my hymen cause it bled.
well
does it bleed the second time?
does it hurt the second time?

it wont hurt as bad, but you also have to get use to the motions and your vagina walls do to. so they can stretch.

it wont bleed. but it wont feel amazing.
make sure he takes it slow and makes it feel good.
slow is goooddd!

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What rhymes with jewels?

tools.
pools.
cruel (cruels isnt a word)
cools

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do whitening toothpastes work any?

with my experience they dont.
i do use whitening strips and they work great.
try crest.

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what are some easy ways to get rid of stretch marks? thanks

cocoa butter creme. check walmart.

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so my mom told me my aunt is trying to talk my cousin into buying me this thing for my birthday. my mom said she didnt know if i would like it or not and she said if she seen it at the mall today she would show me but she didnt see it. She looked in spencers, and she was looking around the section with all the playboy stuff. this is something my cousins boyfriend got for her but shes 21 and im turning 16. does anyone have any idea on what it could be? haha thanks!

Oddly enough, my first thought when anyone mentiones spencers is a dildo...

Anything playboy, a purse, belly-ring, or even a neon-sign. Playboy makes everything. I mean they may even get you a playgirl calender..

check the website online

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is it normall for the girl to start squirting in my face

squirting? wow.
well, a girl naturally cums, and is "lubricated".. "down there".. when a girl is turned on, its more on the idea of waterworks. A complete shot at you.. sounds more like shes peeing..

Cum is great, men should enjoy it.

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Okay, so im 17/f and I just broke up with my boyfriend.
I've masturbated before, but im looking for some new ways to have orgasms.

Any ideas or suggestions would be helpful.

Also, is it bad to masturbate while u have your period?

thanks!

You can pretty much masterbate at any time, its your own choice. While your on your period I would avoid entering though.

Dildos are great. Simple as that. I know you may not want to buy one though.
Alot of girls find it nice to take a warm bath and rub your fingers up against yourself.

A trick I use to use is my remote! I know sounds weird. but take a small pillow, two feet on the ground and lean over the corner of your bed. Place the remote underneith the pillow and point it directly at your croch. and lay your body on it so most of your pressure is on your vagina. It stimulates the clit and feels great

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Okay so I have a really big butt and like medium size boobs do guys like girls with big butts or do they like the no figure little twigs? 15/f

honestly, a big butt is amazing. it fills the jeans SOOOO much better!! :] alot of guys DO NOT like girls that are extremly skinny, mostly because alot of them OVERTAN and think they look amazing when in reality they look stupid.

Its nice having meat on your bones, you look healthy and happy.
a big butt is a good thing, show it off! once your in college.. guys will flock all over you for that! skinny-mini is NOT in!

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how do i kiss??????

It will just happen. Watch disney movies. Even cinderella kisses.

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arrite i have really small boobs, i was wondering if anyone knew how to naturally make them grow, if thats even possible. i know that victorias secret used to sell this cream that would just soak into your skin and it would enhance them, well they discontinued it and i was wondering if theres anything like that. im not looking for pills or anything that my parents might have to be envolved with. please help :]

JUST WAIT! I know you didnt state your age, but honestly just wait. My entire life ive had a really small chest up until this past year, im 19 now and my breast size has definitally grown. your not done growing yet!! My best and favorite trick to look like you have more up there.. tanktop with bra underneith. I wear small in everything, so I buy xsmall tanktops (from aero) and most of my bras are gel extra padding from target ($17).. they push em up and make you look like you have bigger breasts!

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What types of shoes are good to wear to walk around in for a whole day that aren't sneakers?

Alot of people prefer clogs (in the winter/fall) because they are a bit more stylish. I personally love sketchers, they have sneaker type shoes that dont require you to tie the laces. They are around $50 but theyre worth it! I've had mine for over a year and they look good as new. Of course, if its summer/warm there.. flip-flops all the way.

Heals always work. As long as you can walk in them

If its winter, try uggs. Theyre comfy!

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I think im getting an orgasm but i really dont know.

when my boyfriend licks my clit or when im in the shower and i put the shower head to a setting and put the water stream running on my clit it feels good to the point where if i kept doing it, i'd probably scream. but when i get to the point where i cant handle it anymore i start getting all squirmy and it feels really good.

but is that an orgasm?

YES. an orgasm is pretty much an intense stimulation and feeling that feels like you cant take anymore of it, and its the best thing in the entire world.. all mixed into one.. just when you think you cant take anymore, keep going a bit longer.. and youll really feel something amazing.

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Alright so this may be an intresting question...

I want to know if each of these things is considered good or bad, ok?

-My b.f has an 8inch penis (hurts me sometimes)
-He doesnt cum for like 2 hours (this is the one that worries me a lil)
-he never gets tired after sex

haha thanks in advance!

Every mans penis is a diffrent size, and honestly size DOES NOT MATTER! If it hurts, ask him to not put the entire thing in, you can still get stimulated and have an orgasam without him inserting the entire thing inside of you! geesh!
Alot of guys can last a long time because they, "pre-game", they masterbate right before sex, meaning they are able to last longer. Maybe try and go a few days/weeks without it, and see if he can last then... make him want it & he'll go faster.. if you have sex all of the time, he gets use to it.

Some people just dont get tired after sex, it effects people in diffrent ways. Some people get really excited or energenic after sex, just let your guy know your tired and want to cuddle!

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Hi..I'm getting married in August and I was wondering if anyone knows any dvd's that are great exercising videos..i will rate high!

Ti-Bo. Sorry, cant spell. but those are great. It definitally keeps you in shape and ready to kick some butt! :)

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dear sir/maddam
could you please help me to find out what i could use to make my legs fatter because they are very skinny compared to other parts of my body.
thank you

running like crazy. ive always been an athlete, but i find my legs to be big but not because their fat, but because they are extremly muscular. go to the gym and do workouts targeting your legs, like leg pushes.

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