Well, I like this guy and I have no idea if he likes me. He told me that he would go out with me this year, but he also tells all these other people that he does. Everyone likes him. And now, my best friend likes him! She is trying to get him to go out with her. I have no idea what to do! Help!!!!!
Thats tough. guys tell girls things and dont always live up to what they say. trust me. the best thing to do is t a l k to him about it. ask him who he likes..but be careful..guys easily lead girls on.
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Theres this guy and he'll flirt with me a lot and then sometimes pretend im not there....is he just a big flirt or does he think that maybe i dont like him??
it depends when he flirts with you...
if it's like when you guys are alone that's just how guys typically are. if he flirts a lot with you in front of his friends that doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you, but it makes it a better chance..
if i were you i would ask him about it online or something or on the phone..like who he likes, or something along those lines..=] write back! tell me how it goes!!
xox--alex
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Have any of you ever been in love?
Can both of you answer?
Just wondering..
umm well i dont think i have ever been in love..i have liked one person a lot. but i really dont think it was love.
--court
i think i have..we're only 14..so i don't realy know what love feels like..but i think i have..
xox alex
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okay i really need your help..okay well anywayz i really like this one boy and i dont know if he likes me back i mean he flirts with me but like then at other times he gets all like grumpy and wont even talk to me.. like this one time he was at the gym and he came back and i was like hey and he didnt even say anything.. so what can i do to notice if he likes me or not.. other then if he flirts with me.. Please Help!! i will rate high for good advice..
A l r i g h t. thats tuff. and i think EVERY girl has gone through that. and really the ONLY way to know if he really likes you is to t a l k to him about it. its hard to say hey i like you do you like me..or w/e but its the only way to really know. cause all guys give mixed signals and u can just go off of how they act. because they might just be flirty to everyone. && if you just really dont want to ask him if he likes you..talk to one of his friends..see if they know who he likes or if they will ask for you! i hope i helped and i hope it all worked out of the best!
//CouRtIe
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Which is better to go for, an ex who still likes me and I like him like you can't imagine still..
or a different guy I've just met, who likes me and is something new.. I've said what I think is nice in a guy. I met him.. and wham, he had it all.
But my ex is still perfect in a completely different way.
thats is a tough one. you have been with the ex before..maybe you should see how it goes with this guy. it really all depends on who you have more feelings for. hope it all works out!
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How big is the average penis?
I d K..ask a guy.
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i didnt know what this went under. what do they do when you get a physical?
im 14/f. i know you guys are in sports so youve probably had one. thanks. =)
umm..i dont think we should talk about this on here. but if you rEaLlY want to know..you can im one of us.
//schutze09
//rasi17
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well i like this girl... she used to like me but doesnt anymore and now shes is liking other guys. what do i do?
welllll you pretty much had your chance i guess so you must have done something to screw it up..idk talk to her about it i guess.
love alex
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ok well my girl freind is like super fine and i always get boners around her, i dont think she has noticed yet, but what the frick should i do to stop gettin these boners, please help
lol..ummm..well..i guess you can't help it? uh just try not to make it noticeable..hope i helped lol i'm sorry i'm not at expert on this
xox uS
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This guy likes me and he's like obsessed. I'm not bragging or anything he just needs to lay off a little bit. Is there anyway I can get him to do so without having to actually say, "Hey, don't freak out so much!" And this kid is like really cool otherwise.
hmm..well i have kinda had this happen before lol! it's not too fun!..uhh there's actually not much you can do =/ my advice is don't talk to him as much, i mean still talk to him--just not as much as you are right now..this might help? i hope it does! write back.
xox--Alex
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I don't know either of you guys, but my wife and I are having troubles in the bedroom department. It seems like she never wants to change positions and explore new things. It is really hard for me because it's starting to get boring. I don't know what to say to her. HELP ME PLEASE!!
- anomynous
tell her you need a change...lol
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i love a guy soooooo much and i have for forever, but he doesnt love me back, i mean sometimes he likes me, and sometimes he doesnt, and it juts breaks my heart into a million peices, i dont get it, i have done everything and we're great friends, but when i dont like him, he likes me, and when i like him, he doesnt like me back, HELP!
umm..well i really dk what to say to this one..
you say he likes you when you don't like him--it's because guys always want what they can't have (whether they admit it or not)! so i would say play hard to get..but not too hard..lol..flirt with him still but don't make it look like he's the only guy on your mind, if you know what i mean? get a big group of people together (including him) and flirt with a bunch of other boys--if he really likes you deep down, that should really get him..also try and look cute =] hehe that always helps.
anyway good luck with that..write back and tell us how it goes! or IM either of us if you need anymore help..
alex-- Rasi 17
courtney-- sChUtZe09
xox Alex && Court
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i like this guy... ALOT and he says he feels the same... but he moved to astin like 3 weeks ago. he said hed come back all the time to visit during the school year and stuff but he said we cant go out because we live so far away. i like this guy ALOT and he says we likes me alot too and stuff and i think that if we go out it would work.... im def. heart broken
aww babe, i'm sorry..:(
this is tough..i know you like him a lot and by the sounds of it he likes you a lot too--buttt__this is probably what's best for ya'll, i know it's not what you wanna hear, but..you'll meet new guys this year and get to know them better and you'll be glad you AREN'T going out with that one--
just give it a little time..i don't know what else to say! try to start talking to him more as a friend then as..more THEN a friend..
if all this doesn't work, just ask again--we'll try to help as much as we can! i'm sorry..:(
lOve, Alex
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sometimes me and my best friend are so freaking in love with each other, but it always seems like he loves another girl too. he says they are just friends but i cant help being jealous. =/
ya. that is tough. but yall are BeSt FrIeNDs not b/f && g/f. and if he says they are just friends and yall are best friends then i think he wouldnt lie to you. and being jelous is soo normal. its cause you like him! hope everything works out!
CoUrTIe
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im really upset cause everything seems to be going wrong and im known to be a huge drama queen as all my friends say and i really dont like it...but i figured out some new and very sad info about my family but if i cry about it and try to talk to some one they will call me a drama queen-they say its a good thing but i dont like it really at all so i have to cry by myself in my room and i have to keep it down so my mom wont hear.... i broke down at my friends house the other day it just sux that i cant even talk to my own best friends anymore....i dont know what to do pleasee help me!!!
signed
very fing confused!!
it's hard for me to answer this..
everyone has their problems--that's why we have best friends and our parents..so we can talk to them about things..if these things are bothering you so much you should open up and talk to your friends about it, if you're REALLY upset about it they will be able to tell..if they don't care and call you a drama queen--obviously they aren't very good friends..:/
you shouldn't want your mom to not know you're crying about something serious, i would talk to her about it. that's just me though.
sometimes people think they need to keep everything bottled up inside and to themselves, but that's not the right thing to do__belive me, i know, because then you just explode all at once--it's best to talk to someone about it--so find someone you trust a lot and just let it all out! hopefully they're understanding..
if you need anything, we're herre! -- x33 Alex && Court
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hello. i'm having trouble. there are these boys. one is like waay super hottt and we had a thing and then stuff happened and it kinda just ended but i am pretty sure i didnt want it to and i think that he didnt want it to either but now ther are more boys so its not like i can just go back to him and even though i do like him i am still not sure if i really want to go out with him or whatever. but i deffinatly still have feelings for him. then there is a boy who i went out with for a pretty long time but that was a while ago and recently we both started liking each other again and like him and hes fun to be around and everything. then there is the other boy who is my best freind in the whole world and has been for a while.. and we have gone out a few times and i am pretty sure i will always be in love with him but rite now i dont think im really interested in him in 'that way' but he feels that way towards me and i have done some stuff that has made him think i want to get back with him and so at this point i need to figure out what to say to him so i dont get any deeper into this. but the thing with this last boy is that hurting him is the last thing in the universe i would ever want to do because he means the world to me and i have no clue what i would do with out him. but its weird because i really have no clue what i am supose to do with any of them... because i DO want to hang out with all of them but every time that i am with one of them they take everythign the wrong way and if i flirt with them at all or if i tell them that i like them then its like they all of a sudden want to go out with me and have a full on relationship and i just want to be able to hang out with all of them. so if you could help that would be great.. and you can probly figure out who this is.. lol
heyy!!
umm..well this is what i think--
just follow your heart. omgsh that sounds so cheesy, i know but it's your best solution..i've been in this spot so many freaking times..get some alone time, all by yourself, and just think about it..you know who you REALLY have feelings for deep down.
you talk about the third boy (who's your best friend)..you don't want to be with him in that sense..umm i really think you need to let him know as soon as possible, otherwise it's kind of like you're leading him on..:/ uhh just tell him that you love him like a brother right now, not as a boyfriend, but it's possible like in the future things could change..it might hurt him but he needs to know.
it's hard decision i know--but you need to make it..just because you don't go out with the other boys right now doesn't mean you can't later on (in highschool! yeppy!) umm..personally, i think you should go with the first one..he's been the most faithful to you out of all of them..and he's a great guy. the second guy likes other girls (i talked to him the other day)..uhh..idk what to tell you.
you're the only one who can make this choice though__good luck with it! just do what feels right..:)
i love you baby..tell us how everything goes--
loove__Alex
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theres this girl i like and im pretty sure she likes me to. We hang out and talk all the time but how do i know if she wants to go out or not?
holla back
um well you can talk to her about it..you need to KNOW for sure that she likes you though. but ya..the best thing to do is kina hint around that you want to ask her out..ask her who she likes..or tell her you like her alot. hope i help! and tell me how it goes!
LoVe-CouRt
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well.. theres this guy.. who likes me.. and he doesnt no how to tell me.. i juts can tell cuz he tells my friend he likes me but he juts doesnt have the guts to tell me!! how to i get him to make his move?!
well--some guys are just shy, and that's just their personality. if he doesn't want to tell you..hmm well idkk!! maybe bring it up casually__be like.. soo who are you liking?? and if he asks you, just tell him you like him..lol..it should work!! if he really does like you!! good luck--tell us how it goes!
xoo--Alex
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anonnomys
i dont no what 2 do with the girl that i love nemore she doesnt love me nemore ans i am scared of loseing her
well i dont know what to tell you..i dont know what happened..and your not really asking me anything..you can IM either of us and we would be happy to talk to you!
AlEx// xilov3youXx
CouRt// sChUtZe09
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this guy named John likes me and I like him.. i dont know how to get him to make the move, or ask me out!! how do I get him to ask me out
*-*Confused*-*
AlLLl guys are different..if he knows you like him..there isnt really anymore you can do..he will ask you out when he is ready!
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