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Q: 13/f
this summer I'm supposed to go see this music producer guy so I could sing for him. The biggest of my worries is that I have a MAJOR problem with stagefright. Once in kindergarten I was standing on the stage in the auditorium doing a play. When I was walking off the stage, I tripped and fell flat on my face and all I could hear was everyone laughing at me. Ever since then I've been terrified to do anything in front of people that aren't my family. Can you please help me?
okay this might sound weird but when i used to go out on stage for dance perfomances and school stuff if i felt nervous cause the first thing i would do is look out into the audience to look for some familier face which i never did i would star at a random object like an exit sign a banner a chair or someones forhead but never at someones face cause then i would be like omg thers another face and another omg theres so many people so in other word try to find a technique that works to relax yourself try it out and try your best on stage

Q: what color shoes go best with a yellow dress?? thxx.
depends what style dress but either white or off white sundress=sandels or some cute wedges formal or party = wedges maybe or heels low or high i think with accesories definatley yellow dresses are so cute especially for summer =)

Q: i have really skinny thighs. how do i make them bigger besides running?? will eating help?
Okay i dont know what you mean by big theighs but i know i have big theighs small everything else i agree with the chick that answered before do some theigh and leg exercises to get parts of your body TONED not big

Q: heyy! i was just wondering if venders in nyc.. like on canal street would take travelers checks! thanks i really would like to know
They might i guess but most likely not when i go there ((which is often cause my moms in buisness job)) well she usually carrys cash wich is probably the easiest

Q:
hey guys, i have long blonde hair, which is a nice length for me. Its down to like the middle of my back, maybe a little shorter.. I like to keep it long cause im a basketball player and i wear it in a high poneytail when i play. I always get comments on it about how nice it is.. but heres the thing.. its really thick, and i straighten it everyday.. it has a natural curl to it but i hate my hair curley.. What advice can you give me that will look cute when going out or something instead of always having the same straight hair.

thanks a bunch!!
well theres tons of hair dos like for example half up half down, poof ,poof/pony tons of things with braids you could probably find tons of things if you look it up on the internet you can always experiment with barettes or bobby pins

Q: Last night a few of my friends and I were at the beach and this was like right behind my beach house. Two of them passed out and we didn't feel like dragging them inside so we just stayed out there a little while and we accidentally fell asleep on the beach.


Yeah, not too smart but when we woke up, three of us had this weird red bumpy rash. I was sleeping on my back and I got it on my lower back. Another girl got it on her arm and my other friend also got it on his back, but upper back.


Has this happened to anyone before? Do you think we should all go to the doctor and get it checked out or just wait and see if it goes away? The rashes all look the same so we're pretty sure it was from the sand or something.
i would go to the doctors to play it safe and put some aloe vera on it or something when i went to the bech recently i got this werid rash thing it kinda looked like a bruise/rash well its going away but you never know so yeah have it checked out

Q: My birthday is June 5th. and I want to celebrate it this weekend because I cant do it next. At this moment in time, I'm "physically handicapped". I'm getting surgery the 6th, but I want to celebrate before I'm on bedrest for like 3 weeks. I'll be turning 14, any ideas on what I can do? Or is it too late of notice? thanks in advance!
i think im answering this question a little late but owell just do something small invite a few friends to your house or something and watch movies play games and have fun

Q: Hey im a girl. Im 15 years old. I really like this guy who is a year older then me. We do not go to the same school. So we met on myspace but we live close to each other and next year im going to be going to the same school he is. We met and talked and we also talked alot on aim he was giving me all hints he likes me: calling me his favorite and telling me how amazing i am. Then couple days after we hang out on the weekend it was me him two of my girlfriends and his friend. He was flirting with me and i was flirting with him and i was pretty much positive he liked me. Then we went over to his friends house and everyone else saw we liked each other. They asked me if i liked him and i said yea then they asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know but i never knew that so i thought he did so i kept on acting like nothing was wrong. Me and him ended up making out for hours. Next morning he was a little akward around me but i knew for a fact he enjoyed making out with me he even told me that. That day i texted him asking him if he liked me as a friend or more because i needed to know. He texted back saying he likes me as a friend. I was really bumbed. Btw my other girlfrined(kelsey) hooked up with the guy i like best friend after an hour of knoning him and did more then make out with him. But going back i was really mad at austin for making out with me and telling me he likes me as a friend. Next couple days i didnt talk to him so he talked to me like nothing was wrong and he stil thinks im the shit and he likes me(he never told but hinted). The very next day i find out he likes my friend(kelsey) who hooked up with his best friend. I was in SHOCK! shes not his type at all! She not very bright or pretty not sound mean or anything but guys never really go for her specially from me to her and so i was really confused. I was soo pissed off also he was doing and tellin the same things he was doing to me. I got over it but then after a week the guy i liked started texting me at night saying he misses me and we need to start over i went and asked my friend why is he liking me all of the sudden didnt he like kelsey a week ago and she just said he was drunk when he texted me. So i kind of just forgot about it but that weekend i saw him and he told me that he doesnt like kelsey anymore so i was like alright. but he was flirting with my other girlfriend and not me. Then he got drunk and everything changed he totally liked me we went to his car and he told me all this stuff that he was afraid he would never get me and thats why he went for kelsey and that he really really likes me and even loves me but i was drunk too(tipsy)So we made out and stuff. Next day he told me he didnt rember anything when i know for a fact he was not that bad to not remmeber anything. So please someone help me? is he PLAYING me? whats going on. Some people say hes way to innocent and shy and had no confidence so he doesnt try to get wiht me because hes afraid to get hurt and turned down.But i really like and i wouldnt do that to him and i think? he knows that. PLease tell me what to do!!!???!?!
i think you should continue to be friends if hes this confusing and confused wonder how he would be if you two were in a relationship together

Q: I am from Romania and I want to improve my knowlledge and skills to make jewels but I don"t have enough detailed information about how to make wax modeling and stone settings at professional level
go to your local art store or even book store and buy a book about it and read on and practice and if you dont want to buy anything bring a notepad and write some info down you probably can use the libray and of course the internet or maybe a local art studio class

Q: In school I have 2 awesome friends I have known for 10 years...they're basically the best!!! Yes and well one of them is celebrating her 15th birthday a month and about a week from today. Her birthday will be when we go on summer holidays...and we might be going in different clases. We'll still be friends but I really want to make this present special and when it comes to buying gifts I suck. I mean I'll walk around the mall//store about 20 times then end up picking the lamest crap.

Here's a bit about her...thanks:
She's 5'3", a bit girly not much, she wears tee's a jeans, she has a big bust line, a chubby middle (not as fat as me), she's moving during the vacation, she has curly frizzy hair, she fair.

I have no idea what she wants or likes. Plus she's moving so it doesn't matter if you say a cute wall decoration or something. (wall decoration = lame...I know).
And there's no price limit relly maybe $300 or something..but no clothes or bras please lool. thanks alot!!!
Well i think you should but her something and make her something maybe a photo album of pictures old movie stubs tickets to events anything make a book out of it so when she moves a little of you will go with her

Q: ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?

thanks guys.
Thats what people said during the millenium relax live day to day have fun with your life dont think of the end of the world just yet

Q: i REALLY want to shop at a&f and hollister and stores like that. it's not because everyone else does, it's because personally i like there clothes. my parents make me shop at wal mart and it's messing up my social life. i hate wal mart's clothes and shit and my friends ask me why i don't wear the good brands. and it's not like my family can't afford good clothes, because my dad's a multi millionaire. they just don't understand WHY i want to spend so much on clothes. i've made up my mind and don't tell me it doesn't matter what i wear because i'll give you a 1. i need to prove to my parents that shopping at the expensive stores is worth it. and i can't make any money on my own because if i do, my parents say I CANT spend it on a&f and hollister clothes. it's messing up my social life. i wont have friends ever again because i cant wear nice clothes. im done with wal mart so what can i say to my parents so they'll let me shop where i want ?!? i'm old enough to choose where i want to purchase my clothes, especially when my dad was over 1 million dollars.

anything good will get you a 5
i promise
I live in chino hills and at our school is filled with income from families its all about how you play it off i mean your personality is what matters. Maybe you should make a compermise with your parents like maybe mix up your wardrobe a little from here a little from there i know this girl and her parents are wealthy she chooses to shop at walmart because she wants to be differnt okay you like there clothes and i understand thats where i shop too but sometimes you cant get what you want or you at least have to be patient Pair your clothes differnt brands.Or theres even stores like TJMAXX and Marshalls or Nordstroms Rack ((not ross)) they sell clothes that came from hollister , express , nordstrom and a&f just at a lower cost. As i said TALK to your parents dont argue if they say no leave the converstation at that then ask later at a better time

Q: i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person?
1. Well first i think you should go to the doctors or planetparenthood even if you dont want the baby at least until you descided what to do youll be helping it. And if your going to have a miscarriage anyways at least the doctor can tell you first dont use your insurance though if you dont want your parents to find out. And no your not a horrible person just think over your steps but dont take to long and it gets to late. I think your parents will care more about you then how there relationship with your boyfriends family is going to be affected

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