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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
Well said, i agree totally! Generations are just geting even more and more worse. It's sickening hearing that some 12-13 year olds aren't virgins anymore. And that's not out of the ordinary. When i was that age that was uncommon. I think the main reason is because it's so casual now. They want to grow up so fast, and they just dont know better. And maybe its because they feel like they have to have sex to hold onto the guy or to be socially accepted. I don't care if they think or say they are ready, people that young ARENT. No one at that age is old enough to be able to deal with the consequences - such as getting pregnant. I'm very proud of you by the way! Keep it up! :)
♥ Hannah
i am scared about being over wieght someday... i am really confused.. should i join a gym or like run the beach??? whata i do??
Hello. It's totally normal to be worried about your weight. Infact it's really good that you are concerned for your future. I would definately recommend joining a gym if that's something you want to do. Just as long as you exercise regulary and eat healthy, then you should be fine!
♥ Hannah
i always thought that it would be cool to be popular... but half of them are all so mean to me and sometimes they are nice... i need some disses to get a little revenge?? wait but i get nervios and scared and i think i cant stick up for my self???? ahhh... help
Don't worry about being "popular." When you get out of high school and graduate, it won't matter anymore. And you don't need to get revenge on anyone. I think revenge is rather immature. If they say anything mean to you, just walk away. Show them that you're better than that and that their comments mean nothing to you. Don't let people like that get the best of you.
♥ Hannah
I think I have self-image problems. I hate my stomach. I'm always worried it is preventing me from finding a boyfriend. I know people sometimes comment about my weight behind my back. In school when we had our physicals I felt extremely self-consious because the nurse put the chart down and a few people could see my weight (I'm not sure they care though). I just don't want to hurt myself. I've thought about nt eating and becoming aneroxic and when I did I honestly didn't care what it would do to my body as long as my stomach look thinner. I do exercise usually but I never see results. I just want to know how I can have a better self-image. Any help?
Aww, girl. Do not turn to eating disorders. Trust me, you'll either end up gaining more weight or end up dying. Those thoughts aren't very good, and can probably lead to an eating disorder. So you may want to seek help now to prevent it from happening. All you need to do is eat healthier, drink more water, and exercise more. Avoid salty foods and anything that's obvioulsy not good for you. Cutting back or quitting soda alone can help you lose up to 5 lbs in a week or two. Increase your metabolism by eating 5 small meals a day. Don't ever skip or binge, because it will slow down your metabolism, making you gain weight. Replace your snack of chips or cookies with a salad. Do about 50 crunches after everytime you eat (or atleast 200 a day). Drink tons of water, and do cardio 3-5 a week. You will definately see results within a week or two.
♥ Hannah
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my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do ?!?
Hey, i totally know what you mean. The thing is, you can't exactly change the person that he is and the things that he does. If him smoking pot gets in way of your relationship, THEN you have a right to be upset. (Well either way, i still think it's okay for you to want him to stop smoking.) But if you like him for his personality, you shouldn't let little things like that get in the way. He's still the same guy, right? I guess all you can do is talk to him and try to convince him to stop doing it. But if he doesn't listen, then there's not much else you can do.
♥ Hannah
what are some good yearbook signatures? its gettin to that time of year and i dont wanna just sign my name!
Avoid signing "Stay cool. Don't ever change." or "Have a great summer." etc. Make it something that they will look at in 10 years and will remember what you are talking about. You can include memories that they will always remember you by. Or times you spent with them. Or even inside jokes.
♥ Hannah
i'm 14\f and want to get my belly button pierced. do you think 14 is to young? should i wait until im older?
You can always take it out if you don't like it, so go for it if thats what you want. I think it's fine as long as your parents are alright with the idea. But whatever you do, don't pierce it yourself. Always go to a professional.
♥ Hannah