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Ok I love my boyfriend to death but the problem is that some girls come up to me and tell me stuff that he might have done. The thing is i dont kno who to believe. I mean i trust him but he has cheated on me in the past so that kinda makes me think twice. I just dont want to accuse him too much b.c i dont want him to break up with me. Sumone please help me i really need advice.
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If he cheated on you before, there's a pretty good chance he'll do it again. That's just the way things seem to work. It's great that you trust him, but are you sure he's trustworthy? People need to earn your trust and it doesn't sound like he has done anything to earn it from you. Anyway, what you need to do is consider where this information is coming from. Do these girls hate you or him for some reason? Do they have a reason to want you two broken up? If not, and if these girls have always been the ones to tell the truth, then they might just be trying to keep you from getting hurt. Whether the information is relevant or not really depends on who is giving it. If you think they might be telling the truth, then confront your guy and see what is up. However, if you think he is faithful and you don't want to screw things up, then just wait it out. If you keep getting these accusations, especially from people you trust, you might want to have a talk with your boyfriend about what people have been saying. Even if you love him, you deserve better than someone who is going to cheat on you all the time.
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