about

Hey everyone i'm Misty! I'm sure you could care less about me but i'll tell ya anyways! Just like most people i like to have fun and chill with my friends! Umm.. I love to have a good time but i stay grounded too! I get my shit done like i should! I get pretty good grades and i love sports. I have WONDERFUL friends!
Well I have lots and lots of advice to give because i've been through probably any kind of drama possible. hey, it sucks but what are ya gonna do!?!
I don't judge at all, i'm here to help!YES MY ANSWERS ARE LONG, but i don't think that you can give a good answer in one or two sentences! Oh and by the way i would really appreciate your feedback!! I'd like to know how i'm doing and if i helped you out!
ANYWAYS... enough about me!! Ask away and im more then happy to answer your questions, and by the way i NEVER reject a question! If you can take the time to write to me then i promise i will take the time to give you my best answer!

advice

hiya,
im 14 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now. it'll be exactly a month on valentines day. he's the sweetest guy i could ever know, and i know he'd never do anything to hurt me. he's so sweet in fact that he texted me last night to ask if it would be ok for him ti kiss me on valentines day. we're going ot watch the sunset in the park overlooking the city, it should be really pretty.
in theory, it should be the perfect evening, but im terrified. ive never kissed a guy before, so im really scared about my first kiss. and i like him so much, i really dont want to mess this up. everyones told me it'll be fine if i relax and enjoy it, but im scared that i wont enjoy it! i mean, what if we kiss and its horrible? what do i do then? and what if i screw it up completely?
please help!
xxx

well...dont worry about it! just relax! if your boyfriend really likes you and cares about you then he wont care how good or bad you kiss! he'll just appreciate that your there with him. i dont think you can screw up a kiss. kisses are suppose to be special. and if he loves you. then you have nothing to worry about. good luck girl!

[view]


ok..i have a friend that i love to death..but i dont feel that she really wants to me my friend! im so jelous of this other girl beucase they are like really close like me and her use to be..i dont no what to say because i really wanna be close like we were before!!! HELP ME PLEASE

talk to your friend and tell her you want to be close like before. dont be jealous its probably just because you and ur friend haventbeen hanging out as much as you used to. tell her you want to be friend like you used to and if she doesnt want to. shes not worth it you'll find new ones! good luck!

[view]


ok i have this best friend but i really like her alot nd she dosent like me and i really like her nd she has a boyfriend nd shes always flirting with me i dunno if she dumps her boyfriend nd went out with me would she be playing these same games?? would u take the mesaures even if you really loved her if you were a guy??

sighned anonomous blah cant spell

welll....i already know who you are lol...and like i said before if she has a boyfriend and shes flirting with you..and then she goes out with you she probably wont just stop the habit. it also depends on how much she likes you if you went out. if she doesnt really care for you. she'll keep flirting and shes not worth it. you deserve better then that! good luck! hope everything works out for youu...

[view]


when you really like someone and they brake up with you and then they hate you afterwards...what do you do...or how do u react when you see them?

the same thing happened with me :-/ and i dont like it...it hurts doesnt it? well what i do is when ever i see them i just try to ignore them and really hope that i'll get over them but it doesnt work....i cant tell you what to do..im sorry only you can decide that. nothing i say can help maybe you should try talking to this person.

sorry...good luck

[view]


ok i moved from my old school about a year ago and i am still depressed becuz of what one of my friends did to me...she pressured my best friend into thinking she hated me. then both of them ditched me and turned everyone of my other friends on me by telling them that i said stuff i hadnt really said. I lost every one of my friends just becuz i made one friend mad and i am dead scared to make more friends so this doesnt happen again.how do i get over this?

just start off new. be a whole new person. make people see your not the same girl and you will have no problem. i went threw the same thing. and now everythings just fine. good luck

.:Misty:.

[view]


abercrombie and fitch was the most popular store pretty much to shop at. now hollister is..its just like abercrombie practically but i guess u could say thier pants are cheaper..anyone who doesnt know..abercrombie pants are 70.00 and up while hollister is 40.00 .. anyways everyone is now wearing hollister and i havent gotten around to going yet. when i go to hollister i dont want to buy all this stuff and have people coming up to me saying i have that u copied me..and so on. should i care ..or should i just be up to date?

You shouldnt care what people think. but it is good to be up to date. i wear abercrombie and fitch and hollister but not alot of people do. everyone dresses different and everyone has thier own taste and you have yours and if you dont want to buy alot of hollister stuff then dont. and if you still like abercrombie more then buy abercrombie. just be you.

.:Misty:.

[view]


Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne

ok well first off... grounding him isn't going to do anything. it will only make things worse. i know my dad always used to ground me and all it would do is make things way worse because then i would just do way worse then what i was doing in the 1st place just to show him he wasnt in-control. you can talk to him and let him know how you feel about it, but that may not work either.nothing you can do or say is going to change how he feels about sex. i dont really know how to tell you about how to deal with this. i know you may not like this but-it was ur fault. for leaving your son home alone. anything can happen-but i do know that grounding him will only cause him to argue and fight with the you. i wouldnt recommend it however it is your choice.only you can decide how you want to handle this.
i really wouldnt recommomen that you make the girl and ur son stop seeing each other all together.that will cause alot of hostility between all of you.and he will just keep seeing her anyway. but you are not going to guarantee trust to eith one of them while they are together. and also, once again, only you can decide what is best.

hope i helped. good luck.

.:Misty:.

[view]


okay everybody,

I have a friend who is 12, but she's kinda tall, or atleast, that' what everybody says, and she's starting to hate it, czuse she think it's kind of annoying, so to reassure her, can someone tell me what the average height for someone who is 12, weighs 90 lb, is? I want to know, so I can tell if she really is too tall or not.plz help

i dont think there is an average height. alot of people that are 12 are alot of different heights. but most 12 year olds are 4'7 or 5'1 (around)

[view]


ok .... welL .. mYy friend likes my boyfriend who i love sO0o much!! but thats not alL .. last year me and her both liked him sO0o he asked me out . we went out 4months broke up went out for 2months then they went out 3months broke up me and him went out and now me and him have been goin out for 3months and hes the oonly boy i have accually really loved ... now that she likes him im scared that she'lL take him from me like before. because them to always talk online and telL eachother EVERYTHiNG ... and i kinda get jealous because he doesnt telL me everything ... HELP ME ... Love, Lost

hey..well i think that if your friend goes out with him right after you and him broke up is just wrong but...if he is talking to her and telling her everything then maybe he likes both of you and its just a game. its okay to be jealous. but you should talk to him about this. tell him how you feel and ask him if he likes her. and ask your friend what he tells her and if he knows that he likes her.because if he is doing this to 2 friends then i dont think he really loves either of you. its just a game hes playing. hope i helped! if you need anything else leave it in the inbox!

.:Misty:.

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker