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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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alrite..i`m gonna be gettin my braces off soon, and i really don't want yellowish teeth with white spots, so im gonna use whitening stuff. But i dont kno what works the best, does anybody use some that works really good?

aw you lucky dawg!! i want my braces off.. well i heard crest whitestrips works pretty good! i really wouldnt kno since ive never used any of that kinda stuff! good luck getting those suckers off!

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ok i just dyed my hair dark brown and it looks almost black and i was wondering of some cute wys to do my makeup so it doesnt look bad it is a rly big change and i dont kno what to do!!

go for the natural look and use natural colors. im sure your hair color will fade within a week or so. i remember dying my hair dark brown and it turned out looking black! blahh but uh it started to fade into the color i wanted.. so its all good! just keep waiting and use colors that helps your color.. dont use pantene tho! even tho it helps your color, it dries out your hair! and they test it on animals!! :(

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About two months ago, my boyfriend of 8 months bought me a beautiful diamond promise ring and about a week ago, I lost it... I just woke up one morning and found it missing from my finger. I searched my entire house, top to bottom. I even rented a metal detector to try and find it. I feel terrible about losing it. I know it must have cost him a fortune. I haven't told him that I've lost it yet. He just noticed I wasn't wearing it yesterday and asked me where it was. I didn't know how to tell him so I said I was cleaning it. My question for you guys is: how should I go about telling him that I lost it? I know he'll be upset with me no matter how I word it but any advice/suggestions would be helpful.

just tell him the truth. people lose things, and they cant help it. im sure you feel horrible, but its worse to lie about it. im sure you'll end up finding it somewhere! good luck!!!

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iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do?

you are absolutely right, you dont wanna rush things. if he's really worth it, then he's worth the wait! call him and ask him if he wants to do something this week! its no big deal! :D

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I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast!

ahh doesnt that suck?? tell her that thats really bothering you!! but even telling her isnt going to help much. people are dogs.. just learn to get over it. if her stealing your things really bothers you, then dont put it in your profile.

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im 13 girl and i wanna get my cartilage pierced but im woried it wil hurt l.ike shit!!dus it! i also dont handle pain well! shots 2 me is as painful as hell!! help

aw! i remember the first time i got my cartilage periced.. i was freaking out! dont worry about it babe just go for it! it only hurts for a day and it isnt all that bad right when you get it peirced. i got my cartilage peirced the same day i got my lobe peirced, and peircing my lobe hurt alot worse than getten my cartilage peirced. ive peirced my cartilages plenty of times cause they always close up cause i never keep the earings in! lol.. to me, peircing my cartilage with a needle/earing hurt less than peircing with a peircing gun. so i suggest you try getting it peirced with needle/earing, because right when you peirce it, the hole in your cartilage is able to get sum air!

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Is it completely insane to still have sooo much feelings for ur 1st love who dumped you after 2 years...and then became a complete @$$??? He hurt me sooo much but I still wanna be with him!

no way! i mean he was ur first love and ya did go out with him for 2 years! im so sorry ya havta go through that.. some guys are just creeps! i kno you have probably been told this before.. but just try to move on. there really is nothing else you can do! or try to get him back, which i think is not a good idea! some people never forget these things.. just try to make the best out of it! im sure you've learned alot from going out with him.. use it for future relationships!

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ok well i have a question i have these to friends who are girls they pretty much hate each other with a passion 2. i am really good friends with both of them and i would do anythin for them. one of them really likes me alot and wants me to go out with her. i would want nothing more than to go out with her i like her so much. but then again that puts my friendship with the other girl in jeopardy b/c she hates her and would not want me to get with her. what should i do?

you arent living to please other peeps. I think you should do whatever you want.. its your life and your choice. talk to the other girl about how you feel about this girl. if she doesnt like it, then shes gonna have to get over it. if she's a true friend, she wont break your friendship just cause she doesnt like the person you're going out with. your life shouldnt be determined by what someone else likes or dislikes. i can understand you're being considerate of other peoples feelings and trying to be fair.. but sometimes you cant avoid these sort of problems. Follow your heart buddy!

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My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I don't want to have sex with him.... I'm scared he might break up with me if I don't have sex with him!

aww!! dude, dont have sex with him if thats not wat u really want!! if hes a true boyfriend and truly cares about you, he wont care about it!! he'll understand you!! now, if he breaks up with you cause of it, he aint bein a good boyfriend! ya deserve better than that!

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shud i play fball or bball?

both! :)

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i got my belly button percied & im not aloud to have it percied. im afraid my parents might see it! what do i do? i really dont want to take it out

why did ya peirce it! not a very smart idea! i say you take it out if you really dont want ur parents seeing it.. but if you really want to keep your peircing, then be riskay! it'll be hard hiding it from your parents! oh and be sure to CLEAN IT EVERYDAY WITH SALT WATER!

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If someone said something really mean to you in here, would you post it?

well obviously, i already have.. why? are you goin to say sumten mean to me? lol

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hi im 14 m cali and im a freshman at seaside high school and i wanted too ask how u kno if it is rite too have sex?how will it feel?and is there qonsequences thanks alot

different people think differently about sex. some think its right, while others think its wrong to have sex before marraige. i dont know how it will feel! lol im a virgin so yeah.. but i heard it hurts the girl if shes having it for the first time! ee umm yeah there are definenlty some consequences. consequences vary from different parents if they dont want you having sex and find out. you can get the girl your having sex with pregnant. you can get any kind of std.. which can sometimes lead to aids. sex is a big decision so think really hard about it! if you think you wont regret it.. go for it! just use protection!

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i like this girl right? she go's to my church,she's the best,she's nice,she's hott! shes really smart.and she's my best friend, and i want to ask her out but im scared if something bad happens, like we breakup,and get into a big fight...that we won't be friends anymore! what do i do?

and, if it helps.....im a male,and i'm 14

if you really care about yals friendship then dont go out with her. but if you think yals friendship is really strong and can handle anything bad like a break up.. then go out with her! life is about taking chances!!

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ok well the thing is i like my best guy friend and he likes me.. but i dont kno if goin out w/ him would ruin our friendship or not :/ and .. i have a boyfriend on top of that.. what should i do?

i say you just dont go out with him. you already have a boyfriend.. and you going out with ur best friend could possibly ruin yals friendship. im not sayen it would for sure.. maybe it wouldnt! its all about taken chances so do wat your heart tells ya to!

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HOW DO I KNOW WHEN A GIRL LIKES U?



A GIRL ASKS ME OUT AND I SAID YES
WE HAVENT HOLD HANDS OR KISS
WAT SHOULD I DO?


WE TALK
SHE TOUCHES ME

she ask me wat will i do if i kiss her and i said i will do same thing but we havent kiss or hold hands or anythin


im kind of shy and so is she

well i say u just go for it! give her a kiss!! shes probably waiting for you to make the first move!

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HOW DO I KNOW WHEN A GIRL LIKES U?



A GIRL ASKS ME OUT AND I SAID YES
WE HAVENT HOLD HANDS OR KISS
WAT SHOULD I DO


Um.. well look at what i told the one person who asked how you can tell if a girl likes you. but honestly all girls are different so there probably is no certain way you can tell! um are yal both shy? probably! :) have yal even talked? if yal havent.. i dont see how thats gonna work out!

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my best friend has been ignoring me when she is around our friends but when we are alone she acts like my best friend again,what should i do

have you thought about why she is doing that? do you think she is using you? that could be why she does that.. and you should really talk to her about it. after that talk see if she keeps doing it. if she does i say you find a better friend!

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how is the best way to know if a girl likes u

she looks at you alot, touches you, and asks questions about you

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Hey i really need your help.. okay i like my ex again and weve gone out like 20 times and i think i broke up with him last and that was like 2 weeks ago and he told his friend that he didnt wantn to go out becuase ive broken up with him like 20 times... what do i do ?

dont go back out with him! yal will probably just end up breaking up again! and he already said he doesnt want to go out with you again, so why try?

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