My name is Chelsea. I love singing and playing piano. My friends say that I am really good at giving advice. So ask me anything.
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i'm 15, having a really hard time at school getting kicked out of all my lessons, argueing with all the teachers and everyone is constantly going on at me.
then at home it's worse me and my mum argue almost every day and we usually get to the point where we hit one another or say really hurtful things, my dad doesn't get involved because he's recently started working away all week and is with him girlfriend over the weekend.
i don't really go out with my friends anymore because i'm never in the mood and with boys it just never works out.
everything just seems to be going wrong at once and i don't know what to do, i try put on a brave face but i just sit and cry when i'm alone.
i thought about suicide but i don't know if thats the answer.
i have 62 pills (paracetamol, ibruprofen and nerofen) all in my closet hidden for when i feel it all gets too much and i can just end it.
i don't have anyone to turn to because i don't want they're pity and hate speaking to people about how i feel.
i just wished i was happy i'm only a young girl but i'm not.
i just want to know what to do? please. (link)
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I know the feeling. This past year for me has been hell. When I was 4, my dad got in an accident and has been in the hospital ever since. In January he almost died, then my uncle got sick, my cat died, the guy I thought loved me left me cause I wouldn't have sex with him, my grandpa died. Life can get so tough. I have a friend that almost commited suicide. It broke my heart when he told me that he almost killed himself. I didn't know what to say. So I told him that I would always be there for him, and that I needed him just as much, as he needed me. Please don't kill yourself, don't give up on life. Life can get so hard, but those hard experiences are what make us who we are. You say you have no one to turn to, but if you ever need advice or someone to talk to, message me. I hope that helped
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what do people mean when they sex changes everything?
does it normally change in a bad or a good way?
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I think it really depends on the relationship. When people say, sex changes everything, It can go either way. If you have sex with someone you are dating and really care for, then it can change for the better. It can bring two people closer. My boyfriend, he says he will wait until i'm ready, he says he wants it to be perfect, he says that for him, having sex (making love) is like giving someone all you have. Giving someone everything you could possible give, mentally, physically, emotionally. etc. Sadly it could also change for the worse. If you "hook up" with someone, it could get ackward. Or if someone goes wrong with a hook up, then that could be very bad. But if something goes wrong, and you had sex with someone you care about or even love, then they would help you through it. I hope that helped.
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I've been deluding myself into thinking I could be an author, and now I'm starting to realize that I shouldn't have bothered.
Someone, tell me how to break myself of this delusion permanently, so I will no longer try and just move on to simply living life. (link)
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I don't think you should give up. If you want to be an author then don't give up on your dream. You have to start somewhere. Maybe give an english teacher or someone that can give you imput, something you have written. Ask them what to do. Where to go from there. Don't give up on your dream, If you give up then you will never know. If you give up, how do you know what would happen if you didn't. You will have "what if's"... Trust me those are no fun. Don't give up on your dreams.
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My mom, jeeze where do i start.
Well, she kind of over reacts its like she worries for me. Example: i'll have like a project do tomorrow and she'll be all like "Do it now." and all concerned and I'll be all calm. Btw, I have a bad case of procrostitnation[sp?] It's not like i never get it done i do and she knows that too. i'm a straight A student and she's still concerned that i wont get it done.
Jeeze, dont get me wrong my moms nice and all and i love her to death. she just drives me crazy sometimes.
I don't know what I'm asking here ,but maybe you can figure it out and help me and what not. Maybe like give me some ways to beat procrostitnation[sp?].
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My mom does the same thing. I totally get it, it can get so annoying. What I tryed to do, was talk to her. Tell her she doesn't have to worry about you finishing it, because, you do get it done. Tell her that if you start slacking off, then she can worry, but you work better when you aren't being pressured about it. Good luck, I hope that helped a bit.
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15/f
My boyfriend wants me to come over to his house and i have never been to a guys house before that i have dated and i am REALLY nervous. At school, i don't get to see him that much so i'm not that nervous. What do i do? How do i not be nervous? Please help! (link)
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It's totally normal to be nervous. If you aren't comfortable with it, then i suggest not to go. But remember it is totally normal to be nervous. Just when you go, act like yourself. Just be yourself. If he does something your not comfortable with, then just tell him. Relationships are based on honesty. I'm sure he would want you to tell you if he's doing something your not ready for.
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Ok, me and my boyfriend are both 15, almost 16. I'm a virgin, and he's not. I really want to have sex with him, but dont know how to bring it up with him without seeming like a slut. Any ideas? (link)
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I think that if you really want to have sex with him. Don't bring it up. Just like be making out with him or something and just let it go wherever it goes. Instead of saying "let's have sex." Just let whatever happens, happen. I'm sure everything will work out.
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ok so my best friend...we will call him Cole. Well he and I were hanging out at another friends house then we all started to lay on the bed. well all a sudden we strted to get closer and closer and then he grabed my hand I didnt think anything of it because he had done it before. Well then he started to bruch my hair back and blow in my face and rubing his nose on mine and I wanted to kiss him but I didnt. Then he finnaly kissed me. He tried hiding it from our friends but it didnt work then he sat up and gave me a bracelet and then kissed me again. Well then today a friend was over and he was all over her and I got mad as heck. Then after she left he came over to me and started kissing me and brushing my hair back then he fed me. idont know how to take it all is it a friend thing or does he care? (link)
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I know the feeling... I think you need to ask him about it. It seems as though you care about him a lot. So just ask him about it. I think that's all you can do at the moment, see how it goes after that. I wish you luck, if you need more advice, ask me.
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