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my hair totally doesnt scrunch.Its not pretty wavy its more like bumpy straight.. its wierd. I go to straighten it and it poofs out.... and everyone else has like perfect ideas. Anyway of getting PERFECT hairstyles, or perfect straight hair?

p.s. i have a straightner, i usually dont do blowdrying, it makes my hair too frizzy any way i do it

hEY! alright wut do u mean by it poofout? like it doesnt straighten right or something because it's not suppose to poof out.

Straight hair:
you can try to wash it and blow dry it a little bit and then section ur hair out and straighten it but u can try to go to walmart or someplace and get some product that can help straighten ur hair if that doesnt work but as of now try adding some gel or little bit of hair spray and then straighten it. and usually flat irons work the best too so that could be the problem. but after you do straighten that one section run it over again a few times and then spray a little more bit of hair spray to hold it. but not too much or it will be crunchy.

perfect hair style you can try a messy bun cuz you dont haev to do much to it but put it up and twist it along the way. high ponytails. you can have ur hair french braided down the middle or two one on eachside would be cute. hmm leaving it down but adding a bit more wave and volume to it is a good idea. anything else let me kno! take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Hey!! I'm 14 andI wear my hair in a low pony tail EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! im not kidding!! I do this because it is always sticking up somewhere. I can't get a straightener ( im not allowed to) and i can't blowdry it straight. I have brown hair, below the shoulders and it curls alot at the ends. Does anybody have any suggestions on ANYTHING i can do with my hair!!?!?!??!?! Thanks so much!! I'll rate you high:):)
Thanks!

hey. you can put it up in a high pony tail or let it down. try a messy bun too...and the trick to blow dry it straight is that wen u get outta the shower you spray conditioner and then brush it and then point ur hairdryer down while u are drying. i do this everytime i wash my hair and then afterwards spray a little more conditioning to it and it will be smooth and straight. give it a try. or u can get products that make ur hair straight. let me kno if u need anything else. take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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My friend and I were exchanging secrets, and i found out that she had been cutting every time she got stressed out; she swore she'd stop, but then I saw two more marks... she just said she'd stop again, and she was talking about it like its no big deal.
(she's been through a lot... she was adopted when she was six, and she thinks her real parents sexually abused her (and beat her)).
I'm worried... what should I do?
-_concerned-friend_-

hi. the best thing you can do it let an adult kno about this so they will kno wut to do. cuz i wouldnt kno wut to do either but try to keep her from doing it. just keep an eye on her until u can tell an adult that u trust so they can help her. take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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how long does it take to blowdyr ur hair i have like hair that is medium like not to thick or thin and its like 3 inches pass my shoulder

my hair is long layered and medium/think. depends how u look at it but with the process i told you i use to straighten it is about 10 to 15 mintues max. it doesnt take that long. anything else u wanna kno just ask! take care. x3 SweetStar.

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wut do u mean u do the same thing like u blowdry ur hair instead of straightening"?

hEY!. yeah i blow dry it straight instead cuz it doesnt take as long and it's easier then to section ur hair out and flaten it yah kno. anything else just ask. Take Care x3 SweetStar.

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Hey i've ben straightening my hair for about 2 years and i just feel like blowdryin it straight wut is the best way to blow dry it straight and make it not look so puffy? THANK YOU!!! * i rate *

hEY! i do the same thing...just put some spray conditioning and blow dry it down. like pointing the dryer down when u blow dry it. and keep doing it until it's all dry. as long as u point the head down and dry it...and then afterwards you can spray a little bit of the condtioner in again and it was be frizz free and smooth. it works for me. let me kno if u need more help! take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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What's the best fall style's this year? I've been shopping at American Eagle, and Maurices. I heard Gadzooks is a good place. What else?

I'm also trying to impress my crush. xD

hEY! try aeropostale. they have really nice clothes there for all season...they do change every now and then so check there one weekend...hmm jcpennys have alot of things too...wet seal changes there line every season...hmm h&M...if u want more stores let me kno...Take Care. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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does anybody on here know any good things to do when youre doing the ouija board??! we want it too work really good and were making it charge for glowing in the dark n stuff now so does anyone have expierience that woroked really good and you did something special?? lol thanks much

HeY! i agree with surfergirl! those things are dangerous and wierd. i wouldnt mess with u if i where u. my cousin did before and it's weird and when i played it with my friend it was soo scary and then her dog ended up dying and this one time they gave us a date. well my friend but i wasnt playing. and excatly on febuary 2 at 2:22 a tree fell on a house. thats wut i was told so i woudnt mess with it but if u must then have fun! take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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ok I want to get my hair thinned..but my mom has a lot of questions that I don't have the answers to..so here goes:
1. What is the process of hair thinning?
2. How much does it cost?
3. What are the negatives and positives?
Thanks!

hEY!
1. the process is having ur hair layered. like in the front for example from the middle of ur forehead ur hair will be shorter then the hair near ur ears u get wut i'm saying? and u have the choice of having the back layered or not. it would be better if the back is layer too. so it's even looking.
2. it depends where u go and how much they cost but usally like between $20-$40 and depends how long and much ahir u have.
3. for me there isn't really any positive or negative. it makes ur hair look pretty and have a better style or something.
anything else u can let me kno. take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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are ghosts real? have you ever seen one?? just wondering!!

Hi. well i hear my dad talkin about ghost once about this house we use to live in and wen he went back to get everything settle for sale and everything he heard something doing the dishes and when we went to see who it was there wasnt anyone...so yeah i guess u can say that there are ghost. i have alot of stories too if u wanna hear them u can contact me. like this one time my cousin was playing with them weegie boards...sorry i cant spell it the right way ojie or something but yeah and wierd things happenedd..i mean we're on earth...anything can happen lol take care! hope i hlped! x3 SweetStar.

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ok i injured my elbow badly a few days ago. im not sure whats wrong. my arm was purple and freezing a few minutes ago, so i moved it (it hurt really bad) but i got circulation back in it. theres a deepish cut on my elbow from my fall and it was scabbed. the scab fell off so i put bactine on it. i dunno whats wrong. i looked up some of my symptoms (tingling arm, tight feeling, etc.)n it said it could be nerve damage. like whenever i turn my elbow it cracks but the other doesnt. it hurts so bad to move it. i dont know what to do right now im scared. tomorrow is school but im not sure if i need to go to the doctor. please help me out. if you need any other info i'll add it in the additional info thing. thank u soo much

Hi i agree with moonfisher. it would be something series and you should go and get it checked out QUICK! you never kno how bad it is and dont be scared or nothing when u go to doctors. tell them how u injured it and they will kno excatly how to cure it. and dont want anymore because the longer u wait the worst it can get so get to the doctors ASAP! take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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xXxPinky615xXx here,

I am getting annoyed with people saying "Do not delete this question!" If you're afraid it's going to get deleted then don't post it! If you've seen the question on the site before, just use that advice instead of asking the same question that we've all seen 50 million times on this site. Ex: I think this boy/girl likes me. How can I tell if he likes me or not? Seriously guys... it's annoying. Another example: I think my boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on me. How do I tell? Honestly, if you go through all of the pages you will see those same questions asked about 5 times on each page! ENOUGH!!

Thank you!

hEY! i soo agree!

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Ok...my friend Abby has major problems. She's always telling everyone shes fat when shes only 100 pounds!! We are 13 and also she used to cut herself. She passed herself out in the shower and she got a big bruise on her back. Her mom is always in jail for doing drugs and her mom had a mixed baby! Abby lives with her grandparents... and they dont take her seriously when she says that shes Depressed. I tell my mom everything she tells me and my mom is really trying to help her and my mom even looked up people to help her...do you think we are doing the right thing by helping her? or should we let her deal with her parents? please help my friend! i will apprecaite it soo much!

hi. you are doing the right thing. because you care for her and everything. keep it up and let her kno that you are worry about her too and try to even talk to her grandparents about her issues and tell them that she's telling the truth and not lying. see how they react and everything and tell them some things that she told u. she's very lucky to have a friend like u. hope ur mom and you can help her out! Take Care! hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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i think my friends in trouble...how can i help her without having her being mad and everything for thinking that she needs help and things...please help me! i'll rate you

hey! you kno wut just tell her u want to help her with her trouble. i dont kno excatly wut the 'trouble' is but i'm sure that if it's bugging you this much that you want to help her then you should just let her kno that you want to help her so that she doesnt have to go through it all by herself. wut a graet friend to have! ur great! yea just tell her and i'm sure she will understand but if she doesnt need help then let her kno that if she does tell her that she knos where to find you wen she needs help and i'm sure she will. let me kno if you need anymore help! Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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alright i dont kno how to say this but i get really emotional sometimes and that i just wanna cry. i dont kno why tho because it's just wierd that i do it and things. do you think u can tell me wuts wrong with me? i need help fast cuz i feel like i'm scaring myself too.!!!

hey! i dont think u have a problem to tell u the turth i do the same thing so dont worry. it's just that you have too much stress and that you need a break. is everything you do or something stressing you out? parents? anything? just cry it out and you should feel better. u just need some time thats all...you will get all better. let me kno how it does alrighty? lol TAKE CARE! Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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i wanna try out for cheerleading in the fall for basketball season. any tips or ideas that can help me make the squad? and things i can do to help me with the moves before the season officially starts? thank you

heY! wow u wanna try out? thats awesome! anyways... well let see...i kno basketball season isnt until about nov. so from now until then youc an practice ur motions and jumps. if you can do roundoffs and back hand spring then you can practice to sharpen all those...learn a cheer from the football cheerleaders and practice that and do some toe touches and herkeys...i love herkeys! lol so practice to jump up highter and sharpen ur motions. also can forget the voice! learn to yell from ur stomach and not ur throat. anything else let me kno! Hope I helpe! Take Care! x3 SweetStar.

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Hi. i need some help on what kind of make up would be best to use in your opinion. like what kind of brand and things like that. please help. thanks!

hEY! hmm well i personally use different brans at once cuz it's nice for me but hmm...let see. eyes you should definitly try maybelline's creame shadow [$5 at walmart] they come in 4 color in different shades. hmm or the power kind but i dont use it so i can tell you if they are good are not [$4 at walmart]. lips i would say clinque's lip glossy in i believe it's called plum kiss [$12.50 at macy's] thats about it cuz i dont use much make up. take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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wat kind of nail polish would make my nails not chip? it's been chipping and it's really making me mad. thanks for ur help!

hEY! hmm a nail polish that make your nails not chip...hmm try the sall hansen products that state that they wont chip or some nail hardener can make it stronger. you can even go to a nail salon and have them take a look and get a manicure with it...lol but yeah definitly try the sally hansen products about $4-$10 at walmart. take Care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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hey! i'm 16/f and my sis turns 18 on oct. 2nd... ne present ideas for her? or creative ideas eX: MaKinG her breakfast... ThANkS In AdVaNcE!
(shes a normal teenage girl by the way...not a goth or ne thing! LoL!)

hEY! nothing is better then going to a salon and get ur nails done together or pedicure...massage or tanning place...treat her to dinner...take her out to a movie...anything else u want let me kno. Take Care. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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im 13/f and my sister whose 19 moved out about 1 1/2 yrs ago nd recently moved back in. She had a really controlling boyfriend and they were hooked on heroine. My mom had agreed to let her move back in if she stopped doin in. She moved back in about 2mnths ago and got rid of the old boyfriend. She got a new boyfriend but she's still using drugs. it's not just a once in a while thing either, its everyday, and as i said, my mom doesnt know and shes always saying how proud she is that my sister stopped doing drugs. I don't want to wreck me nd my sistersn relationship, but i think my mom needs to know because im afraid my sister will hurt herself.

-confused

hEY! i understand how u dont want mom to kno and then want ur to kno for the best cuz of lossing trust and everything but before u go tell ur mom try talkin with ur sister first and tell her how prond mom thinks she is that she stopped doing drugs...let her kno that she's lucky to be able to move back in the house and have a new bf to be with and everything. does her bf do drugs? and is he doesnt then let her kno how would he feel if he found out and just have that talk with ur sister. and let her kno how YOU FEEL. if u look up to her tell her that you dont like her doing drugs and that u are kinda of mad that she did cuz of how smart and pretty and nice she is that she doesnt need drugs. see wut she saids...let me kno if u need help. Take Care! Hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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