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Okay..today i posted this question but i only got 1 really good answer (2 in total but the first advice person was a total joke) But i need more advice please! thnak you..this is a really long question..sorry bout the length! Okay, i really like this kid. lets call him "Chris". Well, at my school dances, i danced once with Chris before and i started to like him after that. So, at the past dance, yesterday on friday, i told my friend.."Allyson" that i wanted to try asking chris out. So, the next thing i know, allyson runs away and is talking to chris. I was pretty confident chris would say yes because i had always caught him looking at me in the halls and in our one class together. But then chris starts running away with his friends and allyson said to me that chris wasnt into girls! I was really upset and cried to my friends outside. it was horrible. It felt like id been hit in the stomach. so, now i dont know what to do. I really really like him. Would it be bad if i asked him out again? How do i know when hes ready for a gf? And what do i do to help myslef forget about him in the mean time? i dont like anyone else..13/f * Pleasssse dont delete this!

Well, I think you should make the first move and see how it goes from there you never know. Your friend might be lying. Ya never know. Start talking with him and then when you feel it is time then make the first move... Hope that was a help!

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i am going to be 14 soon nd i took a cpr class and i like children but i have never babysat before and i really want to but everyone always asks my older sister first and i would put up flyers but thats dangerous, what should i do?

Maybe u should ask your sister if it would be okay if you took over for her one time and start from there. Talk to some new neighbors that might have kids before your sister does. Maybe even ask your mom or something ig she could find somewhere else you could babysit.Hope that helped!

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Hey, I'm a 17 Male from TN and I need a little help on how to deal with my brother. We are ferturnal Twins and a pretty close. He is a heavy drug user, smokes pot usually about twice a day and takes other drugs with it like Adderal (which he is not perscribed to). He's been doing it for around a year and a half now. He drives while hes intoxicated about everyday. He's been to Juvy, had his car taken away at least 3 times, and been on probation, but he wont quit!.

I want to tell my Mom about all hes doing, but it would ruin my relationship with him and would probably make his friends and my friends hate me (because we are twins we have a lot of the same freinds). Also, hes been in trouble so many times and hasn't changed that if i tell on him he might not change because of all the other times hes been caught. His life is in danger though and I might be doing the wrong thing by not telling him, but a lot of people need to choose by themselves or they won't quit. So I don't know what to do.

Well, I think you should tell your mom. Even though it might brake the relationship of alot of people with you it is for your brother's own good. He might die and you might be the one blaming it on you that u didn't get him help soon enough or that u didn't tell soemone. Tell your mom. Maybe even like get an old flim of when he was younger and how nice and sweet he was and how he was safe. Then flim a video of him now and how bad he is and there is a less chance of him surving each day and how there is soo much difference and you like his old self better... Hope that helped

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