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hey ok well people say i give good advice i am 13 years old so thnx for rating me

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ok so i have friends lol and well we have plans and they sometimes leave me out and they dont care so much and they dont try to find a way so i can come over. but whenever i have plans with them and one of them is left out the same girl that didnt care for me tries so hard for her to come and tries to find a way and sometimes lies to me and ditches me and has plans with her. what do i do?

ok she just wants to be in all the plans but doesnt care if your in the plans or not try not to be so mean like if she wants to come tell her she can come if she wants and when she has stuff going on with her she might invite you also maybe.
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i'm 13.so me and my friends are friends with this boy. hes really cool we hang out alot and you know all that stuff. in 5th grade he used to like me but that passed and we just friends now. but the thing is whenever my friend make plans with him and like im not there and they have a picture trail of them all with him and yea.. i get like soo jealous and i like him all of a sudden. but i knoe i dont know like .. but im not sure. please help

oh yea hes moving in the summer and i may not be with him alot anymore.

you could be like planing on liking him but for now you dont like him right now tell him that you like him if he liked you a lot in 5th grade he might still have feelings for you so tell him.
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so this girl was really pissing me off one night and i could not take it any more.. she was being soo rude and abnoxious. (we were at a party)and so i saw her digital camera and hid it in the house. and now i feel more guilty than ever!!! hands down i will not tell her it was me..

ok well you can take it out of that place and put it in her desk in school locker or backpack anywhere where she cant find you and somewhere where she can only find it cause if you put it like where everyone can see it someone might steal it.
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okay so me and my boyfriend have been together FOREVER! i really wanna go all the way with him. like pregnant and all. im 26 btw. and i mean we've like had sex but not the whole penis up vagina thing. lol. and umm like ive given him a blow job..lap dances.. we play strippties.. he ties me down and like touches me.. vice versa. and idk if i should get pregnant with him. we are planning to get married so it shouldnt be a big deal right? oh and is it weird that i think cum tastes AMAZING? please help me!

xoxo,
needs help

ok well if you want to go ahead it is hard and all so i hope you two got a good job and have your life planned out but if your going to have his kid than you should get married.
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ok well i have this boyfriend that skate boards all the tyme and never hangs out with me anyne more and i only get to see him at school at first it was all lovie dovie and he was chillien with me every day and now he just skates all the time but i love him alot i dont know what to do and some times hes a real big dick to me should i break up with him or not..? xo.Lacyy

ask him why he acts thats way when you dont like the way he acts and maybe you can go to the skate park or what ever with him with some friends so its not thats boreding or maybe you can even try skating ask him to help you that should get you two closer.
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ok well yeah see ive been having trouble with my boyfriend and lately hes been a jerk. now his friends are being the same way and i just want to like punch them all. hes on my last nerve and even though id do anything for him and i love him dearly i think we should break up. what do you think?? well please responde quickly. thank you =] oh and i am 13 and well yeah a female

i would break up with him and tell him why your breaking up with him but dont just say your a jerk bye tell him why he is a jerk and since you love him he might be able to get over that jerk thing and find someone and about his friends being jerks try to just get over them.
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there is this really jappy girl in my grade, and i really dont like her.. i was never her friend i never talked to her. so she invited me to her bat mitzvah.. and you know the unwritten rule where you basically have to invite the people who invited you to your bat mitzvah.. but i really dont want to invite her sooo what do i do ??

dont go to hers and if you invite her she might not go to your but i am not for sure so just dont invite her to your theres nothing much you can do.
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i have limewire and is it really bad like.. causes spyware and slows down your computer? is bearshare any better? does it slow down the computer alsooo?

i have had bearshare before and it screwed up my whole computer so i fixed that and try limewire it slowed down my computer a little but it didnt mess it up as much as bearshare did but my friend finds it different so it depends on the kind of computer i guess.
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my friend told me she was moving but she wont tell any of her other friends and i am afraid to ask why.. i think i'd be too nosy

-- puuhlease help

ask her why maybe she just wants you to know but i would ask her why she didnt tell anyone else.
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ok therez this kid that i went out wit fo 2 weeks and then i dumped becuz i thought he relly wasnt as cute as he used 2 be but then he started going out with this gerl taylor and now evrytime he goez out wit some one i like him more n more n i wana go bac out wit him wut shud i do?


tEw cOnFeSsEd

ok well i think that you dumping him cause him not beening as cute as before i think that was just messed up. ok well if he is going out with a lot of other people he probaly got over you. tell him how you feel but he might not go back out with you so find someone else.
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can u get pregant the first time you have sex. even if its only a little.because me and my boyfriend tried doing it to see what it was like and im not sure if you can get pregnant from that oh and we didnt use a condom.. a few days after i got my period so if i were pregnant would it happen right away ? help please !

ok well if you had your period a few days after than no you cant but i would check for std if he has had std or anything like that.
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hey! i really need help. im sooo sorry if this is totally stupid. okay so theres this guy i like and i JUST started liking him. we used to joke around and pretend to ask eachother out and try to convince eachother we liked eachother. sorry if thats confusing. but now i really like him so theres no way i can hint that i like him becasue hes gunna think im just kidding! and i totally have nooo idea what to do! please help me!! xoxo

heart always,
the girl who cried wolf =[ lol

ok well tell him that you really like him and if he still doesnt believe you well than get all mad at him and let him ask you whats wrong than you tell him "i really do like you but you think this whole thing is just a joke" hopefully he will no that your tru about it and if that doesnt work send me another one and i will come up with something else.
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Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox

ok i think waxing is easier cause it goes fast and looks good plucking hurts more for me but if you dont want to spend the money on getting it waxed than you can pluck it.
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my friend and i are really close. but then my other friend said she talks behind my back and talks shit about me. im not supposed to know but i think its a big deal. i wanna talk to her about it but idk what she'll do if she finds out my friend told me.

have the friend who told you about her like talk more about you can you can just be there but not let the other girl see you like in a bathroom like you go in a stall and have them talk about you in the bathroom and once she says something bad about you come out and tell her why she talks all that shit dont wait like a week cause than she might forget and blame it on your friend.
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Hi.. i went out with this kid. n i really liked him..we broke up 3 times..then got back togather.i broke up with him during the summer cause i did see him. n i really like him. but now hes goin out with my best friend. They dont even taalk.its soo stupid!// what shud i doo?
please help!!

well you can tell your best friend why they dont talk so much and tell her that you really like him now and he was your boy friend first so you should be able to get him back with out her caring so much.
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mk so their is this kid and we went to school together like our whole life and i liked him for a long time and then he liked me so we went out but we went on and off for about 6 months and then we got into a huge fight and broke up and then he went out with my fiend and now my friend switched schools and were close friends now but i dont want to like him anymore but i kind of do.. what should i do?

get over him try not to find someone else if you still arent over him some times going out with some one else makes you think more about him and less about your ex but than again its not fair to the other person.
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i have these three friends and they always make plans without me. today in the morning i asked one of them to have plans and then later when i went online again i asked her so what are you doing and she says oh im going to the mall with chloe and danielle (other frineds) and she says what are u doing and i said nothing and she wouldnt even invite me and that not the first time this happened. im wondering if she or chloe and danielle actaully like to be around me. please help

ask one of them like a day before if they want to do something with you and if she says shes busy with other stuff ask another one if she busy also tell them how you feel about never hangin out with them and they try and find new friends.
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me and my friend got into a fight and then the next day her grandma died and then she didnt go to school the next day(funeral) i feel really bad but the fight is also over something important and i dont want to let her get away with what she did. but when i see her again in school idk what to say to her.

PS - i love your advice

thanks ok well ask her if she is sorry about what she did in the fight and say you sorry what you did in the fight and also sorry about your grandma thats about alll.
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Hey i like this boy but he like doesnt go out with anyone...,,... [what] should i DO i really LIKE himm
-jessie if it helps im 14

tell him that you like him before he finds someone else sorry its not to long thats about all you can do.
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my closest friend since 1st grade is a great friend and she is like the best. she is always nice and not a big trouble maker. but when she is with my other friends she is like the total opposite and on the edge and doing things she doesnt normally do. is she being fake to me????

she could be acting fake to you or acting fake to your other friends when you and her are hangin out go to your other friends and see if she changes and if she does say your the opposite to her.
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