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Q: I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks, but it's been a bit complicated - a week after we started dating, he found out he had cancer. He's had surgery and is on the road to recovery now, but I am worried that now he will only continue dating me because he feels obliged to as I was there when he needed me, rather than that he has an actual desire to be with me. I really like this guy but how can I figure out what is going on without offending him?? I'd rather have a broken heart sooner than later, so I'm keen to deal with this!
Ok well first of all just talk to him. Dont make it sound like you dont trust him just tell him that you were happy that you helped him through his problem and he doesn't have to stay with you if he doesnt want to. Talk to him. Thats all I can say and If you word it right its NOT going to offend him. Hope I helped

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