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Ahhhhhh I need help I reallllllllllly like this guy...but He normally goes out with cheerleaders.I really want him to like me...but I dont really know how...Im only 13 so I cant do anything too extreme but almost anything would help...I have already tried girly and I also need help flirting. I have worn short skirts and flauted my best assets..Please helpp! THANKS...Ps he might like me too...but if not I need help

umm like next time u walk bye him be like hey and then turn around and look at him. if u are like standing next to eachother talking then say like sumthin kool. i really dont kno
sry : ( i tried my best to help
*gina*

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i am always bored can u plez give me ideas that i can do.

thak you

um if this is dylan.. call me
but if its not then u could make stuff like get a painting or stained glass kit. when im bored i just go outside usually and find sumthin to do

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Okay, so my really good friend is going out with the guy im in love with. What do I do? Should I try to get him to go out with me?

no dont try that if she is currently goin out with him. wait until they break up cause they wont b together forever and u kno it.. even if it seems like they will they wont

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I met this girl at camp and i really like her but we go to differant schools and im afriad cause she can easely be cheating on me and wouln't know about it. What should i do

hey babe. "she" would never cheat on u. thats a promise!!

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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

go for it!! make him prove it to ya!

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i like this girl that likes another boy i want to go out with her soooooooo bad i was mad when she came back from camp and said she doesnt like me she likes another girl!

she likes another girl?????? um that is weird dont like a lezbo person... but if u meant BOY then u kno they obviosly like wont get married or anything.. i kno it sux,, but soon enuff she wont like him anymore- i promise

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I am in total love with this one guy except I am pretty sure another girl likes him. I have tried just ignoring it but I cant stand that I know that someone else likes him. Do you have any thougts/ideas to this problem?

Well for one thing i have gone through this to. if i were you- i would try to get this guy to like you back. maybe if u tell him that you like him that will help or like tell ur best friend to go up to him and say i kno someone who likes u.
HoPe I hElPeD a LoT

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I like this guy...but well he lives like an hour away from me...like I really obses over him and I want to go out with him but I dont really know how to...I really hope you can help!

Im 13 and a girll too

umm ya i see your problem. if you talk to him over the phone you could like keep in touch but u wouldnt see eachother :( maybe if you guys went to a summer camp together or something you would see eachother. and then if u did that you guys would go out and see eachother in the summer and talk over the phone, email, ims.

i really hope i helped cause this is a tough situation

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I'm making a CD.Does anyone know of any good rock songs that I may have forgotten to add to my list? I don't mind if the songs are a little old.

ciara feat. ludacris-- ohh
black eyed peas--dontchaa
eminem-- ass like that
those are just songs i like but that is my opinion hope i helped!

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okay wtf theres these 2 boys tyler an kyle and they started this myspace group cal fuck up geordans shit club n it upset me me . i dont even know why and like alot people joined t n where making fun of me wtf do they do that? i mean do they even care i dont get it .. :(

ok u kno what there is just 1 thing to say about that.. they are totall idiots and jerks. dont talk to them they are mean

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My birthday's coming up soon, and I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of fun stuff to do, cause everytime everyone just gets there it's all quiet and boring and stuff =/ please help! Oh I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! Thanks!! =)





Love,
Birthday Girl

well lemme see
maybe you could go to like an amusement park w/ sum really close friends it depends where you live but you could go to like water slide world, great escape, six flags, or funplex or sumthing.
or just hire a bouncy bounce at your house hehe-that would be silly but fun
HAPPY 14th!!!

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im turnin 14 on duh 22 nd my bestfriend may not b able to see meh kuhz her kuzinz ar in state frm sumwhere, my other friend will b too tired frm germany, 5 of my friends ar in asia, 3 in europe, 1 too far, 1 iznt allowed to go out wifout her mom nd yaah.. those ar jes my reeeeely close friends. i hav a few close friends staying. any ideas of wuht i kan do? buh my crush sed he kan take meh out, shoul i jes go out wif him nd not do anything?

umm lemme see first of all that took like 5 minz. to read cause im like whut are you saying. and then what you should do is go out wit your boyfriend on your birthday but later when ur close friends are back in town even if this was a month later celebrate!!
hope i helped

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Well there's a boy-we're both on the same tennis team. We're friends, we've never hung out outside of tennis, mainly because he dated my old bestfriend as a freshman, then again a couple of months ago *sophmore year*. By "old bestfriend" I mean we were BeSt friends in middle school but high school came along and we grew apart. I'll sit with her at lunch and comment on her xanga but that's as far as it goes now-a-days. Recently, these two broke up *again* and it was his fault. He started acting wierd or something like that. The problem is, I really like this kid! Since like 8th grade. Before him and her went out my friends told me to 'go for it' but of course I didn't but now after this break-up i don't know if i should. I didn't 'go for it' i think because i was kind of scared? It would've been my first boyfriend..Not to mention we're on the same tennis team. I'd really appreciate advice on if i should 'go for it'. Should I wait? Drop it? Help!

i think that if he and his ex are over it 'go for it' cause if you dont give it a try you wont get him. maybe he will ask you out but if u really like the guy i say- go for it and if he says no.. just screw it

G00D LUCKK!

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I'm having a party soon. Dose any one know any good truth and dare questions.
I rate high!

truth-when was the last time you wet your bed/pants
-what boys have said no when you asked them out
dare-do a cartwheel naked
-strip like you would at a strip club
lol i suck but i hope you can use some of those!!

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I have a friend who hangs out with me when we are in class and since we have a locker right next to eachother she hangs out with me. But when she is around certain "friends" she acts really mean to mean and ignores me. Sometimes I feel like i'm not her friend and sometimes i feel like we are best friends, What should I do?

omg i have been in the exact situation. i did something stupid... and what that was-was nothing, i felt bad but i just felt i couldnt do anything. but YOU can do something. i think you should talk to her and be like "hey, this may sound like gay but our friendship is important to me and its like whenever you are around those "friends" you always seem to leave me out and not talk to me. why is that" say something like that!

ii REALLY HOPED ii HELPED .^G^.

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hey well next month on the 5th me and my baby will be together for one year.. and i want some ideas of what we can do or something i can surprise him with.. Please dont say make a CD for him..or make a photo album cause i made a album of us for his birthday.. and if i made a CD he'd think im weird lol.. thanks alot and ill rate high for anything good romantic and cute..

umm this may sound so stupid but maybe you could take the cutest pic. of u and him and make a tee out of it. well maybe not but umm lets see going out to eat would be nice to a real romantic place. im really happy for yooh!! just have a great time. I hope i helped!!

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okay well tomorrow or thursday this guy that i like is gonna come down to my house .. i only have one thing planed and that is watch a movie.. because we won't have to talk because well i won't say he's shy but he's not good at making conversation.. so i realised it would be a good way to just like chill and cuddle :-) but what else can we do because that only takes up like 2 hours or less of the time! any answers would be gladly appreciated.. easy 5

umm idk but maybe you guys could like take a walk and TRY to talk. play a game or sumthing. eat!

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ok, my mom said no i couldnt go to the movies but i really really need to go. I mean, i haven't seen my boyfriend since the 22 of June. I really need to go to the movies to do SOMETHING with him. But my mom wont drive me, so i want somehow to get to the movies and back and then i want to get money to pay. I only need like 5.50. But i need to go at 7:20 (Eastern Time) Tonight! Please help!!!

ok well i kno how you can make the money. it mite seem kinda gay but you can make 5.50 (or a lil bit more) i made like $10.00 by doing this. if i t is hot out have a lemonade/ koolaid stand.
hope i helped w/ makeing money

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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..

whoa. um i guess u should try to be your own person and do what feels best. i just have no idea what to say i am younger than u and wouldnt kno how it feels.im so sorry

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Compared to everyone else, I have big legs. They aren't fat or anything, I just want to slim them down and tone the muscle. Any ideas?

well hmmm i guess maybe you could start running. i dont really know if that will help but it probly will.

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