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My friends and family have all said I should try my hand at being an advice columnist. Said that I am regular Dear Abby and Dr. Ruth rolled into one. So here it goes I'm on here to help with whatever however I can.
E-mail: jewell2578@yahoo.com
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Location: Michigan
Age: 28
AIM: moetsminer
Yahoo: midnightmoet
Member Since: November 1, 2006
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Last Update: December 7, 2006
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I know this isn't the right catagory but its the only one I could think of.
So anyway im a 14/f,
I masturbate every now and then, and I've looked at porn once or twice. Well my question is that if I get turned on by girls who doing sexual things with eachother does that make me a lesbian or bi or something? I have crushes on guys and I have a boyfriend and I've never had feelings for a girl, but I get turned on by girls doing stuff like that. Is this normal? Thank you so much for the help! (link)
Although alot of women won't admit it we have that same attraction. Whether its acted upon or just something that is a turn on when seen on porn or movies is what determines as far as sexuality. Liking what you see in the movies is merely fantasy and there is nothing wrong with that. It doesn't mean you are bi or a lesbian at all.


ummmm well im a 15/f and i think that i may be pregnant and i know for sure that if i am and i tell the daddy he's going to say it not his(he's a bitch). Now normally i dont believe in abortion but i dont kno wat to do i mean my mom would be mad but she would help me but i dont know if im ready! they said that i can have it and take care of it, get an abortion, or adoption but i dont want to kill the baby or give it to someone els! im very confused! if i am how or should i tell the father??? should i keep it??? plz help me i dont know wat i should do!!! (link)
Actually I've been in your situation except I was 14 when I found out I was pg. You need to sit down with your mom and tell her whats going on. Then she can help you in getting tested because its better to know what your dealing with before you go to your bf about any of it. Of course the thought of having a baby is scarey and yes you have options. I opted to keep my daughter who is now almost 14 years old. A child is a huge responsiblity but if you are indeed pregnant and keep the child life will go on and you will figure things out. They (babies) make things more difficult but not impossible like alot of people tend to say. If you would like to talk about this further please feel free to IM me.


what are the signs of pregnancy? can u still be pregnant if you had your period but have all the symptoms of it except throwing up? (link)
The signs of pregnancy early on are urinating more frequently, nauseusness, vomiting (morning sickness) as well as a missed period. On most occasions you will miss the period but in some cases women have been found to have their periods even into their 6th month. You could either get an over the counter testing for pregnancy or have the doctor do a blood test which is more accurate. Good luck.




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