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Hair Color: Naturally Blonde and will allways stay that way
Eye Color: Blue
Personality: Outgoing, unpredictable, humble, happy, easily entertained, loveable, funny, and allways joyful
I LOVE animals and guys. I also LOVE giving advice to ppl, no matter how embarrassing. If I don't know, then I will find out!
I have had alotta life experiences and i know what I feels like to go through alotta stuff.
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: blonde
Age: 16
AIM: Blondhoty316
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Member Since: June 2, 2004
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Last Update: June 19, 2004
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why do people want to have sex so badly????????? (link)
I don't really know. There is SO much stuff in the world saying that it is so good. But, wouldn't it be SO much better if you wait until you get married?! I think so. Then it will be your first. IT would be so much more magical!


ok, i have a BIG problem. i am the one with the pink sparkley dildo involving the cap. of the football team. so that whole thing is passed and know me and the cap. are going out. we have been dating for a couple weeks now and he wants me to quit using my dildo cause it interferes with our GREAT sex life. but i don't want to stop cause it's so enjoyful. what should i do about it. pleaz help asap!!

thanx

pleaz help (link)
If he's worth it, then STOP. If you love him and everything!


I was just wondering if it will hurt getting in the butt, cause i really want to do it with my 2 boyfriends, you know like one up each hole type thing?? But I am scared whats it going to feel like.... please help!!!! (link)
I think that it would prolly not hurt very bad but since there will be two guys(one in each hole) that they will be competeing and that could SERIOUSLY hurt. So think it over carefully!


does it hurt when u have sex? like a lot...or is it just emotional stuff that hurts? someone please tell me!!! ...lost...

p.s. im 14 year old female (link)
Yes. it hurts MAJOR your first time. But, i've heard that it hurts the guy too. I depends on how ummm... horny you get. The hornyier, the more lubicated you get and it makes the penis go in easier. It also depends on the penis. Emotionally can hurt more than physically. Expecially if it is your first time. I think, personally, that you should wait until marriage. But, just choose the right guy!


can you get pregnant from anal sex (link)
NO, but you could possibly get Std's i think!


If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity? (link)
I think that spiritually YES. But physically NO.


if you do finger yourself how does the doctor tell if he can whether your a guy or girl
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First off, guys can't finger themselves!


Whats a dildo ( is the spelling correct ?? ) I'm sorry for this weird q , but some of my friends talk about it and i don't know what it is , and i don't want to seem dumb . =) thanks .... (link)
A dildo is a plastic penis, or it can be called a vibrater, if it is mechanical.


I did it with my dog last week. He's good at it, but can I get pregnant from doing it with a dog? Could my babies be deformed? Could I get sick from doing this? (link)
You might could get sick, but you couldn't get pregnant. I think that what you are doing is called beastiology. It is immoral and wrong. But, your babies prolly would be deformed.


This is a stupid question. But this guy asked this girl if she had a bush. He said if she did it would be a total turn-off then he said his friend likes it. What is he talking about?
Thanks_ 14 year old. (link)
A bush is pubic hair!


Im in 6th grade and i have already started my period and i am afraid that i might be pregnant because me and my boyfriend who is a sophmore in high school did it without protection. I come from a family of high class and i dont know what to do!! Pleez help!!
-6th grader* (link)
First of all, Dont panick. It could be a false alarm. Take the pregnancy test as soon as you can. If your parents or guardians have good morals, then I would suggest that you tell the right off that there is a possibility. I wouldn't even put abortion into an option. God can make all things good. You can put the baby up for an adoption. You made the decision to give life to this baby when you had unprotected sex. We all make mistakes, and there is a good possibilty that this could be a false alarm. Some if the percentage depends on what time of the month that it was compared to when you usually have your period. And, in some cases, when girls first start there periods, or if they are physically active, then there periods tend to be off a couple of weeks, or sometimes they skip months. But, you need to talk to someone that you can trust. Because of you are pregnant, then you need to take vitamins and other stuff. I hope that I helped!


what is an orgasm? (link)
An orgasm is when you reach your sexual climate and the guy cums or the get lubricates. Its when your REALLY tense and then you relax suddenly. its an awesome feeling!


Just curious, what counts more, width or lenghth. (link)
they both are almost equal. But, I would say that width is. Because you can only go SO far, and width is just better to me. But, don't worry about it. if you know how to work, then i doubt that you'll have any problems.


hey alicia. you are soo pretty omg.you dont know me i just found your site. i need advice. it is goin to sound reallly dumb but oh well. my friends always talk about how they have gottn drunk adn stuff and i dont know i f i want to drink or not. i need to know if you do because u seem like really cool and nice and if you think i should still hang out with them even thought they might preasure me. answer ASAP (link)
The bible says that you are not to get drunk. I know that giving in to peer-pressure is hard alotta times. You have to think it over. Go over in your mind the pros and cons of drinking. Like:
Pro: It would be fun Con: You would have a hangover. Also, if your friends are truly your real friends, then you should be able to tell them that you don't want to drink. You don't even have to go into detail, just say, "No thanks!" And that can be it.


please some one tell me how to give a jickie my girl wants one but i dont no how (link)
Well, just put your lips in an O shape and start sucking wherever you are putting the hickie. Don't suck too hard and don't used your teeth too much because you could hurt her. In about 15-30 seconds she'll have a hickie.




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