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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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hey i just wanted to say that im pretty impressed by ur advise page. its good that people are out there helping others with the problems. and um just u know keep it up and thanks. oh yea and ur wicked pretty just to let ya know.

aw thanks!! you gotta IM me so we can talk!

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Is it possible to have a relationship all throughout your school years? I'm in 8th grade right now and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and I really want to stay with him forever

well.. i wouldnt know. but of course theres a possiblity. everythings possible. but most likely not.. i mean your young! if you think you really know what love is and you think you both are trully made for each other.. then sure! it could last a looonnnng time!

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I have a big problem that I need help on!! Me and my bf had been going out for 3 weeks and 4 days. But hten he broke up with me saying that you can't love someone forever. But then the next day he had a gf who I hate and she hates me! I told him we could still be friends and he agreed too. But now whenever he sees me he gets all mushy gushy with his gf, but when no one is around, he barley talks to her. I think he still ikes me tho! I c him looking at me all the time. Me and him are in basketball together and his gf is in basketball too. I still love him soo much. NAd I'm extremly jealous of his gf. I think about him all the time and I cna't stop!! I want to tell him I still have feelings for him.. but I don't know how!!

ok if he said that you cant loe someone forever he probably never loved you. he probably just liked you. i doubt you LOVE him if you both only went out for 3 weeks and 4 days.. but you probably liked him ALOT. i dont know really but um just get over him! you really dont wanna end his new relationship do you? it isnt fair. you'll find someone new dont worry!

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adina justin wont talk to me he says im selfish i know i am and im changing alot but he wont talk to me to tell him that ive changed alot. what should i do?


ttyl
susan

go up to him and be like "i need to explain why im supposidly "selfish" so listen to me!!" lol you are gonna havta be upfront with him to be able to get him to listen. either that or just forget about him.. which i know you dont want to do! and if nothing works.. try and get a friend to help you out by tellen justin he needs to let you talk to him

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How do u mastorbate?

OMG who the heck is this?

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hey is there any way to get a bigger penis

uhh wtf? i dont care about ur penis so dont ask me

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Oh gee..Well the problem that I have is that my cock is too big. It's bothering me because it is visible even when I have pants on, and it is a killer when I get boner. How do I lose the load?

william.. shut up lol

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I need help my boyfreind is never nice to me he hits me and he always wants me to give him head and have sex and he tells me he loves me and once and awhile hell be nice to me and if i dont do what he wants hell get mad what should i do?

OMGSH girl break up with him!!! i hate to tell you.. but it seems to me he is using you. dont let him treat you like that! dump the creep and find a guy who will treat you with respect.. exactly wat u deserve!! ur tough.. tough enough to stand up for yourself! boyfriends dont do that to their girlfriends.. and if he truly loved you he wouldnt hit you!

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what store do you like best? abercrombie, american eagle, hollister, pac sun.. or sometin else?? bc i donno where i should go buy my clothes!

aw!! lol shoppin is soo fun! i like hollister the best!! not only are their clothes cute but they fit me! lol like pants.. they always have pants for small ppl like me cause like at american eagle and pac sun and abercrombie never have pants that fit me.. and at hollister they fit me perfectly! love it.. and they have the cutest pants ever! its just that they r really expensive! i love to go to american eagle for shirts tho! and abercrombie! i havent been there in a while.. i used to shop there all the time tho! just shop all over the place.. lol

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My boyfriend just broke up with me!!! im so hurt omg :'-( how long well it take for me to get over him? because he was my first long relationship!

there isnt a certain time you will get over him. sometimes it may take a few days, sometimes it may take a few weeks, sometimes you just never will. just hang out with your friends, party! enjoy being single.. and meet new guys! im really sorry bout the break up! break ups r horrible :( good luck!

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my boyfriend and me go to diffrent schools and alot of his friends are im me saying that he is telling everyone we arnt going out but they are saying the dont think its true. he is grounded and i cant talk to him. its bugging me because i dont think he would say it but im not sure because we just started going out. help me if you can thx

i never really did like going out with guys who went to different schools because ya never know wats goin on in your boyfriends social life at his skool! unless he tells you.. truthfully. do you really think he would say sumten like that? if yal just started going out.. then i can understand if you dont. some times you have to believe things that have no proof. if you think hes a great guy and would never say sumten like that, then forget about wat his friends are saying. plus they say they dont think its true! so it probably isnt! if you think he would say sumten like that then talk to him about it. people will say stuff like that alot, even if it isnt true. and its ten times harder to not believe it, when your boyfriend goes to another school.

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My mom is pregnant and its kinda making her be in a bad mood all the time. And she takes all her anger out on me and everytime something goes wrong she blames it on me. Everytime I try to talk to her she says I am making her mad and that i am hurting the baby...How can I get her to understand that it aint my fault?

Wow. i had to go thru the same ol thing .. TWICE! i kno exactly how u r feeling!! ya kno, nothin u say is going to change the way shes acting rite now that she is pregnant. i remember.. right after my mom had her baby and after i talked to her about the way she treated me she was like "im so sorry for treating you badly wen i was pregnant.. it was my hormones. i promise i wont treat you like that again.. even if i have another baby." and op she had another one! and while she was pregnant of him, she acted the way she said she wouldnt act. next time she overreacts wen u try to talk to her, tell her you arent trying to get her mad, and that you just want to communicate with her without her freaking out. and tell her it isnt fair that she blames her hormones on you, because it isnt your fault. just tell her how you are feeling.. but sometimes even that wont help any. you are probably just going to have to wait those long 9 months. :/

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the whole problem is everytime igo to talk to him he walks away and wont let me say what i want to say. and when ic all him he picks up and hangs up. and when i get ppl to talk to him for me he tells them to f off

wow.. ok do you seriously wanna be friends with him again? i wouldnt if hes been acting like an ass! sweety.. just let him go! its the right thing to do.. as i see it, there really is no way you can get him back. :/ how can you have a friend if you cant even communicate with him? i understand its hard and u still care about him.. but maybe later on in the future he will grow up and listen to you.

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ok i dont know how to put this so if it doesnt make since im sry but neways
me and this guy were really good friends we did everything together. we were freinds from the begining of 6th grade and then all of a sudden he stoped talking to me and now he wont even talk to me about what i did wrong or if i even did something wrong. he had one of his and my freinds stop talking to me too. but a while ago micheal started talking to me and told me that my xbestfriend didnt even have a reason for not talking to me anymore. i miss him so much and i really dont know what else i can do to try to get him to talk to me. if u could plz help me i would really be happy thx

have you talked to him about how you are feeling? if you havent do so. that will help alot.. and if yal were really good freinds, yal would be able to express your feelings to one another. sometimes people just drift apart.. even if yal were really close. trust me its happened to me plenty of times. sometimes you just havta let go and move on.. but if you cant live life without him then seriously talk to him. maybe he is feeling the same way. but some things like this happen and theres usually no reason why.

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should guys shave down there?
how bout girls?

it really doesnt matter! lol thats a guys decision. if ya want it shaved down there.. go for it! if not then dont! and if ya really care about wat ur girl thinks.. ask her. not me... lol! uhh chaz ur a weirdo!! lol

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i like this guy but hes like my best guy friend...and ive liked him b4 like two years ago and he found out i liked him...our friendship kinda didnt work out so now i FINALLY am friends w him again but idk wut to do cuz hes always flirty but im not sure if hes just kidding around...PLEASE HELP ME!! I

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What should I get my boyfriend for his 15th birthday?

well um lol im not a guy! im not the person u should be asken! well it really depends.. it depends on wat kind of a guy he is and wat he likes. you should know wat he likes! or just ask alot of guys for their opinion!

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is it okay 2 have an online relationship ? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship ? i am scared 2!

online relationships can be really risky and dangerous cause the person u talk to on the internet may not be exactly who they say they are. if he wants to break up with his girlfriend, then thats totally up to him. im not sure if u should tell your parents, its such an awkward situation cause online dating is scary sometimes! but, if you're perfectly sure of this guy..then, by all means, go right ahead and meet him and tell your friends and family!

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i really need help.. so please read this =(
- my boyfriend dumped me in PUBLIC at a football game! but it was ON OUR 2 YEAR ANIVERSARY!!! =( i was so heart broken and i couldnt believe what happen.. and he was tellin me stuff like he will always love me and shit but i was like "how will that help me, know you will always love me but you are with another girl?" it was awful!! so now he is like i hate being single it isnt what i thought blah blah and i still REALLY like him a lot and he likes me but im not so sure we should go out because that was the second time he broke up with me then came crawling back.. what should i do?

u may still have strong feelings for him, but the right thing to do is move on. hes a big part of ur past, and im not telling you to not be friends with him or anything.. just don't go back out with him. You both need to see other people and get a feel for the world around you. maybe wen you r older your relationship can work out better :D good luck & im really sorry!

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im 13 years old and i think i might have add. i went on this one website just to take a test and it said if you pick 8 or more than you might have add or something and i picked 10.....
im scared and i dont want to tell my mom what should i do?

ok some tests on websites may not always be 100% right, but if you want to make sure, you should see a specialist. i dont know much about add but you are probably going to have to tell your mom about it, whether u like it or not. why wouldnt you be able to? well if you dont, you should see the nurse at your school.. maybe she can help you out with this problem?

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