SiLenTxfAiRy's advice column

haha umm this is a wiked personal question but i heard a lot of girls do it...and i was wondering...is it better to shave..down there..so its not gross when you're like..getting F*ngerd n stuff...lol..

aw..ask me anything at all! i dont mind! yah definitally shave down there..guys like it nice and clean - keep it shaved as well. mow the lawn! lol

x0x-dani

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does anyone know where i can get good journal icons?

journal icons...or buddy icons

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yes she did it. and her daughter really dont kno whta hapenend she thinks that she fell an dslipped her head.

thats sad!:(

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yo what the fuck should u do when someone is tryin to kill ya

what to do when someone is trying to kill you? holy shit! uMm...run, and tell someone! i know it sounds childish..but seriously tell someone so that person can get help

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see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!!

well..im ALWAYS on the computer..so thats my hobby to make time fly! haha! start your own website:) its always fun to do something like that! or do a subprofile for your aim. :) search TOTALLY random things online! haha! like how do you make jello? haha!:) go to bored.com seriously..sounds corney but i was SO bored one day home alone, and i checked out EVERY site on there and the day flew RIGHT by! haha!

x0x-dani

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I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.

Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long?

yah it may be because you tore something during sex. go see your doctor! and just tell them whats going on, doctors know best!

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well i have school in a few weeks and i dont know what to ware i am like sporty and girly girl and a tom boy?

tomboy! i know about this one! im all over this q!:) haha! i use to shop at Olympia Sports ALL the time! and even go to department stores such as Macys or Sears..and go in the boys department, when i was younger i was a wicked tomboy and i bought boys clothes cuz they were SO comfortable...:) wear what makes you comfortable! even try wal*mart!

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hey..ok me and my friends wanna spend the rest of the summer having soooo much fun. we havent been doing much..cuz we cant think of anything..anyone have any ideas??

Go to the beach..and scope out guys!:) thats always fun..and if the beach has a trolly go ride around on it! i know it sounds dumb, but its fun to do random things like that! if you can drive..go pimpin around town in your car listening to OLD school stuff!! its wicked fun!! believe me ive done it! haha! or if your friends are more of the inside people make a scrapbook of pictures..its always nice to look back on memorys

x0x-dani

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i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice?

WOW! every boyfriend? if you want to or not..so does that mean you were forced?:( advice for this one...is for your next boyfriend dont do it. if you really care about him, then take things slow. dont just jump the guns and do shit..guys like that about a girl..but whats the fun in a relationship after everything is already done?

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Last year my going to be step mom was by polo and comitted cucide......and she has a daughter that left now all of her little friends come over and ask me how shes doing what should i do?...

how shes doing? did she try to commit suicide or actually do it? kinda confussed..but since their coming over it shows they care..just show them simpathy and just go along with it..or if it gets really bad tell them straight out (without being rude) that you dont like them stopping by

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Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it?

depressed..wow i know alot about this topic! when i was depressed i listened to music that just got me jumping..like retarded music, Backstreet Boys, N*sync..stuff that I listened to when I was younger..it brought back memories of when I was a dumb..dumb kid! haha! Just Kidding! ;-) but..think about positive things..take a nap and dream away the hurt:)

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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do?

well come right out and tell him your not ready...be honest with him. i know i was with my boyfriend:) and honesty gets you far in a relationship. take it slow!:)

x0x-dani

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I have always, always trusted my mom and was able to talk to her about anything. But then as I got older I kind of tucked away to myself and only talked to my mom about the things I really needed help with, advice on, but I didn’t want anybody else in my family to know about. And I trusted her not to talk to any of my other family members about what I told her. Until recently when I was checking my e-mail and I accidentally clicked on her folder and my eye caught my name. Even though I know I shouldn’t have, I read the e-mail. It was all about my most private things that I don’t want anybody to know about and she e-mailed my relatives telling them everything. I don’t know what to do! Should I talk to her about it, and confess I read her e-mail? Or just not tell her anything anymore, or what? I need advice!

wow..thats kinda horrible how your mom did that to you:( i know my mom wouldnt ever do that..however they are your relatives. i remember when i started my period i told my mom not to tell anyone, and she told my aunt and sister and i got presents for "becoming a women" haha! anyways...i think you should definitally come out and tell her that you came across that (yah she'll probably be mad) but make your point to say that you want to tell her exactly how you feel before she chimes in. tell her how you feel and that you feel like you dont trust her anymore. personally, i use to tell my mom everything then i grew up a bit..and now i tell my boyfriend everything, along with my best girl friend.

x0x-dani

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okay 2 of my friends like the same guys and i asked the gusy what he though about both of them and he said he need to get to know then and i really think one of my friends is way out of his league and one is perfect for him whatthe heck am i supose to do im always put in these situation

tell the guy!:) even though their both your friends..be honest with him and your friends

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Hey! me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and I love him to death!!But one thing, whenever i think about him being with someone else or breaking up with me just breaks my heart. Do you think thats something to be worrying about?

well it seams like you two are really commited to eachother to be together for 7 months. its normal to think about breaking up and not being with eachother, but dont worry about it. unless he has given you hints its over..or things have been going wrong for awhile then you should be worried. live life to the fullest, and love strongly:)..get back to me on whats goin on! I wanna know! lol

x0x-dani

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your clothes are adorable! where do you shop?

uMm..well i shop everywhere:) Pac-Sun, Weathervane (I CANT BELIEVE ITS CLOSING!:( TEAR!), Aeropostale, Abercrombie..just everywhere!:)

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where did you get your prom dress? its beautiful! btw, ryan is a hottie! whats the scoop on you two?

actually, it was last minuet when ryan and i decided to go to prom..so i borrowed it from my cousin candice. :) whats the scoop with me and ry?..nothing i guess..we're happily together, enjoying all the time we spend together and just living life to the fullest. we're both working right now so its kinda tough to see eachother but ryz gunna have his licence soon! so we can see eachother alot more!

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ok well i was w/ this one guy for about 2 yrs and we got into a big fight over suntin dumb and broke up for a long time and his older brother came along n picked up where he left off .. and i started dating his brother well we've been dating for about 3 months and now this other guy is wanting to be back in my life again and my heart is still stuck on him and i loved him more than anything but he wasnt treating me right so i had to get away and i love his brother sooo much im in love w/ both of them wat do i do? half of my heart is w/ one of them and the other half is w/ the other one ... how do i make the right choice w/out breaking it in half?

wow..brothers? thats a toughie..2 years is two years though. im sorry sweetie, but i dont agree with the brothers AT ALL..thats just weird for you..him and the brother. but its your life not mine:) so ima go with it:) anyways, being with this guy for 3 months has shown you a side of him you fell in love with your ex for you to spend 2 years out of your life with him. Long relationships end hard..and you never reallie get over them, I would follow your heart and go with the guy you spent 2 years with. Those 2 years were 2 years filled with someone you cared about who cared about you..the only reason you two broke up was because a missunderstanding...you moved on, and fell in love with someone else..but your heart is still with your ex. the strength of a first love will always be in your heart..i promise you that! stay true to yourself and them..think about how you want to spend your life and time..who makes you happier..and who you REALLY TRULLY love more..sit with your eyes closed..in silence and think..rember good and bad times...who would you rather spend the bad times with? reallie question yourself..love is something that shouldnt be played with..be true to yourself and them.

x0x-dani

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Hi, My name is Tiffany I'm 16. Its been almost 4 months since my ex of 9 months broke up with me but i still love him with all of my heart! I tried to move on when he first broke up with me but it didn't work out. Over time he got a new g/f too. I have tried so hard to just get over him and i just can't. Sometimes it seems like he is mean to me. I have cried so much. I even called him up once and told him how much i still loved him and I spilled my heart to him him, but all he did was, "I'm 15, i don't know the answers to the world". He ended up telling everyone my pityful story and now ppl think i am obsessed with him and i kinda get crap about that. Its true tho i guess, i mean I Would do anything for another chance with him! Plenty of other guys like me and have been asking me out but i end up saying no cause i still like my ex soooo much! and i don't think it would be fair to them! Also, I know this is mean but sometimes i just hope that him and his new g/f will break up! It just doesn't seem fair that we aren't together! When He broke up with me he said it was because he didn't want to ruin things now while we were still young and that he could deff. see us going out in the future. He also said that we would be Best Friends and talk all the time. Well, We don't talk or see eachother and he acts mean sometimes and I don't even know what to think of this, specially since i told him how i felt about everything!I talked to him not too long ago and he also said that not many ppl like me! Even tho lots of ppl do! How can i get him to like me again or at least be my friend! I don't know What to do! What you think about All this! I need some real help! Thanks!

wow sweetheart..this guy sounds like a total jerk! ((sorry to say!)) I can see how you are still totally in love with him, when your with someone you really love and care about then all of a sudden they break your heart..its not easy moving on..believe me i know! you poured your heart out to this guy, and all he did was step on it. sweetheart, you dont need to be treated like crap by this 15 year old that doesnt even know what a relationship is. best friends and couple are two completly diffrent things with completly diffrent feelings and emotions. It really sounds like this guy is a total jerk to you..first you two are all happy together, then he breaks your heart..you spill your heart out to him, he stomps on it..treats you like shit..I know your completly still into this guy but sweetheart look at what he has done to you...look at what he has said and put you through since the break up. You definitally dont deserve this at all. I know getting over someone is tough..but it is worth it in the end..I strongly believe in fate, fate has its own path planned for you and things will work out in the end. It's summer now, head down to the beach..and spend time with the girls. Really..your 16, almost 17..which is almost 18..which is almost graduating from high school! Cherish the time you have, and spend time with your true friends that you love so much...the love you hold for them and the love they hold for you will help that little hole this guy created in your heart to overflow with joy and happiness:)

keep your head held high..i mean it!:) and keep me updated!

x0x-dani

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