I'm a very wise old soul. I know about and understand many things. My motto : Good judgement comes from experience...And a lot of that comes from bad judgement. If we learn something from the bad judgement, it was not a wasted experience.
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If he didn't pop my cherry ? My period hasn't come in like a 1 week and 5 days exatcly.. and it should've already .. he has put it in alot of times with out condom, but he tells me he don't cum ? whats going on ? :( (link)
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He doesn't have to have an orgasm for you to get pregnant. Fluids that even he can't feel will still come out. You are taking a huge risk not useing condoms. There is a pill you can take that's available at most drug stores that you take the morning after. I think you can take it up to 3 days of unprotected sex. If you aren't ready to raise a child, use protection!
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My skin used to be beautiful, it was flawless and I had a nice glowing olive skin. I was also really skinny, my nanny used to call me a stick because of it. After my 12th birthday I started my period and therefore had breakouts. I wasn't bothered at first because they weren't really bad and mum said it was normal. Then, for about a year, I noticed scars and marks from the spots I had. I dont pick on them but still they scar, so now I have scars on my face, back and chest. I also gained weight, thought it was normal, until I noticed that my bum and thighs are getting bigger, and not only that, I had stretchmarks! It's not that im really fat or anything, Im 5"1 and 8stone and i have stretchmarks. And then, last year i had chickenpox and every single blister turned to scars, now i have scars all over my body! Im really self conscious now and dont wear shorts and skirts without tights, I dont wear bikinis anymore too, and were goin on a summer holiday in asia, its stupid wearing jeans on the beach where its really hot. I think I may have really bad skin collagen structure or something that makes my skin scar more easily. Im so worried its gonna stay forever. Its affecting my self confidence. (link)
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You are probably the only one who really notices. The truth is, everyone has small breakout scars and everyone has some stretch marks. Even thin people. It's normal and it's natural. You need to use a good water based moisturizer and then keep in mind. The people on tv and magazines have quite a bit of make up on and most have been seriously re touched. I had a good friend who was a graphic designer, and he showed me how even the most attractive looking people have all the things you mentioned. It comes partly from hormones and partly from genetic but trust me, everyone has them to different degrees. You can have an all over body spray on tan and carefully apply the right type of make up for your complexion. Don't wear your jeans on the beach! You won't have near as much fun. Relax and be yourself, and feel your beauty on the inside where it really counts. As you get older your skin will constantly change, be aware and change the products you use as needed. Your confidence is the most beautiful part of you, so don't let insecurities bring you down.
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I just bought my first car, but I've never even done anything with a car before. I got my license and that's about it for my whole experience with vehicles. Anyway, I know my dad has his truck warm up before he goes anywhere in the winter. I don't know if he does this so the interior is warmer for him to sit in or if it has to do with the car needing to be warmed up so it doesn't break. So, do I need to make time to warm my car up in the morning before driving to school or can I just hop in and go? It's a 1999 model so it's kind of old and used too so I really don't want to mess it up right away. K Thanks (link)
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When the engine is cold, it needs time to warm up so that all those fluids you have to add to it and check regularly also get to warm up. And the added benefit is that you will also be more comfortable when you get inside. But the main point is that it's better for most engines.
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ok so me and my girlfriend broke up over a month ago and we would see eachother almost everyweek atleast ones after that and it was amazing. but she still didnt want to get back with me and 2 weeks ago she started talking to someone else. and it looks like shes really into that person and all her friends love that person and they didnt really like me. and i really want her back cause i love her. what should i do to get her back????? im a girl btw. (link)
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You can't MAKE anyone love you, give it up and look elsewhere.
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It started out with 1 guy noticing I had camel toe. Now every day it's pointed out to me. I don't know why I have it all the time. I asked my mom and she told me that it's normal but I know it's not because my friends don't usually have camel toe. Is there like something wrong with me and my part is bigger than other girls or something? AND how do I get rid of this stupid camel toe thing? It seems like everybody always focuses on it to laugh at me and stuff even when I dress really nice. Help (link)
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You must avoid wearing anything that fits snug in that part of your anatomy. Try skirts and loose fitting pants, they can be snug in the leg and or hip area just not the crotch.
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I've been seeing this guy for about a year. I care about him a lot, and he feels the same about me. However, he is a little sexist, and pretty self-centered in bed.
We are exclusive, and dated for about 3 months but are currently on a break (still exclusive!) because we fought so much and titles just stress him out and make him feel obligated (and I must say I'm happier being what we are now than when we are in a relationship). But it still bugs me because I feel I'm not good enough for him, but he still calls me his girl. He knows it bugs me, but he doesn't like talking about it.
Also, he has kind of sexist views, he asks me to cook and clean, although I only do the cooking part every once in a while and he usually helps out. Cleaning is too much, but I clean up after myself. Note: we don't live together.
In bed, he is selfish. Its all about him. He doesn't kiss me, no foreplay whatsoever unless its on him. He won't perform oral on me, he said the thought of it grosses him out (I have great hygiene!), and where he's from guys get made fun of for doing that. He knows I don't orgasm from sex, but don't get me wrong I still enjoy it. I just feel like he doesn't care. And I've told him what I like, but he doesn't do it.
I'm not sure what to do. It's not a deal breaker, in all other aspects he's pretty much perfect. He respects me, he's proven he cares about me time and time again. But sometimes I do feel unappreciated and taken for granted. I guess I feel some resentment toward him. But I do genuinely enjoy making him happy, it makes me happy, and he also makes me happy in other ways. What do you think I should do?
We are both in college. And yes even though we aren't officially together, we are still exclusive and committed to each other. He is NOT using me for sex, trust me on this. And I don't cook for him that often either. (link)
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These small things, if bothering you now, will only bother you more as time goes by. You have 2 choices;
1. You talk to him, and be very blunt about whats on your mind, or
2. You stop seeing him and seek greener and more comfortable pastures.
All relationships have their problems, but when it's that gnawing thing deep inside you that sends red flags, you should always listen. Your heart will seek reasons to stay but your head will lead the way to better relationships.
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