My boyfriend and I broke up about 5 weeks ago and i had BIG problems getting over him because we really really loved eachother and then he broke it off saying "I'm not ready to b attached to someone right not" after 4 months. I'm not even sure if I'm totally over him now, but there's this guy who I've known since kindergarden who I think i like, but not just as a rebound thing. The thing is that he has a girlfriend, but she's moving to chicago this summer so they're gonna break it off. What should I do: go on liking him because he's an amazign guy and its REALLY helping me take the sting out of the old boyfriend...or just 4get about it. and if i should still like him, shoudl i tell him or do anything?

It's okay to move on. But this new guy has a girlfriend. You have to think of her perspective. She's just like you...she lost a boyfriend she really loved. I don't think she'd feel comfortable having you date her boyfriend right away, do you? So after they break up, give it some time to sink in. Then you can tell him you have some strong feelings for him. If he feels the same, you guys are on the right track and you can go out. If he doesn't, it's okay...at least you guys are still great friends. Dating is about experiencing new things, bonding with someone, and finding what you need and want. If something doesn't work out, you let it sink in and move on to live life. Good luck!

Just search "myspace layouts" on google, and other search engines. It works. I don't use myspace, but I looked for some layouts and found a few right off the bat.

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=2990515&Mytoken=20040806183459
http://www.createblog.com/skins/index.php?type_id=3
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.ListAll&friendID=8191370&Mytoken=20050506161728

Here are some quote sites I know of. Hope you find some quotes you like.

- http://www.timelessquotes.com
- http://firehotquotes.bolt.com
- http://www.dailyinspiringquotes.com
- http://www.motivatingquotes.com
- http://www.worldofquotes.com

There have been lots of questions about online relationships. If you want to see my opinion, check out this answer I've written to another question:

http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=HyperactiveMiss&mode=qview&q=339867

I know for sure there is a working code for switching module sides. Try looking through the scripts at these two popular sites:

http://createblog.com
http://blogring.net

They should have the code there on one site or the other (or both). I've seen the code before.

EDIT: I've gone the extra mile (lol) and searched for the script for you. Go here:

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=19&hl=switch+module

Sorry, that would be illegal. If it were that easy, why would they sell Adobe for hundreds of dollars? I would reccommend GIMP to you. You can download it absolutely free here:

http://gimp.org

It's very good and I heard from some it's even better than adobe. It's worth a try; it's free.

Actually, these people are wrong. There are FEMALE condoms. As far as I know, people don't use them commonly, but they do exist and some people wear them.

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First thing's first...Trust is probably one of the most IMPORTANT things in a relationship. Without it, why bother trying? If you do not trust your boyfriend, you shouldn't even be going out with him.

If you think he's the type that would cheat on his girlfriend, why are you still with him?! If it were me, I'd dump him before he hurt me. I wouldn't bother with a guy that:
1) I don't trust 2) is a cheater 3) has been proven doing things behind your back.

You shouldn't be worried if HE will be mad. You have a right to be mad. Who cares if he gets mad? What you need to do is tell him directly you went on his myspace account and you know he's been writing things to other girls. You did it because you had suspicions, and behold, your suspicions were correct. If he loved you he wouldn't need any other girls behind your back.

Conclusion? Have a talk with him and break up with him.

TIP: Don't forget to change your password!

For one thing, just because he says you're hot doesn't mean you need to do anything about that. It's normal to think people are hot, and complimenting them is a good thing. It doesn't have to mean anything.

In my honest opinon...I'd say most online relationships don't work out. There may be a few lucky duckies out there, but I think finding love the old fashioned way is better.

With online relationships, the biggest problem you're encounter is how honest they are. Anyone could slap on a pretty picture of some dude or chick on their profile, and call themselves 21 years old. And the thing is, you'll never really know for sure what they really look like and who they really are. Online, you can lie about EVERYTHING. You can create your own identity.

Even if you found someone that is telling the truth about themselves, the problem is keeping in touch with them. Talking on the phone is not enough, in my opinion. And since you never see each other, it leaves an even bigger chance of them cheating on you. Some married guy could just try an online dating site just for kicks.

Once you think you know someone really well, and even met them, it doesn't mean you know them. Think about it. The people you interact with every day at school or work, friends, family, etc...you know them all, but you never really KNOW what's behind their mask. If it's like that with people you KNOW, how much safer do you think it is with a person ONLINE?

Lovers separated by distance CAN make it, but only if they TRY to keep it working. They have to constantly communicate somehow and see each other over periods of time. It's a lot of trouble though, if you ask me.

So all in all, I think finding love somewhere in your own home is safer and easier to deal with.

Conclusion? Don't get serious with the guy and don't think anything of it.

You could start talking and make them believe they're actually talking to you, and then finally say something like "Leave a message after the beep" lol.

Maybe you do love him. Actually, it all depends on what you think "love" is and how strong you're using the word.

Since you're really good friends, it should be okay to talk to him. Don't tell him you love him just yet. Just tell him you have strong feelings for him and etc.

If your friendship is really strong, it will not mess it up. If it does mess up, it just shows you how weak it was. So either way, you win because you gain knowledge.

If you don't tell him, you'll probably regret it. Keeping something like this to yourself will probably eat you alive. Take risks. If you never take risks, you'll never gain anything good. So go out there and go for it!

1) Don't fall for a friend (especially best friend) of your brother's.
2) Don't fall for a guy that is 3 or 4 years older than you until you're out of school.

My honest advice to you? Keep it as a crush. You don't even know how old the guy is! lol. If you don't even know how old he is, how do you know if he doesn't already have a girlfriend?

You probably just admire him a lot. It's very easy to like older guys because older people are usually very cool and you just want to hang out with them and everything. Just because you like him doesn't mean you should make anything of it.

When I typed number 1 up there, I do mean it. It's best to keep it that way. Your brother probably wouldn't want his friends dating his little sister. Would you be comfortable with your best friend dating your brother? And even if it did work out, it would cause problems. You might "steal" his best friend away from him. Or he might want to butt into your relationship. Things like that.

When I typed number 2 up there, I do mean it. The guy is 3-4 years older than you! Of course it wouldn't matter once you're out of school; people get married with people 10 years older than them, but the thing is, it DOES matter when you are still in school. Grades are what make ages a big difference. Think of it like this. Someone in 5th grade and someone in 8th grade. In years, that's not much of a difference. But in grade level, it's HUGE. That is an elementary schooler and a middle school almost moving on to high school. See what I mean?

If you ever went out with your brother's friend, more troubles will come. He is probably already done with high school or at least getting ready to graduate. And you will have just be beginning high school. See the problem here? You two will need to go your separate ways and it will be hard to stay together. Since he is older and you are younger, you guys are experiencing different things. People date people their own ages because usually they are going through the same things together at the same time.

If there was ever an 18 year old guy wanting to date a 14 year old girl, it would only be because he was desperate or wanted to use her. Of course there are a few special guys that aren't like that, but that's rare. He probably does like you, but only as his best friend's little sister. And if he's nice to you, it means he's a nice guy, it doesn't mean he's trying to make moves on you.

So what I'm saying is, it's best to not say anything to him. I know it's probably not what you wanna hear, but I'm just trying to give you advice and let you see what the cons of the situation are.

Well I'll be honest here, you want honesty right? Otherwise, what's the point of asking other people this question?

You only posted 4 lines of conversation...it's not enough for us to be able to tell you he likes you. From those 4 lines it sounds like he might like you, or maybe he's just joking around or trying to be nice. Only you can decide because you actually know him.

As far as I know there is nothing to do to delay your period or make it come sooner. It's a natural thing that happens to your body... If your egg isn't fertilized the extra blood and tissue in the uterus for the egg has to be disposed. That's why we have periods and you can't really do anything to prevent something natural. Sorry!

Well, I don't know anything about highlighting your hair with lemon juice, but I looked it up for you and maybe these sites may be of help.

- http://www.ehow.com/how_2341_make-hair-blonder.html
- http://www.motherearthnews.com/top_articles/1982_March_April/Color_Your_Hair___Naturally_

AIM profile search, as in you wanna search for someone's profile right? If that's what you mean, you could just click on the username on your buddy list and click Info at the bottom of your buddy list or right click a username and click Get Info. If a person isn't on your buddy list, click Info at the bottom of your buddy list, type in their username where it says "Enter the screen name of the user you wish to get info about:", and click OK. If it says no info available that just means they aren't online and you can't view it.

If she is very dedicated to that other guy, there must be a reason. She probably loves him very much. If you care about her, you'll let her be. You don't KNOW the other guy doesn't love her the way you do. Of course you feel that way, any guy in love would feel the same, but don't make assumptions just based on your feelings. If the other guy isn't that great of a boyfriend, just let it be. Eventually she will see that. In the meantime you can just be nice to her and just be there for her. And if things don't work out between you and her, there are plenty of other girls out there for you and at least you are still good friends with her.

Well actually, that's not true. He can't say "you shouldn't cry because you're the one that broke up with me". You know why? Because sometimes it hurts people to break up with someone. Sometimes people are hurt and cry, but break up with someone because it's for the best. Just because they did the breaking up part doesn't mean they can't do the crying part. Actually, crying kind of proves you do have a heart and you do care for him. So don't feel like a loser or an idiot.

Tell him if he's going to continue dating you, he had better keep his eyes off of other girls. If he likes other girls so much, he isn't giving you enough attention and you shouldn't bother dating the guy. Not only is he looking at other girls, he's being really rude about it. Tell him you don't appreciate him saying things like that, especially about other girls. Don't feel bad about being mad at him, who wouldn't be? So just talk to him and get some sense into his head. If it doesn't work, break up with him. That's what dating is all about. Good luck!

Well it depends. Do you want your boyfriend to be friends with you even after you break up, or would you like him to keep his distance? Whatever it is, you really should just be straightforward. Don't confuse him, don't talk in circles, etc.

Just ask him to meet you somewhere because you two need to have an important talk. When you guys do talk, tell him you want to split up and tell him why (because he'll definitely want to know why). If you wanna still be friends, tell him so, and if you don't just tell him you'd rather go your separate ways and whatnot.

Tip: Don't ever ever get someone else to break up with your boyfriend. It's very cowardly and and it's not nice at all. If you're going to break up with your boyfriend, the least you can do is tell him yourself. Good luck.