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Hey, I'm Anthony. I am a sophmore in high school. I play the accordion, and music is my passion. I also love photography. I'm here mainly because people tell me I give great advice, and sometimes I need a little too. Thanks. Hope I can help you.

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hey im m/14 and in grade 9 shes 15 and in grade 10. so anyway i really like this girl at my school and today we went out for lunch together and talked and stuff and when i msg her on msn and asked her if she wanted to go out with me than she said that she liked this other guy but had asked him out and he said maybe so i msg her again and we talked for a bit and we have alot in common and talked a bit more and she said she really did like me and thinks im hot but she is confusing me so can somebody help me?.
this might not make sense so do what you can to help me.

Ok, I do get your story, because I am a guy myself. But, I would just suggest that you make sure she knows how you feel, and just give her time to think through whatever it is that she needs to. Give her some time to think about what she wants to do, and when she knows, she'll let you know. Hope I've helped..

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15/m

ok sure its a weird question but here goes nothing

anyway my girlfriend and i really love each other. a lot. so anyway, we make out just about every time we're with each other *and don't say that love isn't only about making out, because i know that. we really do love each other*, but it's always kinda the same thing. i guess what i'm trying to ask is: how can i spice things up a bit? not anything sexual but something that could make it better for the both of us?

please and thank you

Hi. So I'm a guy, so I kinda know what you're talking about. You wanna express your feelings, but not in a way that makes you seem too sexual, you want to "connect" with her, but in a more emotional way. Ok, so I would say go out to dinner, or something, just talk to each other. Girls appreciate when they can talk to you, and be personal with you. Instead of going for the more sexual things in the relationship, try going for the heart. Just do what feels right for you and her. Have a good heart to heart conversation, talk about your lives, and where you think the relationship might be going in the future. I know from personal experiance that girls like being heard, and give her a chance to just sit down and talk to you, because in the end, it will deepen your relationship. It will deepen it way more that any of the sexual things.

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i was over my boyfriends one night. and he wanted to have sex. and i want to wait till im married so i said no. he flipped out and got on top of me and hes much bigger than me and stronger and he started fingering me. and then his friend came and helped hold me down and he stuck his penis in my vagina and it hurt i kep tscreaming for him to get off but he didnt. and now he keepsasking me why i wont talk to him. what should i do. i really honestly love him also.

He DID rape you. That is a crime in this country. He obviously doesn't respect you, your morals, and your feelings. If he would do something like that to you, then he probably doesn't really love you. I suggest that you tell him how you feel, and that you don't think he respects you for doing what he did to you. And, not to be rude, but we're only teenagers, relationships are meant to end every once and a while, it's not like we're going to marry the first person we date. So, tell him how you feel, let him know that you didn't like what he did, and if he makes up excuses for himself, then I would say, dump him, and you should probably tell someone he RAPED you!

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