about

hello, my name is jacqueline; although i go by jackie.
my answers to you will be %1o0 honest, & some will
be from past experience. If you decide to leave me..
something hateful then i am sure not to reply,or pay
any mind. i am open 2' anyone who comes to me for
suggestions, help,or`anythin of that matter.My page
is not on a particular topic. feel free 2' bring anythin
up. =D



I'm in love, I have been for the longest time.
We both have been, but various events have,
kept us apartt. We're finally together though
(: So yes,
i do have a boyfriend, his name is Matt ... I
love him with every bit of my heart left and
I'm so lucky to have him in my life. 10/7/06




and if you look down.. you
see where the questions n
advice start =) love -jakkk.

advice

i really like this guy & he told me he likes me too and everything but i dont know why we dont go out. i dont know if something is holding him back or what. but he did tell me that it wouldnt be all serious if we went out because were like so close as brother & sister. even though we dont think of each other like that. but it wouldnt be all serious because we could be ourselves around eachother. & idk we both agree it would be fun to go out. but not just for the fun because we both like eachother. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO IF I SHOULD ASK HIM OUT OR WAIT. I MEAN I DONT WANT TO HAVE TO WAIT BUT THEN I DONT WANT TO RUSH INTO ANYTHING, what should i do?

talk to him about it... maybe ask him once again what he thinks about going out. like you said you guys talk and it seems like you guys get along great so maybe just ask him if he's waiting for something? or maybe if he's waiting for you? how about this, you try it .. maybe even give it a couple of days, like you said.. you dont want to rush into anything. and then let me know what happened. hope i helped `xx.

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i got this friend who stepped in dog poo and is really upset about it. what should i do?

uhh...tell him it could be worse?

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My friend stepped in dog shit on the way to a wedding and didnt know it

what should he do??

theres nothing he can do, he can't turn back time.

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Hey i have a boyfriend and he is really nice but we dont see eachother anymore cause we go to different schools and summer is over and hes a nice guy but hes shorter and skinnier than me and hes taking things kind of fast and hes really nice nad a good friend and hes awesome and fun to be around and funny too. but i dont know if i should break up with him or not? i dont know what to do. help.

he sounds like a really good guy, and if youre confused about the short and skinny part it shouldn't matter... it's the inside that counts. and the fact that he's taking it a lil fast, just means you should talk to him about it .. he obviously doesn't know. maybe he thinks he's doing you a favor almost? like you want it faster?? tell me if i helped `xx.

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There's a girl that i really like who was over at one of my friends girlfreinds house, my friends girlfriend had a very beautiful girl over that come up on me and things happened not like sex or anything but like kissing, I didn't really know ehr and I don't really know her now but i really do like her but she doesn't belive me, what should I do? I really really like this girl a whole lot, I am just clueless on what to do and what to say to her because I really do have feelings for her, but she doesn't belive me.

are you hovering over her? maybe she just doesn't belive you because you dont know her? im not sure if there is anything i can tell you because if you were kissing [not knowing eachother] and now you like her it's a tad bit complicated. maybe you should wait it out untill she says something or ask about it... im sorry i couldn't help =/ `xx.

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hey i want to go to school but i really dont like it .... and i dont kno if i should just skip every day and fail it becuz i dont really like it at all and i just get in trouble all the time sooo. should i stay in school forever or skip everyday.. plzzz girl help me@! i really need this advice!!!

i seriously don't like school either. but we all have to go. i usually get into trouble a lot but pretty much everyone does. you cant skip school forever well.... if you still wanna be able to live your life right. oh and your mom will go to jail and shit, well it depends. so pretty much we all have no choice but to go =/ i say just deal with shcool, get some good friends [if you dont already have some] and just get it over with. it might seem like a long time but it'll pass before you know it. best of luck `xx.

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i really like this boy. when i talk to him though it seems pretty clear he doesnt want me to like him like that. i dont know what to do. but then another thing to ask you. theres a boy & like idk i feel alot of sexual tention between us, i mean i want to have sex with him but then im scared. what should i do about both of these things?

lets see. the first problem you have...you should just forget about it for right now, if he doesn't want you to like him then just be friends. and the second problem... do you like him? i mean really, he is probably just looking for sex and then thats it. sexual tension can be nice but it's not everything. you need to be careful and not throw yourself in the open like that. it doesn't seem like youre desperate, and if you are then you shouldn't be... let a guy find you. remeberrrr, a guy. not a horny bastard. think about it. you go and have sex with this guy that you feel tension with. and then what? become an easy scrap of meat? please be very careful, i don't know what else to tell you =/ if there is anything you'd like to add then leave me feedback of ask a question about something i have said `xx.

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i think you should ditch aleksander because hes gay eww yeah, and go out with matt, and yeah this is a girl not that jake kid.

im glad you gave me your opinion, im working on everything right now... ugh things are just so difficult. im going to ocean city in a couple of hours with my dad, his wife [my step mom;] and my two step brothers. i will be able to think things over and get my shit together by the time i get back. thanks though `xx.

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hey this boy asked me out but i told him idk dont get mewrong i like him but yeah i have strong feelings for this one boy soo much AND i told him how i felt bout him but he said not right now because he just broke up wiht his gf .. and i am sooo confused !! please help me !

so lemme get this straight. this boy asked you out, and you said nah at first. and now you like him and he's not ready yet? this question is sort of complicating... tell me if i got it right. and if i did then i can help you out, sorry. `xx.

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thers this boy i like n'd i think he likes me , we talk alot and stuff but i dont kno if i should make the first move or if he should =/

What should i do ?

you should try hinting on him a little bit. maybe even ask his close friends, or even your friends to talk to him. some boys are shy and im sure he likes you... he is probably wondering the same thing you are. just give it a little time, try not to rush things `xx.

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ahhh omg im so fucking mad i hate life and everyone in it -- im going to kill my self like jump off a bridge or something any suggestions

calm down. i know what it's like to want to kill myself. and everyone that knows me knows i do. i cant give you any suggestions or advice because you never told me what the peoblem is =/ but if you consitor telling me what is wrong then i'll be glad to help. one thing i can tell you though, stay strong; there are people out there who love you for you `xx.

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Okay, so my boy matt lieks this one girl, but she has a boyfriend. The two have been hanging out a lot and flirting all that jazz. The girl he ikes pulled me off to the side one time and seemed really confused on waht to do. I asked the Question " Well do you liek your bf or matt more?" she told me i cant ask things liek that. Am I to take that as she likes matt more? If so when will she move on from her boyfriend? I think the two will make an incredible couple and i jsut dont know how to go about making this easier for the two of them? any ideas?

jake, i know you are trying to help but ... it's really not helping me out. i just can't do anything right now, i am completely helpless. all i can ask for is a great friend to be there. you really wouldn't understand even if i explained it to you when i pulled you to the side. just please listen when i say that i can do all of this on my own. i love ya, dont get me wrong it's just now is not the time. i told u that i can fix everyone else's problems but not my own =/ talk to me on AIM.

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how can i try to become friends with someone when she hates me and wont give in ?

are you absolutely sure she hates you? maybe you are mistaken...how to become friends with someone who wont give in, hmm thats a tough one. maybe you need to ask her why she doesnt want to be your friend. she also might not trust you, it depends on what happened to you guys in the past... i hope i helped `xx.

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one time i was in the shower and i started having tingly feelings and then my heart thumped adnnd i touched my 'vagina' and got horny??
WHYYYYY

you are probably having raging hormones. like the question below this one, things like that happen everyday to differant people. it is normal even though it will seem wierd to you. tell me if i helped `xx.

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i like to play with my self is it wierd?

no not really.. it`s normal everyone does it.

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My Boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago. I really loved him. But now I think that I'm over him. He wanted to be friends, but now, he won't talk to me that much! If he wanted to be friends, why isn't he acting like one?

well you guys just broke up, maybe he's just busy... boys are really wierd and don`t know what they want usually untill it's gone. i think he might just feel uncomfortable talking to you because he probably thinks youre still hurt from the breakup. the term "just being friends" usually means he doesn't want you to be hurt. im sure you didn't love him if you are over him already... you guys broke up a few days ago. im sure he`ll come around though, if he doesnt than maybe just tell him you really wanna talk and tell him how you feel. he'll listen im sure

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i have a boyfriend and i like him a lot but i just always seem 2 wana cheat on him like hook up w/ another guy and be crazy.makeout w/ someone else an other things i realy dont kno whats rong i mean is it tht i dont like my boyfriend or im gettin tired of him cuz i like him a lot hes just not 1 of those guys tht u can makeout w/ an be crazy an everything

i think you like your boyfriend and all but you are a little "bored" with him. im not saying become a slut that every guy wants a piece of because thats really not good.. but you should maybe just break up with your boyfriend. he doesnt deserve that, if you like him but have the erdge to fool around with other guys than you shouldnt be with him if you know there is someone else you`d rather be hugging for kissing. your boyfriend might not just have that crazy side like you do, homrones make you wanna do silly stuff. you might just grow out of it or realize that you should just get with another guy. i cant say much because i wasnt really given a question. my advice to you is to talk to your boyfriend, maybe ask why he doesnt want to "mess around?" that is probably why you want to fool with someone else. because you cant with your own boy. tell me if i helped

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i had a friend named jackie (ps not that same berson below) and she was crazy and uppeat and alway happy and so much fun to be arund adn then her boyfreind changed her to some depressed emo who is like into that wierd stuff and i miss the old jackie now on her stuff its like ''you want to kill your slef'' and scirrors and shit tis scart

well, sometimes ... no almost always you just need to talk to that person. just because of something you heard or seen doesnt mean they are a different person. see for youreself if she/he is changed... dont judge, it's never right. i said pretty much what was needed to be told on the other question below 2 on my page, hope i helped. lemme know

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ive been having trouble gettign a boyfriend lately. i ve been flirtin and tellin guys i like them but 4 sum reason all they see me as is there buddy. i play basketball with them and i think thats why. i try not 2 b 2 guyish around them cuz i dont want 2 b just there buddy but it doesn;t work. how can i get past the buddy barrier?

well if you want to be past "buddy barrier" you need to just stick with one guy you like. that is most likely why they see you as [just a friend.] if you stick to a guy and get to know him, tell him you like him; and all that good stuff then he might just wake-up and realize that you like him. but untill then hangin with all of them will just make it seem like ya like spendin time with all the guys. be careful though hunny. try not to seem desperate though, sometimes you need to let the boys come to you.

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i like to jack off alot, is 4 times a day to much or is that normal

well, personally i think you need to get a girlfriend or something; to keep your mind off of masturbation. im pretty sure it`s normal though... everyone does it. if you are wondering, i say you should ask a couple of your guy friends about it [(not saying turn into a complete sicko)] but see what they have to say about it. i`d say someone you can trust =] hope i helped; lemme know

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