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Why do I get in trouble for the simpleist things, honestly I think my parents are out to get or keep in the house forever. I'm like grounded for like 2 months and all that's keeping me up is karate and ever second I'm being punished, all of the times I'm trying to be nice to them and seriously that's all I am doing. I'm 14 and I can't move out so I have no other choice. I'm seriously thinking of getting tape and taping my mouth shut. I get good grades and things but my parents just think sometimes that I'm like a bad daughter, that's the impression I get from them. Help me... =( (link)
Are you the only child or are you the oldest child? Because I am the oldest and I know what you mean. Parents tend to take out their anger or yell at their children for no reason like that. If you are the oldest child, then they expect you to do the right things and make the right choices and stuff like that. But you have to remind them that you are a teenager and that nobody in this universe is perfect. Or is their anything that you did to someone else or to your parents that made them to where they couldn't trust you anymore?? What I would do is with my mom or my dad is separtely go somewhere with them, like in the car going shopping, etc, and talk to them about your feelings. Trust me, it works everytime.

Happy to help, (sorry its so long)

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wat colors n cloths n makeup n stuff will look rlly good on a redhead? (link)
I think green looks really pretty on s. That or black.

Happy to help,
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this girl i used to be friends with, lets just call her bob, i dont like anymore. shes really annoying and really really nerdy and scary looking and has become really mean. i dont want to hang out with her anymore but she wont leave me alone! what should i do? (link)
What you should do is not exactly "ditch" her, but if she like comes up to you and starts just babbling then start saying rude comments to her, just enough for her to get the "hint".

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i just wanna say thanx to all the pplz tht helped me the otha day. but i didnt get to read the feedbac till like 2 mins ago.. so im gonna do wat u all told me... well today at skewl he flirted with me like... the whole time! in skewl, at lockers, in engilsh ( we r in every class together) it was weird.. it was like he was startin to like me all ova again. n i was on the fone with him yesterday (he calls not me i swear!) n i told him i mite of sprained my knee doin something n he said "yes i can carry ur books"........? im so confused help please!!!!! (link)
I think he likes you! Holding your books, calling you, those are HUGE signs of him liking you! You should talk to him about it, while it lasts!

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okay, i'm going to a big party tongiht and i don't know how to wear my hair and what to wear!? i have like medium length hair. (brown) please give me ideas! i wanna look really hott tonight! ahha i know that sounds ffunny but i want people to be like wow when i walk in the door. lol please give me ideas asap thanks!! (link)
What I would do is straighen my hair, and flip out the ends, and wear some clothing that fits you well, like not REALLY tight jeans but jeans that compliment you! Or maybe even a cute skirt! And with the top, (with the jeans) I would do a casuall but neat top with matching shoes!

Happy to Help

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okay..when im at skool and im talkin to friends..i feel like everyone just excludes me sometimes..i feel like i never fit in..i dunno what to do. it seems like things are gettin better but i still feel this way (link)
Ok, I go through/gone through the same thing. What you have to do is be funny and talk alot or you will feel left out. Or if your "Friends" are not talking to you at all, even though you are talking to them, there is something going on. But try to be funny, laugh alot, make funny comments, sorta be a i guess. Thats what I do, but I guess it has to do with the people that you hang out with.
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okay well my ex boyfriend danny and me went out for 2 months..well we were going out he started to hang out with his ex all the time and ye i did get jealous..n then one night he was telling me how he only told me he loved me becuase he was confused about her..so the next day which would be 2 months he dumped me for her..he asked her bak out and she said nobecuase she cant see them together..now danny is asking me back out..and i said yes i will give him another chance..he says he wants to be with me forever and he aid evryday he sees me he is falling in love with me even more and he said when i turn 18 he wants me to move with him..he says he will do anything for me and he is always here for me..i want to go back out with him because i do still love him but i dont want him to hurt me again..n i told him that n he promised me that he wont and he thinks we can last.
do you think i should giv him another chance???

i realli love him alot...he means evrything to me.... i mean wat if i dont n it would have worked out...n then later in lyfe i am wondering wat could have happened (link)
OK...
What I would personally do is give him another chance, maybe it took his old girlfriend to say no to him to make him realize that he loves you so much more than his ex. You know what I mean? So you should give him a second chance, just to see what happened. Glad I could help!

~Cesasadvice1409


ok im getting contacts and i was thinking about getting colored i have blonde hair that is about the color of paris hilton my eyes r like light green. wut color do u think i should get i was thinking maybe a lil greener or blue? (link)
Hey!
I would do the blue contacts, because when you think of a blonde person, you would thing that there eyes would be blue. And also Blue eyes are gorgeous!!
Happy to help! ~Cesasadvice1409



well .. i try to scrunch my hair but i cant for sum reason ! i want to scrunch it but i really dont kno what to do cuz my hair is kind of thick but not that thick .. does anybody kno a way that i can .. or any other cute hairstyles ? (link)
I know! My mom is a hairstylist, so, yea. To scrunch your hair, you might want to use mousse, its kinda foamy but it hold real great,or if your going for a real straight look straighten your hair. Its really simple once you learn it.
~Elysa


my boyfriend is telling every1 he is going 2 break ^ wit me.And when i tlk 2 him about it he denys it! He even told my friend while i was on the fone that he was going 2! It makes me feel awkward round him but i really like him. I have no idea what to do but break ^ wit him. sumtin i really dont wunt 2 do. please help me out! What can i do?! (link)
Hello awkward,
The first thing you should do is ask him if hes mad at you. If he says no, then tell him nicely that you heard differently. Let him know that you just want the truth. If he's upset with you, you have to know so you can try to fix it.
Hope I helped!
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my friend is being such a bitch and i wunna noe how i can make her stop pmsing up in my face and she always yells @ me says"Why are you talking sh*t about me?" and i nevr do! What should I do? (link)
I know this might sound a little difficult but what you should do is try talking to her and saying stuff like "First of all I am not talking bad about you, and if there is any one who told you that you have to tell me." Or there might be someone spreading a rumor about you and her. Just try talking to her. Tell her how you feel but try not to make it sound so mean!


ok i know this is in the wrong category but.. in about a week im going to the eye doctor... and im 99.9% sure im going to be getting contacts for the first time.. what i want to know is do contact hurt after so long wearing them or.. do they easily fall out somehow.. an stuff like that.. please help! thanx.. ((i rate good)) (link)
After a while contacts will not hurt at all. The only time they hurt is when your eyes are dry or when something like dirt or dust goes into them. Contacts are made to stay in your eyes so no they wont fall out. when your eyes are dry you might want to put eye drops in them. Dont worry the eye doctor will teach you everything about them!


my dog keeps wipeing his butt on my carpet. what should I do? (link)
Give him some toilet paper...no I'm just kidding! What you should do is bring him to a vet and see if there is something wrong with him. Usually when they do that they have worms or something.


Ok so tomorrow morning I have to get up early and go on a roadtrip to pick my sister up from camp.. its a 10 hour drive.. and on the way up it'll be just me and my parents.... so its not like i can do stuff with my sister. I've got my discman, my portable dvd player, some books.. is there ne thing else i could do? Something a little creative... got any ideas?

I RATE REALLY WELL!
-blu (link)
You can sleep, make signs for all of your friends, stuff like that!


I kinda what to be populer...Well not only cause the guy i like is populer, i want to have more friends and stick out more,and just have fun more then i do now.And populer ppl have more fun then i do..my live seems so boring sometimes ...its just crazy...How can i be liked by many ppl and just be myself and become populer?
I know crazy!!!Lol...I just what to have a fun life... (link)
Well what you should do is become friends with the popular crowd and have a big personality with everyone. Just be fun and cool with everything and you'll be fine.

Thnks *~Rate me~*


ok i'm dieing my hair blonde at the end of the summer. what are some good products for dieing your hair? (link)
You should always go to a hairdresser to get your hair done because if you do it your self you'll just have to apply it every week.


hey
no guys like me, seriously, and all my friends either have a b/f or someone likes them.
how can i get guys to like me? (link)
Dear Anonymos,
What you should do is just be yourself, and if you like someone just talk to them and make a good friendship before actually having a boyfriend.



Is it safe to cook with pans if they're getting rust spots in them? (link)
Sometimes it is. Sometimes the pan may look like there is rust spots on it but really it can be Pam spray or something that burned on the pan. It can be anything. But if it is rust spots then you should get new pans.


okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly (link)
You should make an excuse like Long distance relashionships dont work or like tell him how do i know that you aren't just using me or something like that!


I have a very bad head ache right now. It hurts all behind my left eye. I've taken two extra strength Tylenols, but they don't seem to be helping. Is it safe to take more then 2 within 4 hours even though the bottle does not recommend you to? Are there any other solutions out there to save my brain from splitting in half? (link)
you might want to try Advil. trust me it works miracles.




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