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I Love To Play Basketball! My Cousin First Got Me Into It!! I Also Like Hanging With My Friends And Shtuff!! Just Kickin It One On One Or At A Party!



You Are Your Worst Critic
- - A Wise Friend Of Mine


You Need To Feel Good About Yourself Before Anyone Else Can/Will, Because Once They Find Out You Feel Good About Yourself, They'll Know No Matter What They Say, It Isn't Gunna Bring You Down
- - My Mom
(( Not To Sound Too Harsh ))




Website: MySpacE
E-mail: Bestfriendmaker@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Minnesota
Occupation: 10th Grader
Age: 15
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Member Since: June 28, 2004
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Last Update: September 26, 2005
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Ok this is a very serious matter that needs your advice now! Is it OK for my discharge to have a green tint to it? Write back ASAP!! (link)


are you talking about your cum or your poopage? if it's your poop, yes that is normal.. if it's your cum.. not so much!

hope i helped..
*Rach


Okay, I have these 3 other friends, and they are always fighting and argueing and i get pushed into the middle of it...what should i do?

thanks,

in the middle chica (link)


- - The best thing you can do is ask them/ tell them you'd like to stop being put in the middle. there should be a way to have them stop fighting, like.. maybe sit them down and go around and have them all say what they don't like about the other and then what they actually do like. I've been in this situation, and it's not a easy one to deal with I kno. BUT with the right advice and asking of questions, you'll be able to make it thru. and so will the other 3 friends you have. Ask to not be put in the middle, and ask them to please at least try to put aside thier diffences and try to get along. If you ask them and help them thru it, you'll all become closer friends. God puts us thru these things to make us stronger. My friend Christina tells me that all the time, and it helps to keep it in mind! =) Good Luck, and always remember - - I'm always here to help you! Please rate my advice!!


Help!! what do you do if you ex boyfriend says that you are loose when you aren't because he is the only guys you've ever kissed!!?? and he goes around saying that yeah stuff that isnt true? If I dont get a good answer of somthing to do I just mite kick his nuts!!

-Mite kick my ex!

(link)

- CALM DOWN!! It's ok... get evidence that you aren't loose. Get friends to back you up and shtuff.. if he keeps doin it, you need to show that it doesn't bug you, cuz if you show it does.. he'll just do it more and more!!

let me kno how it goes!


Ok here is my problem. The other night at my friends house we decided to play truth or dare. I was dared to make out w/ my best'guy'friend. We decided since it was just a dare and that it wouldn't mean nothin we would do it. So it turned out different than I thought. My friend got carried away I guess...he was really into it and very passionate. I don't know if he really thinks it meant somethin more or what! bUt I feel weird around him now & talking to him. Soo please help me out! ;) thanks (link)


- - well, i think you should have a talk with that best guy friend. Cuz after all, if it seemed more to him, well maybe it does to you as well. Tell your best guy friend how you feel!! he'll understand!! =) good luck!


I just found out my Girlfriend is really a MAN!! she (he) told me that he asked u for advice!! how could u!! i dont kno waht u wrote but thanks alot!! *sarcasticly* you ruined my life!!! I feel so messed up because i still have feeling for him but it goes against all my morals!! but i am strangely still atracted to him!! do u think i could be gay? I dont kno what to do!! should i tell him how I feel? should i break up with him? PLEASE HELP!!

---
confused love (link)


- - your not gay. you can't help who you love, but you can help what you do about it! so, just tell her(him) what you just told me.. sorry for messing it up if i did!!



i'm 19/m and i have a huge fear of regection. in fact i've only had two girl friends, and i'm still a virgin, any ideas on how to get over my fear? (link)


try going with a girl younger than you. we/they are always looking for older guys to have a good time with! =)

hope i helped!!



Ok here's the deal... My ex you see.. well I still like him..

but anyways.. heres how the story goes.. on july 16 was our 1month.. the night b4 he promised it would just be us too.. so he called the next morning i went to his house to meet him and he brought his brother and his friend along.. and so we got in a fight.. then we made up cuz i said srry for being a b!tch and well yeah so.. then saturday and sunday went by.. saturday we had a talk about the fight the day b4.. then manday comes along.. we are getting along AWESOME i mean better than ever!! so we are still at my house watching a movie cuddling.. ok then he says I love you and ya know so i say it back.. and yeah but then like 2-3 hours later we get to talking he says that all his friend are tellin him to dump me cuz well they r just fags and lets not go there.. but anyways.. we are tlaking about it and so i say "well do u wanna break up?" and he says "i dont wanna say yes but i dont wanna say no" so we sat in silence for like 10 min and i said well u know i love u right and he said yes and i loved you too.. so ok 10 more minutes rolls by and he says "sorry but i think i'm gonna have to say yes" now yeah ok i got it.. i started to cry.. and was like can u stay for a bit so we can talk he said "no i need to go or i will cry" but anyways yesh then about 3 hours later i went to go meet him cuz we had to practice bmx.. and he was all jokin aroung.. sayin haha blah blah blah "you looked pretty upset" "we have a new nickname for u now it is crabby"(his friends and him) so yeah....


what i dont get is why he said I love you and sh!t so please help me if u can!! umm I wanna ask him back out cuz i think we shud give it another try cuz we both kinda took it too seriously b4 but yeah.. can you please help me?? My AIM screenname is HHSgolfer73


-Molly
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- - Molly - -

I think you need to be honest with your ex boyfriend. i can't tell ya why he'd say i love you and then 2 or 3 hours later break your heart in two. I'm sorry about the fight and everything, it sounds super hurtful!! just keep happy.

you could ask him back out, or
see how he feels about you now...

I vote for asking him back out if you think you two should try it again (which if you ask him out is what you should say, if ya know what i mean)

Good luck girlie! =)
I hope everything works out well!!!

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hi rachie, im 16 years old and i have been dating a man named jordan for a few weeks now. jordan is 25 years old (9 years older than me). we just started having sex a week or two ago and now i think im pregnant. i really like jordan, i think i may even be in love with him. what should i do rachie? what should i tell my parents? please help.



LoVe
-- possibly pregnant minor (link)

- - Possibly Pregnant Minor

Wow!! Now i kno how my sister feels. She asked me the very same thing, only she is 19 and got pregnant when she was 18. I think you should tell your parents the truth. sure, they may get mad, but that is what parents do. They will probably forbid you to see Jordan ever again, i mean he is 25 hun - - that is a little weird, but if your happy, good! About being pregnant, go get a pregnancy test and if your still in love with Jordan, make sure he is there when you tell your parents. So, That way - - they know the guy AND how old he is!

-- good luck
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- Rachie


OK... me and my b/f broke up.. but they day we did we were getting along fine and he told me he loved me... so i duno what to do.. why did he break up with me after he told me he loves me? I still reallllllly like him and we are still best friends but I don't know what to do.. please can u help

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- - Honestly, i have no clue what to tell you. I've never been thru anything like this. But, i'll give it my best shot...

- - Why he told you he loved you and then broke up with you is beyond me. Sumtimes guys are like that. My ex did that to me... and it sucked. since you still really like him, you should tell him. you two are still best friends which is good. Tell him how you feel...

- Good luck
*Please rate me
Much Love
Rachie


Ok... I just broke up with my b/f not that long ago... and I thought I was over him.. but I'm not... what should I do?? I think I still like him.. but I'm not sure if he feels the same...

P.S. don't use my name because you probably know who this is (link)


- - Honestly, I say you need to tell that guy how you feel. Even if he doesn't care, he needs to know...

Good luck..
Rach


Ok, first off don't say my name if u kno who i am..

Alright.. My ex lets call him bob, well i like his friend lets call him Vlad.. but I think my friend lets call her Kristy likes vlad too... but i know that vlad likes me also... what do i do??

help please! (link)

- - Ok, well, let's see here.. honestly, i'm having a hard time understanding that question, but oo well, i'll make what i can of it, please correct me if i'm wrong. Ok, so your Ex is Bob, and you like his friend Vlad, and you think your friend Kristy likes Vlad as well... and you know that Vlad likes you as well...

ok, i think i have it down..
Tell your ex's friend that you have feelings for him, and then ask kristy if she likes him and then tell her you like him..

Good Luck

- Rach


Rach- I just broke up with my b/f.. and I found out that his friend likes me... and I kinda like him.. but I'm not sure what to do!! Please Help!!

you know who this is BUT DON'T SAY! (link)

- - Well...
I Think You Need To Listen To Your Heart/Feelings. If You Like Him, Then You Need To Give Him A Fair Chance!

- Good Luck
- - Rach


my best friend introduced me to her ex-boyfriend... and she still liked him... me and him got to be very close and we started goin out. and it's been a month, but now she hates me, but she says shes over it. But she always tells pple that she can;t trust me... and see he makes me really happy, and i make himm happy. I don;t want to lose my freind ,but i want to stay with me bf... what do i do?
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- - First, Have a talk with your best friend, and then see if she is ok with you staying with him. tell her how happy you two are. maybe set her up with one of his friends or sumthin. try to get her happy.
- - Second, keep the boyfriend, if he means that much, keep him...

she prolly doesn't hate YOU
It's probably the situation

- Rach


Hello Rachel...
I really really REALLY like this guy who lives out of state...
He really really REALLY likes me to...
What should I do?..

-- Out Of State Love -- (link)


- - Out Of State Love - -

Well, Even If I Kno Who You Are, I Promise Not To Say Your Name, LoL. I Would Say, Ask Him If He'd Like To Try A Relationship, Even Tho You Live Here And He Lives 750 Thousand Miles Away. I Wish You Luck!!

- Rachie
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Rachel!!!! help me, what do u do when your b/f ditches u on ur 1 month! and doesnt even say n e thing! (link)


- - Welll... *Cough DANA Cough*.. I say Comfront him about it! see what happens.. but do not dump him without talking to him and getting the whole story

- - mucho amor
* Rach


Rachie- I've heard from people that you give good advice..

My b/y and me hang out a lot.. and i will say sometimes it is fun and sometimes it is annoying.. I heard from one of his friends that he is getting annoyed of hanging with me everyday too.. But I'm not sure if his friend is telling the truth cuz he has tried to break us up b4... what should I do? (link)


- - I would say talk to your boyfriend about it... you can't believe everything you hear and it is only fair to your boyfriend to ask him before jumping to conclusions..

GOod luck



Hello Rachel...
I ahve this friend and im not sure if she really wants to be friends with me or not...what should i do?...

--Friend Disaster-- (link)

- - Friend Disaster - -

I say, be honest with that friend. Tell her or him exactly what your feeling. That way, they can tell you what they are feeling too! =D

Good Luck!

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ok... see i like my boyfriend's(of 2 years) best friend.... and see his friend knows it, and likes me 2. and we dont; want to hurt my bf, cuz we both love him alot, but we want to be together... what should i do?


from
in love with a differnt man (link)


Be Honest With Your Boyfriend
Sit Down With Both Of The Guys, And Tell Them EVERYTHING!

GOod Luck



i was hanging out with my friends last night... adn we all were drinking and having a good time and then all of a sudden i started making out with my friend and then my other frineds until i was the only girl with lots of guys and it hink i was raped cuz i woke up naked.. what do i do!??!?! I THINK THEY TOOK PICTURES!

*~*afraid of rapage*~* (link)

- - Afraid Of Rapage - -

Go To The Doctor And Get Tested, They Do Sum Kind Of Test For Rape.. Then, If You Find Out You Were, Ask Your Friends If They Rememeber Anything.. About The Test - Your Parents Don't Even Have To Know. Do You Have The Pictures?

- - Good Luck!
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i still like my ex becuase we only broke up a couple of days ago but i dont know how to tell him that i still like him. and even if he doesnt like me i still want to be friends with him though because he is just an awesome guy. by the way, im a girl and im 14 if that helps. (link)


Ok,
Well.. I Think You Should Be Honest With Your Ex, Even If He Doesn't Like You. He Probably Has Hatred Towards You Because You Two Broke Up.

I Say, Be Honest With Him!

Good Luck
And Please Rate My Advice!





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