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I lied to my boyfriend about a certain thing. During our conversation, he asked me about my ex and I told him that I broke up with him on a certain day at a particular place.. Meanwhile on that day at that place I was with someone else not my ex boyfriend and my ex boyfriend I broke up with him a week before that day... Now my current boyfriend found out I was lying, and also found out about the guy I had a fling with and he called me a fucking retard I told him the truth but he still calls me names and he doesn't wanna talk to me... Pls help me what should I do I don't want to loose him... (link)
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if you truly love something, let it go...
if it truly loved you, it'll come back
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I'm 16f and the guy I like is 14m freshman I'm a sophomore. I think he is so adorable! I met him last year at my variety softball game he thought I was "hot" he texted a girl on my team saying that! Which gave me confidence and I got over this one kid because of him. Now that he's in my school I can't get my mind off of him I visit his 2nd period sometimes and he says hi but I get to choked up to carry on the convo further! The problem is that I'm shy and his sister who's a junior is on my softball team and we are cool it's like alove hate relationship which is all messing around. But she can have a real attitude and she complains how her brother gets everything. I just don't know what to do I really like him! Help (link)
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if you really like him, sometimes you just gotta go for it. you gotta look past their "troubled" family members in order to be happy. if his sister has a problem with you, ignore her and talk to the boy, worst he can do is say no
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I am 20 years old, female and my boyfriend is 46! We have been together for almost a year and a half. My parents are forcing me to break up with him! And are taking everything away from me untill I do. like my truck, phone, and are going to kick me out. I just started a minume wage job and can't afford these on my own yet! Not sure what I should do? (link)
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you're 20...you're a grown woman, you should be able to make your own choices, your parents cant tell you who to date or tell you who to fall in love with, dont listen to them, if they dont like it, tough...they should only care if you're happy or not.
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he dumped me then kept texting,year after the breakup he text..think bout u all the time,I'm not happy,wish I was with u...so I waited it out then I text and then he told me 2 let it go..he sent a random text bout nothing..we started to talk then I asked if he was going to leave his gf and he said no...wtf?did he mean any of the previous things he said?how can he b so hot then cold? (link)
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he obviously still likes you, but he's in a relationship already...it is possible to like 2 people at the same time and get confuzed about it...he's not playing you, he just doesnt know how to express himself properly
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For four-five years i have been in a happy relationship with a man, lets call him Bob.
However last year, I did the wrongest thing someone could do, I slept with someone else, lets call him Will.
I first met Will properly at someones birthday meal. I was sitting next to him. I told him that i was a cheerleader just in convosation and his eyes lit up. At this point he began to brainwash me. For the next 3 months he groomed me.
Bob at the time could see this (At this point we were a long distance relationship) and warned me against him. I did not listen.
Will would say things to me like "your such a freak, but your so cute" he'd convinve me to stay up late for him, he even convinced me to dump Bob.
Will tried time and time again to get my pants off me. He would come to my house to watch a film kiss me a bit and before the film had finished he would leave. he was grroming me from the start to always want more. Until eventually, he looked at me and said to me "Shall we just do it" he said as he undid my jeans.
I dont know what I was thinking, but I said okay and we had sex. We had sex another time after this too. He texted me to come round and i did, like a fool.
Will controlled me through the time I knew him. Brainwashed me, to the point he dumped me a week before my birthday and I still invited him to my birthday celebration.
All throughout this I was still in a realtionship with Bob. I didnt tell Bob untilafter it happened. Although I lied throughout to Bob and myself about what was happening.
I am still with Bob, and Will I no longer speak too.
A year on I've realised that I'm still under Will's control, I still wont say a bad word about him. Even though I think he is a snake (and a mix of other profanities)I want to break this bond, for mine and my boyfriends sake.
S few things need to happen:
- he score needs to be equalised. Will needs to feel the exact same humiliation that Bob felt, the feeling of helplessness.
-I need to break this bond i have between Will and I.
-I need to speak out against Will.
Bob should have been the one to get my virginity, not Will. Will really is nothing to me. and I want to prove this to Bob. Im just looking for some ideas, opinions. Bob is an amazing guy, he has taken me back but continues to remind me of what Ive done and the connection between me and Will. Im desperate to show him I am not under Wills control.
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use you imagination. you both need to like go on the most romantic date or trip ever, and if you really love him, let him know it. i dont mean give yourself to him, unless that's what you're already thinking, if that's the case, then still go on the trip, and then, let that lead to...other things ;) he really likes, maybe even loves you if he's still with you, that means something
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Everyday I go to the mall.
I see couples walk by, holding hands or kissing.
I don't like to see people happy like that
I want to be happy like that...:(
I love this guy... Like, LOVE love. I don't want to tell him that, though. Or I don't want to ask him out. That's the guy's job! Any advice on what to do? I've loved him for FIVE STRAIGHT YEARS. (link)
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I think we are passed that stone age rule where the guy has to be the one to ask a girl out. if you like the guy, then go tell him, but to be happy, you dont need a guy, but if you really think you need a guy, then just, yeah, go ask him. i'm a guy, and i usually wait for the girl to make a move, it's nothing bad, i just like to give the girl a chance, you know? just give it a shot.
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how can you tell if a man is wanting more than friendship from you (link)
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when he gives you what we guys call, "the eye"
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do guys like it when their girlfriends lay on their stomachs? when their girlfriends rub their stomachs? (link)
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i love to cuddle. to be honest, i love to lay on my bed, in the dark, maybe some dim lighting, with the calming sound of the fan blowing on us, while she lays on my chest and rubs my chest. it's a combination of peace, harmony and bliss. it helps me know everything in the world is right. i love to cuddle before or after sex, or we dont even have to have sex, it's a good way for us to get closer and to escape the problems and complications of the real world. some guys dont like to cuddle, but i love to. just depends on the type of guy
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~15 year old
~Female
***Mostly guy opinions please***
I was just reading comments on a picture... But, umm is there something wrong with skinny girls or something?? Or do you guys just father have big/curves girls?? Like I'm just really courious 'bout this!! Cause I'm skinny (as what people tell me) Do you guys propher skinny girls over curvey girls? Or the curvey girls over skinny girls? Why and Why not?
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in my own opinion, i dont mind the girl if you're skinny, but if you're TOO skinny, than there's nothing to hold on to, you know? now, i dont like HUGE girls, like owns that could swallow you whole and then have room for another, those are just gross, but like, from what i can tell from what you said, you sound really skinny, guys dont like that because, we like curves, gotta have something to hold on to, hope this helps and again this is from my own opinion and knowledge from what i've heard from others.
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