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Hello, I'm Kevin (AKA Demon Hunter) and I'm just a refular teen. I'm not popular, but i'm not a total reject either. I guess i'm somewhere in between, kind of like a twilight, if know what I mean. I'm funny, friendly, usually in a decent mood, and always striving to be helpful. so if you need help with anything, just ask, and i'll get back to you as soon as possible. Woah this sounds like a answering machine....oh yeah, i'm kinda strange too.

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i am geting annoyed from my friend i like him but he sometimes folows me copy's me and he doesn't care about anyone else but me and poeple are complaning and blaming it on me he ditched his old friends and became friends with me so poeple are blaming it on me!!!!




what should i do

well, just so you know, it's not your fault. it was his decision and that's basiclly what you should tell them. as for the copying, it's a sign of flattery and if he only cares about you, well, then this should be in the love life category, if you know what i mean. so this could turn out differantly depending on how you feel about him. if you like him, then you may get together. if you don't pretend you do and take it way too far (within the boundries, mind you) and it will freak him out. and if it doesn't dump him publicly. may sound creul, but the only other way to do this is to talk to him, but you've already done that haven't you? 9_9
Any way, hope this helped.

For my love for God,
Demon Hunter

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hi, remember me? I talked to you guys about this guy I like and I wasnt sure if he liked me back.
Anyway. I went to a party last night and I was shocked. I felt like I was shot twice : he smoked and he dirty-danced with a girl, you know with her butt all over him. I really thought he was different, that's why I liked him in the first place.She's not his gf cause she danced with other guys.
I really need some help...Should I ignore all this and try to get to know his personality better? Or should I move on and forget all about him?
Please don't delete this question, the answers are very important to me.

I guess i can understand how you feel. That was NOT right for him to do. DO NOT take "I'm a guy" as an answer for this. Tell him how you feel and what the consequences are.

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my guy friend says he likes me but he is uncomfortable with me kissing him. what should i do?

don't get angry by the obvious answer, but give him time. maybe he likes you, but doesn't want everyone to know. Maybe there's sparks?

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ok heres the thing. I'm an "a" and im pretty insecure about it. My boyfriend says its ok and he doesn't mind and that he loves me no matter how big I am, but his last girlfriend was a "d" and i feel bad because he "down sized" so much. What can I do to become more confident and secure with myself when I am around him and in general? And what can I do with my boyfriend to make up for what I dont have?

SLAP YOURSELF!!! Who gives a flying F*** about your chest?!?! Unless your bf is REALLY superficial, he will like you how you are. And he he does, you should to. Most guys like personality better. And don't take this the wrong way, but personaly, I prefer a smaller size.

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I'm in 8th grade and haven't really thought about this guy much..i've just noticted him. He keeps on telling me that this other guy is flirting with me, but the other guy hardly talks to me. maby eits a joke. I'm starting to like this guy though. I sit next to him in computers, but I don't know what to talk about anymore. We used to talk and laugh all the time. I really want him to ask me out. How do I lead him on?

guys don't like being pushed. let him make the first move. if he doesn't, give him a suttle clue, like "so, do you like anyone in school?" he probobly won't answer the question, but it'll give him a clue.

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first off I am a thirteen year old female. ok so my crush asked me out a few weeks ago, and i was happy. (hes my first bf) We had been going out for 2 days when he gave me a note that went something like this: I really really really like you. I have since the first day I met you. I think that you are as hot as fire. Owww it burns!!! Love, Josh. Is there anyone out there who would be semi creeped out by that??? I mean its kind of flattering but really weird. Anyway he sprayed the note with his adidas musk cologne (again sweet buy scary) when I opened the note in spanish class the cologne gave 6 girls including myself an allergic reaction. We ended up with rashes all over our bodies. I'm not mad at him for it i just thought it was a little extreme. He folows me around everywhere too. I can't do ANYTHING by myself. Which was nice at first but is getting kind of old. Also he dates alot of older girls and they are giving me really dirty looks, like they're trying to kill me but they haven't figgured out how yet. When we had been going out for 5 days he asked me to the movies. HELLO were only 13 he doesn't have a car. And my parrents don't know that we're dating so they probably wouldn't be too keen on driving us. I like him and all, but I think that he is taking things way too fast, and I'm not ready yet. Should I break up with him? If yes what are some good break up lines that I can use without hurting him too much? Thanks soooo much!

just tell him what u think. if he really likes you, he'll tone down a bit. as for the movies, he probobly would't get around to it ne way. just go 4 ice cream. and as for a break up line, say this: "if you want to date girls older than you, than i must not matter that much. it's me or them."
and if he says that he'd rather be with them, it wouldn't matter that much, you've only been going out 2 days!

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im 14 and i am IN LOVE with this 7th grader (ima 8th gradeR) well i was gunna tell him on vday but i didnt get a chance to. so the next day i was gunna hug him & tell him how i felt & then kiss him on the cheek..then my so called "friends" went behind my back & told him & now hes not talkin to me..today he said lik one thing & that was about our how-to presentation..but he keeps starin @ me..does he like me? should i get over him? oo & we have 2 classes together & thanks to my firnd with a BIG MOUTH told the wHOLE calss!! & it think he got nervous or embarressed..(I DID) & so now i think i chased him off...but i dont kno what to do..i really love him..

hmmm. that's a tough situation. ok. i'm a guy, so i know how feels. heck i'd feel the same way. i'd leave a note in his locker, asking for his answer in the same way. that way there is no embarrasment.
P.S. chances are that he likes you, otherwise he would look all digusted when he sees you. go get him!lol j/k, guys don't liked to be rushed. ask to go somewhere public for a first date. he'd feel unconfertable alone w/ u right away, no offence.

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im 14/f, and i really need help. There is this boy that I can't get out of my mind. Whenever I think about him my heart beats faster, and I get butterflies in my stomach. When I'm around him I can't stop smiling and I get nervous. His voice sends shivers down my spine and when he gives me a hug my heart soars. When he so much as looks at me I melt inside. he's cute, funny, sensitive, kind, caring.. he's everything.
Two problems though...
1. he has a girlfriend and it tears me up when i think about them or see them together.
2. he's my best friend...

I've tried to get over him... i just can't. What do i do? Should I try and tell him how i feel? Could this be something that will end our friendship?

Thanks to anyone who can help

i know what you mean. my sit. was a bit differant though(i'm a 14/m and she acually went out w/ me 4 a while). ask him what he thinks of u. that's it. he'll ask you what you mean, and explain your position. if he's your best friend, he'll say something nice after hesitating(what do you expect? he's a guy, your his friend, and your asking him when he has a gf) and then say that he's seeing sum1 else, and then you'll be shot down, then recover, then it'll be over! if he really is your best friend, then he'll still be your friend, and he'll be easier to talk to. trust me, i've done this. and besides; unless you guys REALLY hit it off, this is how it will lay out:
1.you'll both be happy
2.you'll either not make time to see each other, or it will feel akward
3.you'll see each other less and less
4.he'll call you or you'll call him and that's when it'll end
that's how it was for me. go for it if you want, but don't count on it lasting more than a year.

and if something does spark up....well...i'd love to see that happen. i mean that both seriously and sarcasticly. e-mail me. kakruk@shaw.ca

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