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ok i have this problem.... my best friend isnt always that nice to my other friends and she always gets mad at me when i do something with another one of my friends.. but she ditches me alot too. i dont know what to do? should i be her friend or do i find a new bff?
well if she gets mad at you thats not a friend at all and i think that you should talk to her about it, and if you guys are best friend and ditch eachother? how is that even right??? so talk to her about it and dont get a new bff, bff stands for best friends FOREVER
hey i need your advise.. you see, saw this guy the other day and we really hit it off and talkd alot and we flirted and everything. but then i accidently hurt him (phyicaly) but it wasnt that bad or anything... he just started bleeding a little. So then after that when i saw him he didnt talk to me. I am not gonna see him untill school starts and i dont know how to talk to him.. should i act normal? does he still like me? help me!!!
just tell him your sorry for hurting him and as soon as you see him smile and say hi and stuff then start talking or flirting thats good!
omg...ok...my best friend lives in these really rowdy apartments...with no suprvision..we only known eachother for like 4 or 5 months but we r really close, know everythng bout eachother, and we nvr hav gottin into a fight..we love eachother 2 death..well bout 3 months ago i was over there n ther was this guy hes like 17 im 15 and we really hit it off...we talked alot..he seemed really nice..and 2 months later we had sex (BIG MISTAKE) i didnt evn wanna do it he was like come on and as he was tryin to sweet tlk me he was all doin me..but he told me he didnt hav a gf...and i recently found out hes had a gf and i saw her last time i was ther...SHES HUGE and freakin violent..well she found out bout wat we did....and since shes 21 she kant legally hurt me or i could sue her so shes having her 17 yr old friend do it and hses also HUGE,..,.im tiny compared to them and ive never fought..they even kick guys assez...well today i was surpose to go to my friends house..and she kalls she wa slike "omg gurl..u cant come over" i was like y? and she told me the gurl had found out wat i did and was waitin for me to come over to kick my ass with her friends...im s0o0o scared...the gurl doesnt kno where i live or nothin and i wont ever see her but i cant go to my friends house again!!) shes ALWAYS ther and shes HUGE...not fat just big...she already kicked her bf's ass for cheating on her and now she wants to hurt me..and hes 17 yrs old and she hurt him!! wat do i do? do i just tell my mom my friend and i just kinda went our seperate ways..do i tell her im t0o budy to hang out with her?? wat!?! i ALWAYS was at her house..idk wat to do...and for my friend she cant go alot of palces so idk if she kan come to my house...shuld i just let it go bc when skool starts we wont even b goin to the same skool...wat do i do?? i cant even try talking to this gurl bc she already didnt like me to begin with for sum reason...=\ HELP..
if i were you i would tell my parents and never go to my friends house again or ask your friend to talk to her or something
ok well like a week ago we had camp for cheerleading..and at the last day we had tryouts to go to the perade (ima cheerleader all ready but this means ur really good) and well..i honestly did perfect in my tryouts..everyone said i did AWESOME and i was gonna make it for sure..well when she told us who made it..all my friends made it and i didn't..even a girl the cheerleader teacher liked made it and she SUCKED i thought i got robbed..and at the end everyone said shes a jealous cheerleader bitch..cuz i shoulda made it..and i know i shoulda cuz it was PERFECT..and i just feel so cheated and hurt cuz i practiced so hard..
well if you didnt make it get over it its over there is nothing you can do about it now
ok see I have a problem and I dont know what to do! I fell i love with a boy and I have never I have never felt this way before and I dont know what to do.. You see where not doing to great. He dont like me anymore and I try to find out whats wrong and he wont tell. I thought about it and I talked to some of my friends and one of them gave me the best thing one what they said. We all think about stuff that will be right but yet i think were all totally wrong cuz were not him we dont know whats going on in his head. So then i thought well since you hate me and theres no point of me trying to get you back as friend. So i told him that I didnt want to be his friend and that I never wanted to see him again. Cuz what would be the point of being his friend or hanging out with him if he dont like me. That would be just a waste of time. I'v been trying for along time for this to work out but im sick of waiting. Im going on with my life. So when he wants to be my friend then he knows whre i'll be at, But the thing is I dont think I did that right thing. But then on the other hand I do. Im just so confused and I dont know what to do. My friend had said well i think that he likes you as a friend he just dosent know how to tell you...and every time he sees you its like he starts to like you again...and he cant handle that. I think in a way shes right but like I said we just think its right cuz it sounds good. But I dont know anymore. I dont know what to do. cuz I want to move on but everytime I want to I just find myself falling back in love with him. PLease help me!!!!!!!
wow.thats intense well if your still in love with him and he doesnt "love" you back then thats okay and you should move one beacause that would be good for you , you would be thinking about your boyfriend and how much you love HIM i think its kinda not good to not be his friend because you should be friends with the person you love its better that way i hoped i helped if i didnt im sorry and i tried
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ok u see i have this boy i like still how is my ex-boyfriend and he said he hated me and things like that but yet he still comes over and i said to mysel if he hated me that bad he wouldnt want to come over but i still think he does im affraid to go out with his besit friend cuz im affriad that when i do he will like me again and want to ask me out and i wont go and dump the other person cuz i care about him and i care about his fellings. but this kid i wanna be with ym ex i love him so mucha nd i cant get over it.. he did love this one girl but i guess now hes dont he just likes her and he gave her a 5 on a scale from 1 to 10 so im thinking what if he is starting to like me again and realize what he did was wrong and how he mad a big mistake but then maybe he never stoped liking me so idk but i just need some advice so can u help?
okay if you like your ex and he doesnt like you then go out with his best friend and if he starts liking you back go out with his best friend for atleast another week if he says he hates you and still comes over to your house then he doesnt hate you but i say go with you heart and you heart is your ex right? if it is and he likes you again go with him just dont do anything to make him break you heart
I was brought up by my dad so I really don't know much about being a girl and I don't really have anyone to ask. How can you tell if you have a yeast infection, and how do you get one?
well when you have a yeast infection its when your vagina gets really dry and like it gets red its really oncomftorble
has anyone seen the play hairspray?? if so how was it!?
IT WAS FAB!!! it was soo cool with all the dancing and stuff i loved it
im 5'5 and weigh 94 pounds. everyone thinks im anerexic, i dont fit in anything, i dont look healthy, should i gain weight?
if you want too im 5'4 and i weigh 90 so imagine me yah way skinny dont worry about it im the same way if your not anerxioc its not a big deal
i CANNOT tell if my best guy friend is gay or not..he talks TOTALLY valley girlish and has a totally girly voice and walks like a girl and acts realli girly...but he says hes not..he had a gf tho but still.. then we went to dinner the other night and we had a gay waitor and somehow we became really comfortable with him and starting talkin wit him and making jokes..and my best guy friend was kinda checkin him out and tellin us to talk to him..the waitor was 20 and my friend was like tell him im 19 n stuff...i dunnnnooo what do u guyz think?
maybe he is gay he just doesnt want anybody to know and if hes guy still treat him the right way cuz gay guys are yum.
whats a hand job???
its when you put your hands around the guys penis and like rub it
My aunt is a casting diector in hollywood and she got me in a commercial and a walk on role in a tv show. Everyone from skool saw me on tv and wanted to no how i got on tv when i dont even live in cali so i told them that my aunt got me on tv and word travels fast and now all these ppl are begging me to get my aunt to get them on tv. its so annoying. i dont even no half the ppl asking me! help
just say i cant help you im sorry and also what commercial are you on?!?
alot of guys want me! i get asked out a few time a week like 3-5 and i dont like alot of them and sometimes i just want to b single and i dont want to hurt their feeling. IM NOT EASY either! i dont get y they wont leave me alone. im pretty (im not conceited) but the wont leave me alone. im so suspicious about it bcuz i think some guy or gurl started a rumor about me. what should i do?
just say like i dont want to be in a relationship right now or something
can u get fat by drinking milk
no i dont think soo...
How do you make your breath fresher... I mean I brush my teeth every day but my breath still doesnt smell that nice. Pwease help!
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get some of the liquid ice crap it works haha
is it a good think when a guy calls u a barbie?
no not at all its like saying "barbie and ken they are both preps" barbie is like a prep who wears alot of make up and looks like a cheap whore
wut does it mean when someone says ur "fairly pretty"
it means like your kinda pretty i guess but i bet ur gorgeous
What is a hand job exactly... im trying to tell my friend but i dont know how to word it
well its when you kind of like take ur hands and rub the guys penis
if uv notticed iv asked a lot of q's. sorry about that..but i got a lot of problems..ne ways..I'm really shy..and a lot of guys i feel take advantage of me..they r always trying to get me to give them a hand job..or touching me..and i feel really unconfterble..idk wut to say to them..i wana tell them to stop..but then idk y but i feel bad so i just let them..wut should i do the next tiem some guy slaps my ass??? or the next time a guy ask's for a hj..or trys to flirt with me???? N how do i do it nicely..i feel like iv been molested too much :/
if a guy smacks your ass say get off or something and if a guy flirts with you talk back not a big deal if they ask u to give them a hj say NO thats sick
hi. im really skinny but recently i had a "growthspurt" and went up a bra size, so i have boobs a little bigger than girls with my frame and even girls who arent as thin.. now everyone thinks i stuff my bra.. its so annoying. i should just ignore it rite? thanx
just say you wanna see i dont stuff my bra your just jealous yep they are just jealous cause htey have SMALL boobs