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Do you have to use lubricant or lotion while giving a handjob?

you can if you feels better for him & you. the warmthening kind i hear guys like a lot.

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my ipod is a silver mini and my friend gave it to me last year because she had a new one. she had it since the summer of 2005 (so about 2 years old) and it worked fine it just would sometimes go slow and skip songs, nothing that was a trouble. then it lost battery and has a really short lasting time, maybe 40 minutes or less. but ive got around 800 or so songs (i dont even listen to them all) and now ive been on itunes trying to erase them. my ipod doesnt change. ive tried deleting everything but when i up-plug it, it stays the same. what can i try to fix it?

To delete all the songs on your iPod you have to uncheck the check mark on your iTunes and then hook up your ipod. If that still doesn't work, ii think with the old ipods you can go into your My Computer part and click the ipod option. Then go under music and delete everything, but i'm not quite sure. Otherwise, it's just because it's so old. The Apple store has an ipod recycling program. Just go into the store and ask about it, they give you some money back and then they take your ipod, because yours is old they might give you 50 bucks top depending on how the condition is. However, ebay will give you more cash.

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how do you get pretty hands like the girl in this pic? there's no lines on her hands. And how do you get good skin like her?

http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h207/lamj001/exonerated-2-112-bakajen.jpg

First off, the picture is COMPLETLEY photoshopped and air brished to make everything look prettier and softer. However, here is what you can do....

Wash you hands regulary and afterwards use a good and rich hand moisturizers.

If you have hair on your fingers get it waxed (i wouldn't but only if you REALLY want to).

Then get a good manicure, a clean one with a nice colour. No fake nails.

Then wair night time moisturzing gloves. They make your hands so much more soft.

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hiii [: i just signed up for
a gym and im just wondering what
equipment i could use to get rid
of my gut. ive been using the treadmill
and eliptical the past two times ive
been there. any suggestions would
be greatly apprecaited =]

Congrats. that is the first step!

Well, treadmill and elliptical are great machines but that's all cardio you also need some muscular so depending on machines you have there (which i wouldn't know because I'm not at your gym) i would ask one of the trainers who are there if they have any machines for that. There is also stuff which don't need machines for (IE: different styles of crunches). Besides working out, loosing weight whatever it may be is 70% diet. So make sure you are backing up your hard work with a good diet. Lean proteins like lean grilled chickens, tunas and salmons (out of the can or not), eggs, and tofu. Try not too eat many carbs and if you have to just try whole wheats. Fruits and veggies.

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that if you sleep with a bra on , it slows down how fast your boobs grow ?
I didnt really believe that, but my friend told me that and I dont know if its true or not.
Thanks !

This is false, believe me. I have a friend who is larger than a DD and she slept in one her entire life. My mother use to sleep in a bra when she was younger and she is a D- stopped growing at 17! However, what it does do is help to shape your breasts, especially if you're still growing. It won't litterally shape them but it will prevent them from looking a little saggy in the mornings.

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this is a very embaressing question for me to ask anyone i know. so i'm going to ask it here cuz i'm anonymous. a few days ago i waxed my pubic hair, and pimples have been growing in that area. they're bigger than usual its really weird. whats wrong with me?

It's not pimples, they are red with tiny white dots possibly, or just red? Well, this is just irritation. It will go away. It just depends on how use to it your skin is. The more you do it the less you'll get it. Waxing it is always better than shaving though.

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hi

i got these two spider bites on my legs and they're really red and bumpy and well i'm going to the doctor tomorrow and everything but how do i cover them up?? i've tried concealer (yeah i was desperate...) and it just kinda rubbed off on my pants!

i'm putting this cream "afterbite extra" and it's cutting down on the itch but gahhh it's still sooo red!

any help?

thanks!

You can always wear long pants, that way they are totally invisible. If you're wearing shorts/skirts/carpi's then if it's not too big you can use a Band Aid. Concealer is not a good thing to use because it has lotion and oils in it and that can just irritate it.

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are they really worth it. i've heard its alot of money for the same amt of edu. How does the smaller ivys compare to the big hitters. i've been gettin alot of mail from columbia, cornell and brown and dartmouth. i dont know if those smaller ivys are worth the price. any body know?


if anyone has any personal experience about those schools i'd love to hear it. thanks!

Well, obviously Ivy's are ranging to about 50grand total. Of course it depends on your major but they have a MUCH heavier tution than a State University or a UC school. There is no such thing as a 'smaller' ivy league because there is only 8 (which are worth it). Tehre is Columbia, Cornell, Brown, Dartmouth, Harvard, Princeton, Yale, and UC Pennsylvania. They are all private so like I said earlier they require a higher tuition, better test scores, grades and extra curriculars. They are harder to get into. If you go to a good University (one which isn't Ivy League) or a UC school the education is not all the same however, it depends on how hard YOU study. UC school have great education systems though.

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Ok I want to prevent myself from getting a tan..so would I have to go for higher numbers like spf 45? Wouldn't my skin be really oily then? would it be more expensive than other ones? What about ones for my face?

After studies, it is said that everything aboce SPF 30 works the same so whether you buy 30, 45, or even 60 they should all work the same (however if you have lighter skin which is more prone to burn then all may work differently). Your skin may be a little more oily when you put it on because it's a lotion bases however, you can always buy an oil free. For you face try a facial sunblock like the kind in the popup stick. They do get your face a little oily but once it's washed off it's not oily anymore.

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You said something about a Redken product that protects your hair...

Like from blow drying, straightening, and curling?

Do you have a link???

Or just a link to another kind of protectant...

There is Redken, which you can buy at any RiteAid/Wallgreens/Safeway and there is also Biosilk's Silk Therapy Treatment which is sold at hair salons or sometimes a RiteAid/Wallgreens/Safeway. There is also Chi: iron gaurd Nexxus: heat protex.

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I bought a backless dress for my banquet and I was wondering if anybody has ever tried one of those backless bras that just stick onto the front? They're kind of expensive and I would only wear it a few times so I wanted to see if they work before I bought one. Any good brands? Thanks!

They don't work too well, they are always moving and your dress, ESPECIALLY if it's backless should have padding. If you need an actra lift with it then use some shapers like this:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZK-201659&page=1&cgname=OSBRPSHAZZZ&rfnbr=3353

Just stick them where they fit convertably around your chest where the padding of the dress should be. (if there is some)

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Hi, I'm 22 and new and am very curious as to what normal penis size is for men. I measured mine hard and found that I was 3.7 inches long, 0.8 inches wide and 0.4 inches thick with a measured circumference of 2.7 inches. Is that normal big or small? I also have a right curve in my penis the shape of a u-turn that maked it look smaller and weird. Is that normal and does jerking off cause that? My last 3 girlfriends said my penis was pathetic and they would get more pleasure from a toothpick. Please write back as this issue is really bothering me. Thank you.

I don't want to be rude but I don't want to sugar coat anything..

Usually, at least with guys I've been with, their penis is about 4 inches not hard. So with yours being 3.7 ard it is smaller than other men. I don't think it could curve because you jack off a certain way, it's just the way you were born with it. (and when you measure your penis hard it's when you get a boner so maybe you didn't measure it when it was completley hard. I know it sounds grows but make sure you have jacked completley and do it kind of during it, you may not have been completley hard.)

Girls shouldn't dump you 'cause your dick is small and most won't unless they're just with you for sex and even with a small package you can still have good sex there are just different ways and techniques. My advice is to not worry much about it because you will be able to find someone good for you without them caring about your penis size.

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i really want these steve madden shoes but i cant find them online. any help? thier suede and come in black purple and grey. they are kind of like ankle boots, they have a slit down the front and a fold over heel. they look just like the link but are made by steve madden.


http://www.barefoottess.com/OnlineStore/Designer/DolceVita/DV-Foldovr-Bk/

that was a very popular design in the fall season however, not that it's spring they don't sell it much in stores like nordstrums. try going to a steve madden store they have a lot in major cities.


also... urban outfitters sells shoes like that which look like the steve ones:

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=24641&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=121&iSubCat=123&iProductID=24641


like i said, it was last season so it'll be hard finding it.

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Hi.

I'm getting married in September, and need some cake ideas. The person who is making it, said all I had to do was bring a picture and she would do it.

I've looked at a lot of bridal websites and really havn't found anything I like. I want something that jumps out but is still traditional.

Do you know any websites devoted to just cakes?

Thanks.

It's hard finding a cake, because it has to be just the right size, look, and taste.

You want something traditional so here is what I think is traditional and jumps out.

this website has great styles, many pages worth. and beautiful ones check it out.

http://weddings.theknot.com/gallery/gallery_results.aspx?gallery=18

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how old do you have to be to get a job in most places?

Depends, if it's a mall job most allow you at 17 and some other at 18.

Hollister allow you at 16.5 or 17. But abercrombie allows you at 17. Rarley any allow you at 16, probably like claires or like a fast food place at 16. Nothing really respectable.

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i had my ears peirced and they closed up and the holes are gone i might get them repeirced.
does it hurt more than the first time?
do they peirce it in the same place?
will it bleed?
would it be off centered?
it didnt hurt that much the first time for me.
and to who ever had to get theirs repierced in the same place on a rate from 1-10 how much does it hurt?

If you're talking about lobes, honestly I have a very good tollerance with pain so getting my lobes pierced felt like nothing.

It doesn't hurt more than the first time because you are already use to it, it won't bleed, if it's off centered it's just because you have a bad piercer, it'll probably only hurt about a 1.





Try getting your diath pierced. I have it, and it's like the most painfull ear piercing to get. haha. that was a joke.


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i was searching for clothes websites on google, and i came across this website mydrobe.com. i found a few links of people's wardrobes:

www.mydrobe.com/spottiedottie
www.mydrobe.com/hellodolly
www.mydrobe.com/omgitsmelissa


idk, they might be rich or something but do you think that these wardrobes are actually real? thank you.

I'm sure they are real clothings wordrobes because it looks like a sort of xanaga/myspace made specificly for girls/guys who just want to brag about what they own.

However, by searing the site i saw a lot of profiles with girls/guys who are 'fake' like they are using other peoples pictures. I know this because one guy had a photo of a model as his display and I recognized the model from an add in teen vouge.

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i dont eat any pork, eggs, ham, beef jerky, ribs, steak, hot dogs, or any of that. i do eat fish tho. and usually i have a burger maybe two times a year. i also eat sandwich turkey maybe once every couple months. does it sound like im a vegetarian?

You have vegiterian tendencies, yes. However, being a vegetarian for over 11 years now i haven't eaten a single bite of meat nor anything which contains meat products (eggs, fish, pork, cow, ect.)If you have eaten a single bite of any of these, not to sound harsh, than you aren't a vegeterian.


* also...don't eat ceasar salad because they are made with anchovies, don't eat jello because it's made with cow bones/marrow.*

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how much money is it to go to disneyland? thanks and whats the difference between disneyland/world and epcot??

disneyland and disneyworld is almost the same thing. disneyworld i think has more 'rollercoaster' like rides, however disneyland is less of that, it's the original. epcot is in disneyworld and it has rides/shows.


if you plan on going to any of these places you need to bring at least 100 bucks plus the ticket fee. i mean, you go there and spend the whole day that means lunch, snack, dinner, snack. meals there average around 15-25 bucks a person and thats just at the average places not even the resturants. and as far as snacks go- well just to buy a water it cost $3. then there are suviniers and if you want to take a fairy.. thats extra and arcards,ect. it's not a cheap trip.

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ok so this is getting really crazy i'm a 13 year old girl and i'm in 8th grade and there is a guy i really like and that i see every single day and i'm always mad when he's not at school anywho theres this other guy i kinda like and he new he's really cool but some of my friends dont like him cause he's bi but whatever moving on and then theres this other guy i like but he's dating one of my friends and it's soooo frustrating likeing all these guys is it wrong for me to be likeing alll of them i mean teh first on i mentioned i really like and his friends have asked me out for him twice now but i said no the first time and nothing the secind the second time cause i thought they were joking cause i dont think he would ever like me but then all my friends think ehe likes me and i told myself i would forget all about this cause i cant talk to him cause i feel so incredibly stupid and well yeha i need help my friends think he like me for alot of reasons but one is because the first tiem his friend asked me the guy i like was sitting right behind me and i said no and then the guy i liked seemed kind of upset and his friends were like oh i know whats wrong errrr some help i'm so confused

I'm sort of confused... but I'll give this a shot.

First, I use to like 5 guys at a time at that age. You will grow out of it! It's really just because you're 13 and I want a boy friend but don't have one and think guys are just soo hot and want them. It's a crush, most of the time it's nothing serious.

For the thing about the guy you liked but said no to his friend when they asked you out for him this is what I have to say: asking a girl out is hard but having your friends do it for you is a pretty lame shot. If he was for real about it and does like you and you like him, and the other guys you like are taken or don't like you than go for it! Go up to him in the hall or before/after school/lunch and talk to him! There should be no shame in it, at all. Just be like, "Remember when you had (insert his friends names) ask me something? Well, I think I would like to take you up on that offer.. you know going out." something like that. To show you are not scared or embarresed.



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