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Gender: Female
Location: indianapolis indiana
Age: 16
Member Since: November 21, 2008
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Last Update: July 25, 2010
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I know this might sound retarted but my school is defined by social clicks. More then a lot of others. I know people who haven't talked to kids and they've been in the school since the 6th grade. Which Im currently in 8th. I donno like. I hang with 7th graders [[only the chill though]] and when it comes to Social clicks... I don't have one. I have my close friends Becky. Steven. Emily. Syke. Another Steven. And I talk to everyone... If I wanted to run with the jocks I could, if I asked them to help me lose like 10 pounds they'd MAKE ME. [[which they have =]] If I wanted some make over from what i guess you could call the 'preps' I know like 5 girls that would. Madison has already begged=]. I just kick it with everyone and it was never a problem.
Then fights break out.
And Im left choosing sides.
So i told them it isn't far to make me choose, what friends do that. [[Everyone you would say lol]] And it didn't help.
I don't understand the 'social clicks'. and i know I sound like a meathead when talking about them because there always in the movies. Well there here as bad as any.
Well the fight Im most conserned about is..
Im friends with Rapheal. Steven asks me Why? [[Rapheal is black, which is NOT a problem with me whatsoever.]] So I tell Steven it's because he's ah-maze-zing. Steven starts talking crap about him so I immediatly call him out for it. [[This Steven isn't one of my close friends, he's an ass to me because Madison wont date him]]
Steven is.. 'THE BULLY' I know Retarted. Ive been saying this for a while. He's been in and out of placement for a while. He threatens me, to the point where I am afraid. I know I should have gone to a teacher, or something. But what kid does that? So stupidly, I went to Rapheal on the like brink of tears. I didn't know what else to do..
Rapheal and Steven got in the huge, physical fight. Which I know I shouldn't be happy about it, but Rapheal won. Now he's in trouble, and ergh. This all could have been avoided if I wasn't stupid.
Rapheal says he doesnt care that he got OSS, but I do.. I tried apoligising to his FAMILY even, and they don't care. [[his mommy loves me more then him=]]
Why doesn't anyone care! But me!
and i wasn't even in it..
and I guess people now think Rapheal likes me.. which i donno isn't a bad thing but theres jerks out there like Steven who call him really bad things and make me wanna kill.
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hii i'm 14/f
and in the 8th..
i dont have a "social click" either.
i hang with everyone. even some of the lower ranking "clicks"
well as for the finding the right click thing well...just stick with the people who always have your back and never not be a true friend. its good that your hanging with everyone. but when there is a fight as in disagreements..tell them that you dont want in it and that you arent going to be the middle man. and if they still try then tell them you said i'm not choosing. you all are good friends to me and if they have issues then they need to work it out themselves..be straight up..and walk away.
as for the jerk put your foot down. he wouldnt dare touch you...unless he is a "girl hitter" and if he tries to ruin your life..and your in BIG TROUBLE by him then you CAN tell an adult..even if its lame. there is no reason why you should have to be put in that possition. so end it as quick as it started.
also we pick,choose,and make our own friends.
dont let anyone tell you otherwise or tell you who you cant be friends with. a true friends never leaves another.
if that guy says its okay when you apologized just let him know you appreciate it and that hes a true and real friend. but you wont but him in that possition again. let him know that you care =]
its okay for him to like you...
never let someone prevent you from being who you are and try to stop you. we are who we make ourselves out to be. thats us.
dont let people disrespect you.
ohh and by the way...
i'm not in a social click..so i just call myself "neutral"
hope i helped..
-M.
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Hello,
I am a big fan of jeans- esp. the skinny kind. However, I really want a super skinny pair. I have a light blue wash but I want some more. I am trying to find ones in Chicgo that are cheap($25) but of great quality.
If any one living in Chicago know where I can find some, let me know!
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hiii...i used to go to hot topic...buuuttt we moved away from the mall...idk whats in chicago but i loveee hot topic and i'm sure they have some..i used to get mine there..
hope i helped..and if you didnt find anythere sorry..
-Mickey
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Im 21 years old and this is my story...
It all started 6 years ago,my father started having problems with his company and he would always throw his tantrums on my family,i have 2 elder sisters.he would get upset over the most ridiculous things such as,why isnt the rice cooked nicely,or y is the music so loud,he never lets us go out with our friends or whatsoever.he hits us all the time if we were to do something wrong.my father is a good man,i know,he provides alot for us,i feel he just do not know how to handel his emotions.one day he caught me talking on the phone when everyone was a sleep,he redail the number i found out i was talking to a boy,he started hitting me so hard,he punched me,he dragged me up the stairs,he threw a weight scale on me,he did all sorts that at the end of the day i was so bruised up,i had no space left for another bruise.my mom didnt let me go to school for a week so my scar would heal,so that no one would question me,my teacher saw it tho,she wanted to report my father but i didnt allow it.and when i finally was allowed to go to school,i ran away..i manage to run away for 3 days only till my mom found me,things were horrible in the house,both my sister left the house after awhile cuz no one could take it anymore frm my father,i was the last one left until finally i was old enough to survive on my own,i stayed away for 2 years on my own,my father fell sick between that 2 years and i went to see him in the hospital,but i was not allowed 2 becasue the docs didnt wanna cause him more stress.after 2 years my 2nd sister decided to go home,and my father gave in,and then i decided to come home after awhile,and i talked to my dad,and according to him,it was all my fault the family was apart.now im currently working with him,but he is not paying me and he does not allow me to work anywhere else.i wanted to study too but he didnt allow that,both my sisters had the advvantage of studying and going overseas.but all this problem started when it was my turn to study.now,he still does not allow me to study and im worried that,if anything were to happen to himmm i will have nothing to fall back on to,he still treats me and my sister like kids,we are not allowed to come home afetr 11pm,we cant do anything that we want 2,boys are not allowed,things like that,i decided to give in,but even thou,he still treats us like crap despite his terms and conditions im still here trying to make things better,but when something upsets him,he does not talk to us n make us feel real dumb.there is no way of talking to him at all,he is always right,no one can tell him otherwise,even my mom is giving up.i need a solid future,but im not getting it..im really worried to what i should do.i know there are far worst problems thats others may have,but please..i really need advice!
ps:my eldest sister has not returned home till now and i have not seen her for 3-4 years already,and there are many things i left out but i didnt want my post to be extreamly long sorry!
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14/f
i agree with the other lady who commented your question..but even though i am 14..i was thinking..have you tried to contact your sisters? maybe you can secretly get a job and save up money to live with one of them?? would they help you get on your feet and get your life started??
i have issues with my father too...but im leaving him. my parents are divorced and i am taking him to court so i dont have to see him again..but try to live with a friend or your sisters..or even an aunt...im already done with the drama and chaos of my father. its time for you to leave too. get out while you still can. maybe your mom can help you out..maybe she can help you go somewhere..away.
-M.
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