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iighty, my names diana. if we`re friends than you can call me dee. i was born in miami, FLORIDA but this dominican mami was raised in providence , RHODE iSLAND, SOUTHSiDE, all day everyday. i was brought into this world on 1.13.91. Poinciana High School is where im getting my education as a sophmore. I play softball for their varsity team [ #5 ]. i`m a down ass chick so if your a drama setta than fall back now. i hate twofaced ppl, back - stabbers, MY EX and liars so if you fit the categories than just leave now ! another thing that i hate is fighting w. my best friends so i try to avoid it as often as possible, that's why some ppl like to call me the " peacemaker ". i`m in high school so im d.o.n.e w. that middle school drama shit. i`m obv. 100% dominican so dont hate & fall back. i have the coolest & bestest friend here in florida & she goes by the name dawnrae cowdery. i also have another best friend back in RI who has always been there for me nmw & she goes by the name nicole sexton. i am currently a proud member of H.B.M which consists of me, gianna & kaytee .. what does H.B.M stand for ?! .. you wish you knew =P !! i`m getting tired of dealing w. ppl`s shit so i`m D.O.N.E .. talk all the shit you want cuz it doesnt phase me .. karma`s a bitch & i wont be around to see it bite you in the ass .. sorry ! i dont have anything else to say so if you have any questions message me or if you know the s/n IM me. kthanxbye `1 ♥
Gender: Female
Location: providence but living in kissimmee =/
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: este xx corazon
Member Since: November 5, 2005
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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.

is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?

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i would love to help you on w.e you need help on so if you still need it just message me or IM me on AIM @ .. iCRYforY0Ux3 or look for my myspace w. my e-mail dominicanprinss03@yahoo.com .. i`ll be online all night


Yo diana i need advise, every girls i go out with complains about our love life. She sais that my shit is too small. Now, my thing might be small but why are they always hating. And it doesnt matter how big it is as long as i could work it, so i was wondering if you could teach me how to work it ;). Please write back! (link)
aww that sucksz for you now doesnt it .. yu gottah liddol shit .. get over it .. kthanxbye :)


mmk see i have this friend. ok well i had this friend and we became bffs over like 4 months-ish and then she met some girl and poof they are best friends ( supposivly ) and then me and her initiated her into our little frienship circle. the new girl was the third wheel i can tell you that for a fact. she was just different than us. and she did stupid stuff over stupid reasons.. etc etc. well we got into a fight and now we aint friends. shes like mad at me or something.. what should i do? (link)
well i can tell you from experience that she prolly feels like a " replacement " talk to the girl and ask her how she feels, and let her know how things are going down & how you feel. talking is the solution to MOST problems so just try it, if you need help on what to say then come back here & i`ll help ya out or IM me at este xx corazon .. sry if i didnt help & good luck :)


DIANAAAAAAAAAAAAAA !!!!!!!!! its little alissa yup uh huhhh so um yeahhhh thanks for your help ! just kidding. wouldn`t wanna make you look bad on your advice site. =) hahahaahh yeah ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i need help with math you can be my new tutor I LOVE YOU LITTLE DIANAAAAAAAAAAAAA BFFE BYE =)

i can`t wait to see your response to this hah (link)
ALiSSAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA !!!!!!!! haha yepp itsz my liddol alissa & im yr liddol diana :) yr soo welcomed for my help .. yu kno .. ne time .. & yu bess not make me look badd :) haha well when yu need help with math yu kno who to IM :) the math wiz diana !! hahaha i L0VE Y0U T00 LiTTLE ALiSSA !! BFFE NMW .. BYE :)


diana, ok i really like this kid and i have liked him for like a long time ; a really long time [aprox. 2 1/2 years] i want to tell him ; how !? (link)
umm well the best way to tell someone you like them is to be alone or make sureh they paying attention & then tell them straight up .. dont be shy or afraid .. tell me how it turns out if yu need me to figure out wuht to sayy the IM me at este xx corazon .. good luck hope to hear from you soon


DEEEE iTS KAY. i have serious problems. my best friend is going to new jersey & florida til NEXT FRiDAY. and like whenever i am sad i always walk to her house or we always talk and met up some one to just calm me down whenever im aggravated or angry or sad or something so idn what im gunna do when shes gone. like where do i go. maybe i`ll just not stay home but i think thats a little to obvious when im away all the time so my parents will problly think somethin is up PLEASE HELP DEEEE (link)
well i dont know what to say. i mean itsz gon` be ok, it's not like she`sz gone for good. just try to stay outtah depression & avoid anything that'll get you mad or upset but if pushing comes to shove you can always talk to me & IM or w.e at este xx corazon but yeah you can alwaysz talk to me if anything sry if i didnt help much but yeah if yu needa talk about w.e is on yr mind then IM me .. im online now


diana, i ned your advice im in love with this kid [ no names ] literally i love him and i saw him tonight [ no name where ] & he was kind of avoiding me but hes shy as well am i, should i ask him to meet up with me over vacation just me and him or should i just wait? i need to know because i am really sad... (link)
well if you love this kidd then i`d talk to him, tell him how yu feel & ask if you`s can like meet up somewhea alone & talk one on one he was prolly shy because of the ppl yu`sz hadd around each other but yeahh talk t him, tell him how you feel & meet up one on one & if there is something thatsz supposed to happen & meant to be then that`s how it`ll go .. lemme know how it turns out .. sry if i didnt help but if yu need me just IM me at este xx corazon .. good luck :)


well, i like this boy i've known for like ever a wicked lot, and he knows that i like him, i've told him, actually i told him last week again, but like he just doesn't care. i don't know whether i should hold on or just let him go. but if you say forget him, its hard because like i don't exactly know how. it's just hard when it comes to him. i just really like him, and i need your help! (link)
ok well im not saying to hold on but im not saying to let him go either. i think yu should just give it some time, talk to him one on one and tell him wuht yu feel & how yu feel about him just not caring. talking solves most problems just yu cant be shy to speak your mind. he`ll come around sooner or later ... just dont hold on to him & like all yu do is think of him .. give yrself a chance to meet other ppl, at the same time dont let him go. sry if i couldnt help you but that`sz all i got if yu need some more help IM me at este xx corazon


diana ur the best and i love you so much what would i be without you, you were there when them bitches were being bitches & shit and iknow you hate them and tell me not to goo but i got like 33 days left so im over it, and moving on when i get to highschool (: anyways just wanted to tell u that i loved you.. im sure you know who this is but for alla them otha peoples out there guess what ?! i`m anonymous ! woop yay life ! (link)
haha yeahh yr the best too !! i love you oh soo mucho chicka !! i`d be no whea without you being there for me day in & day out ! i`ll ALWAYSZ be thea for yu nmwh & yr right i STiLL dont like those bitchesz soo grr !! lmfaoo well yeahh good thing yr going to highschool whea there is more MATURE ppl & shit. thanksz for the message & i love ya too mizs " anonymous " haha i kno who this is but everyone else doesnt soo sucksz for them !! haha .. woot woot .. yepp like yu sayy .. yay life ! hahaha pansy !! =P love ya chicka !! cant wait to see yu agen !!


yeah well i like this kid . i talk to him alot and sometimes online he asks me who i lyk nd i just say idk..but yeah i like him. but i know he likes another girl cause he told me but he always asks me who i like and im just like why do you care.. what do i doo! (link)
well i think you should tell this guy who yu feel instead of being shady. he might like another girl but if you tell him how you feel, you`s can start talking and accually get something kicking. what doesnt kill you makes you stronger so just talk to this guy and be straight up about things, you got nothing to lose. tell me how things go or IM me este xx corazon .. sryy if i wasnt any help


like i think im in love. with this girl DEE and she is SO my best friend forever but i am falling more & more in love with her every day of the week (: i can`t stop thinking and dreaming about her either. uh that diana. please let me know what to do with myself i`m going crazy over here lmao. i love you dee (link)
whoa sounds like you got the hots for this so called girl diana a.k.a dee =) well i bet diana loves you too lmao .. i say yu tell diana wut yu just told me so she has an idea who her secret admirer is =) lmfao !! well yeahh good luck with that =) haha ly2


ok, so theres this kid at my school, and i've known him for 2 years (since we both started at this school) and he's been in my majors both years, and like, i've liked him like since i met him, but like he doesn't like me, like one day he does, and one day he doesn't, its like on and off for him, and no matter what i do, i can't get over him. i mean maybe theres a reason i can't like i shouldn't, but i don't know and like really like him, but i feel like i've been wasting like soo much of the last two years trying to get him. i mean i've even had a boyfriend for like 4 months, and yeah i liked him, but i couldn't stop thinking about he other kid, and i just don't know what to do =/ (link)
well i dont know if your single or not so next time be more specific, but :

IF YOUR SINGLE : i think you should tell the boy you like how you feel, tell him wuht he is doing about the " on & off thing " & just be young adultsz and talk about the situation like ones. dont be afraid cuz once you do so you`ll feel a whole lot better even if things dont turn out the way you want them to.


IF YOUR GOING OUT WITH THAT KID: i think you should tell the kid yr going out with wuhtsz going on. dont lead that person on & in the meanwhile yr liking someone else. be straight up to both the ppl and just see whea that takes you.



sryy if i didnt help much but itsz my 1st advice since dec. so im kinda rusty if yu need further questions IM me at este xx corazon .. that way you can be more specific & i can help you more


I have a motorala phone I just recently got and whenever I cut it on it says SIM blocked...it is a Motorola V170...does anyone know how I can get it unblocked? If so please answer this question for me...I rate High!
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yeah accually ii had the same problem . . there is NO way in hell yu can unblock it yrself . . yu have to call the company to send yu a new SIM and if yr lucky yu dont have to pay $25 that it cost . . . ii qot a nice girl who understood so i got it free . . hope yu got the same luck . . if yu need ne more questions relatinq to this IM me at soy x3 rebeLde . . if not just feedback this answer . . qood luck nd bye muah ~1~


Well I have a best friend and we haven't spent time together totally for 3 to 4 weeks. She and I have been busy as heck. Twice she spent the night over this over girl's house. She calls her, her best friend too. But she's told me that I’m number one. Well now I’m starting to feel left out because I also know her other best friend and we get along well. I just can't stand them being together hanging out and I’m never invited like when the other girl invited my best friend, Kay, to sleep over. She doesn't even call me that much anymore. I remember like in the beginning of the year that the other girl, eliz, was not in the picture and now she's treating her as she's been there for her like I have and SHE HASN'T! She's now including her in everything of her thoughts. I feel like if she had to choose between me and eliz needed to be helped up off the edge of a cliff she would grab me, but after talk about eliz the whole time. We also go to different schools like I go to high school and they go to junior high. Kay even cried when eliz needed to talk to me and didn't want to talk to Kay secretly. I was pissed on how she cried over her and I thought would she do the same to me. When they recently had a sleepover last Friday and she was showing me pictures of the sleepover and she had a picture of them together with the word "best friends" at the top. I felt my heart break that moment. That sleepover was for a "project" which they just played around the whole time though. I barely see Kay anymore and we live so close like 5 seconds from each other's house that I can see in her windows. But she sees eliz 24/7 though. She's also about to go on a cruise for a week and I won't see her than. I wanted to spend this time with her. I'm wondering if she even cares about me anymore really. My friendship love for her is fading. She's even keeping secrets from me like letting that eliz girl know before me and she promised she wouldn't do that in the beginning. She's acting different too and I don't like it. She tells me I’m totally #1, but the way she's been equaling me to this eliz chick that thought sounds more and more false to me. I've known her for 3 years and she's known her for 1 and a half! She treats me like she would treat her. I'm not included on any that they do and I hate that. Also my other friends when we get together I try to get Kay to go quick. She didn’t even attempt to have me come along. I don’t know what to do about this. Am I being unreasonable or totally fair and have a right to be a little ticked? Please help!! (link)
oh emm gee that soundsz just like meh and mii " best friend " .. letsz call her 1 and the other girl 2 .. well meh and 1 were really close and everythinq then during x-mas time 1 and 2 started havinq partiesz and sleepovers .. im in high school and there only in 8th gr. what i did was give them there space let them have fun or w.e because at the end i was still number one .. it took time but all you have to do is qive it the time that it needs. if you want you can even tell her how you feel like i did .. she`ll listen .. friends are supposed to tell everything to each other even if its not what the other person wants to here .. if i didn't help you then IM me [ soy x3 rebeLde ] or w/b .. good luck !




My bestfriend and her boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now. Problem is: he says he likes me! And I'm kind of into him too! I don't know what to do, thats like my bestfriend. I sure don't want to ruin our friendship but oh my goodness I am really into this boy! (link)
as the sayinq qoes ..

BOYSZ WiLL COME N GO BUT BEST
FRiEND`SZ ARE HERE TO STAY !!

if yu stick to that quote then ii think yu
shouLd forqet about that kidd because itsz
not qunna last forever so once yu lose the
quy yu would no lonqer have yr best friend
cuz even tho she saysz its ok she`ll still
be madd on the inside take it from someone
who`sz been throuqh that once .. ii hope i
have answered all yr questions if not srry


ok long story...lately like for the last 3 months i've been really mad at my 2 best friends. but i dont have an exact reason why its more like 50 billion reasons that alone just sound trivial. anyway all together they pretty much sound like im jealous that they've been making new friends and hanging out wayyy more with other people(some of my other freinds) than with me. i told them and they dont understand what i mean, that i just want like some sort of effort out of them...something like an attempt to hang out or a movie invite but they're always talking about somethin they just did or are going to do with another person...or what their going to do with like their new boyfriend(who cheated although she accepted him back, and she said im too critical and that pple make mistakes) anyway what should i do like try to forgive and forget these just random things that drive me insane or what i dont want them to think im just a bitch...help
if you need more info. just write back and i'll explain more.
allllll 5s if you even try to answer!!!! (link)
i know exactly how you feel, if i were you i`d pay more attention to those who really care about you. dont forget about them just focus on the other friends who care about you more and believe me someone from experienced, you will not regret it. sry if i didnt answer your question or if it wasnt what you wanted to hear, if you have more questions IM me on my AIM s/n soy x3 rebeLde


this might be long but i realy have a problem

me and my friend had been best friends since 4th grade and have been there for each other through thick and thin. last year around febuary she moved to a different state.. but we still talked every day. everything was going good up until the middle of october... when i would call her but she wouldnt call back, and shed say she was watching a tv show or was too tired.. well that got old pretty fast, so i sent her something that was like you act like you dont care about me anymore and i get a 'you know i care' we got into a big discussion because whenever we'd talk for a little bit it would be about her... so for a couple weeks we hadnt talked, and then we finally did when i called her and it turned into a hour of crying and saying she still cared. we got off the phone and she said shed call me tomorrow, suprise suprise i didnt get a call. ive tried making casual conversation with her but she is always busy and has to go. then a week later i get a text asking why i havent called her and 'you say im not being a good friend' then it just got into a war and how im making a huge deal out of this... and she turned all of this around to be my fault when i dont think it is.. finally i just told her id have my cell whenever she wanted to talk.

i havent talked to her since and whenever i try to say something shes always like sorry im doing something brb its just stupid and im not sure what to do its like she doesnt want to even be friends with me anymore randomly. she doesnt even im me when were both on... i just dont know what i should do so if anyone has any suggestions let me know... thank you

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wow this is like the same thinq i went throuqh with my " best friend " when i moved away. lonq distance friendship is hard and takes a lot of time to qet used to. just because you moved doesnt mean she cant continue with her life. give her some time and qive her some space. she is prolly qot alot of thinqs in her hands tryinq to fit in, in school wait til she g



HEEY DiiANA .. ii G0T A PR0BLEM .. i G0T THiSZ FRiEND .. AND HER NAME iSZ DiANA .. AND SHE`SZ S00000 AN0YiiNG ! JESUS CHRiST .. SHE NEVER LEAVESZ ME AL0NE ... DAMN iT SHE AGGREVATESZ EVRY-NE THAT LiVESZ 0N THE PLANET EARTH ! G0D ... CAN Y0U PLLLLLEASE HELP ME GET RiD 0F HER DUMBASSS .. ? 0R GET HER AWAY FR0M ME ?

XO JACKiEE =] .. L0L .. [ D0N`T Y0U SEE THE L0VE? ] .... AHAHAH


J.P. i L0VE Y0U DiANA

XO
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to jackie:

haha yu see .. ii have the same probLem .. this qrl jackie mann she qetsz on mii last nerve .. wudda surprise she even has the same name as yuu .. hmm .. lol well yeahh she'sz so damn annoyinq mann .. itsz qettinq aqqrevatinq to the point that i just wanna uqhhhh lmao .. so i cant heLp you there ! =P



kirby i love you you are my lifesaver =) and you brinq me qood Luck .. ii just wish he wiLL caLL me back soon so we can taLk aLLLLL of this shit out and i wiLL be super happy Lmao Love yah (link)
kayy ly2 im qLadd ii can heLp =) hellsz yes im yr lucky charm .. he`ll call dont worry, just calm down, and be patient. you`s will work this out because i said so and because you's are jared and kayla and its a MOST lmao. ly2


i dun care no more im out of here (link)
nooo wait ! come back !

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