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Q: i never see my bf at school. how do i change that? and when i see him outside of school he wont even give me a hug. plz help
well when your at school try to walk with him if you see him but have a friend go find him and then you can talk about this or outside of school try hugging him first if he dosent hug back then ask him whats up with this?

Q: Hi well my friend is a guy and well lets say his name is allen well he's 16 and Im 15 and I stayed the night with him last night, with his sister though. But he came in her room and slept with me Im afraid we did something or not, What do I do? need help fast!
well ask him : "whatheck were you thinking?" but i dont think you would have done anything but if you were sleeping you couldnt of.

Q: Hi well my boyfriends friends come up and pinch my ass , everytime I ask them to stop they ust kiss me like Im thier own and my boyfriend lets them what do I do?
well i would tell your boyfriend to tell them to cut it out or it'll be over..;)

Q: There's this boy named cory that goes to my school. Hes really nice when we're alone or somethin is wrong and im pissed (like me and my "friend" got in a fight and he was there to "try" and fix it). Well anyways... I think I like him and I think he likes me, but i jus dont wanna see dumb, cuz i asked him out be4, and i usually dont do that. He is super nice, and flirts with me all the time and i of course flirt back. We spend so much time together, people are ALWAYS like, do u go 2gether. He like picks me up and carries me around and stuff. Do you think I should go with him or somethin? If u need nemore info, jus ask!!
well i think he sounds like the cory off boy meets world, lol n e way i think he sounds pretty nice i think you should go out with him since you guys flirt and stuff :)

Q: well.. i wrote the other day and i told yall that there was this guy on my bus.. and he asked me out.. and i said no.. hahaha.. cuz i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt.. and yea.. so.. me and him are cool again.. but there is this one little girl who likes him.. and everytime he is with me.. she starts talking mess about me to all her little friends.. so.. i didnt want that.. so today.. he went up to talk to me.. and he was like.. " hey.. so you gunna holla at me or wut? " and i was like.. oh.. nope.. srry.. jessie might get mad.. and he was like what?? so.. i told him she was talking mess.. and now hes mad at her.. and shes even more mad at me.. so.. i dont know what to do.. should i stop talking to him?? or what?? ill rate ya if you give good advice :)
who cares about what jessie says (well you might) but if you like this guy then you should go out with him and shouldnt care about what jessie says plus she is just jealous of you and this guy hanging out so dont worry about it ;)

Q: i recently met this guy about 3 weeks ago and weve hung out and talked on the phone once about 4 times n im pretti sure he likes me but im not totalli sure hes 19 and im 16 and hes mentioned sumthing b4 about him being older but he still hangs out with me n talks to me n stuff we went to the movies the other night and he like flirted with me n everything n bought my ticket but he didnt hold my hand or anything and wen he dropped me off at my house he was just like well ill talk to u online or sumthing n then hes like well if ur on and im like yeah bye i was just wondering if u thin he likes me or not
i think he prolly does but, keep hanging out just incase he idk just incase ;)

Q: I like this guy... and my friend has apparently liked him for two years.. I have already gone out with him twice... but i like him... AGAIN!! He asked me out and i told my friend ands shes all like "I dont care... he wont go out with me... he knows i like him and he has known for like a year" and i feel really bad because he asked me out in math and I told him I would have to check with my friend... when i told her she looked all sad... but at the same time shes trying to pressure me into going out with him... what should I do?
Well i would maybe go out with him see how your friend is she will get over him soon and maybe try hooking her up with a guy maybe his friend but you cant change your feelings about him if you like him A LOT!;)

Q: okay..my friend has told me word for word that he cuts..and he told me that his arm got infected, two places. Im not sure what to do but be there and tell him that im there to talk..HELP
well if his arm is infected he should go to a doctor or have his parent(s) take him there and maybe get him into counciling so he wont cut anymore it is wayyy to dangerous and i hope this helps ;)

Q: Well I just watched the movie "The Passion of The Christ" and he was so innocent and went through a lot even though he was innocent. He died for me and now I want to become a better person. Here are some things about me. I talk about people a lot, I cuss, I do bad things, I say God a lot and I dont want to keep living like this. How can I change all of those things? Its really hard trying to be someone your not and I want to change it to someone that I should be. So any suggestions? Please Help me I want to change into the person I should be.
well i have issues too well today in school we learned that you dont want to be remembered as the kid who was really mean. but when i cracked my knuckles i used a rubber band and every time i was gonna crack my knuckles i snapped myself. so everytime you cuss try using the rubber band thing then try to be nice to people and be a good student. hope i helped! ;)

Q: Ok, theres this guy i like, hes pretty cool and all and he seems to be the only person who gets me and is somewhat like me. he has is flaws tho..(wich i dont want to tell to a stranger)..im the type where the guy has to ask me out. but, i think he'll say no or something and ut friendship will be all wierd and shit..i mean stuff. Should i wait and see if he ever does ask me out, or go in and ask him out?

btw..im a 14/f
Yeah i am the same type but if you wait too long he might someone else so i would have a friend ask him out and shizit. ;) hope it helps

Q: Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?

Thanks a bunch
try hanging out with him get to know him better if something kindles then you guys should go out or something just try it see if it helps. :)

Q: ok my dad and stepmom are getting divorced. i dont live with them, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, and i dont know it's just a big problem. i'm afraid i'll never see my stepmom again once they get divorced, and i don't want that to happen. I got really close to her and i love her, she's almost like a sister to me. i know i cant' stop them from getting divorced, but how can i get through this and still be happy and have a good outlook on things? i'm normally an optomistic person, and i want to stay that way. i don't expect never to be sad, but what are some ways to deal with this? i went through a divorce a few years ago with my real parents, but i dont know how to get through it again. thanks in advance to everyone who helps. love ya!
hey im so sorry to here that :( but i might not know how you feel but make sure to tell your step mom how much she means to you and see if you can sill hang out and alk and stuff. See if this works for you!!

Q: I am always seeing people wearing Livestrong bracelets. I understand it is for a good cause and I would like to purchase one but where would I go to get one? What store has them?
well i like those things to and loads of people have them and it is for a good cause try like Ebay or something soorry i dont know the websight for livestrong bracelets all i know is that you can get them on the internet

Q: i need a new bra..where would you suggest i get one? what kidn should i get?
Well try JC penney or target they got some good ones i suggest starpless for some tops but try something comfortable..

Q: I dont fit in with my family. There so..square and boring..not to mention skinny. There all blonde, and i have dyed my hair black and im..kinda...'chubby'..and im "gothic" Though id rather not say that..exactly. Everyone in my family looks dowm on me..HELP ME NOW OR I SHALL HAVE YOUR HEAD!
Well its nice you want to be different but being looked down is not to fun but talk to your parents about how you dont feel like you fit in and tell them how you feel about how they are "square" i hope i helped if i didnt im sorry

Q: hey! i like this guy..but he doesnt know it. but i really want him to know. so how do i tell him??
well you should tell him usually if you wait he will be out of reach. what i mean is he might get a girlfriend if you wait to long so i think you should tell him or have a friend tell him. hope it helps! :)

Q: ive only had one boyfriend in my life..and im 14 years old. how do i get boys to like me? i mean..i think some boys like me, but how do i know for sure? how do i get them to like me?
you see i have the same problem i am 13 and have only had 2 boyfriends sad huh? but just hang out and be your self flirt a bit chat with them a bit then ask them out if they dont make a move then just ask them out

Q: how do i become popular?
Well its pretty hard to become popular. WEll just try being nice to the people wh are "popular" and just try to talk tothem quite a bit just dont act like a stalker or weird or somethin well i dont know what else to do if this dosent work

Q: My sister always likes going swimming with me and my dad. I find it fun too! But the thing is she's been planning it since last Sunday for her me and my dad to go Swimming today. But when I went to the bathroom this morning, I found out that I have my period. So I told my mom that I couldn't go swimming. But then when we were driving home from Church today, my sister brought up the subject, and my mom said that I couldn't go. She kept on asking and asking why I couldn't go and we told her because I can't. So now she's really mad at me. She's only 9 and doesn't know about periods and stuff so she's really mad at me. I feel really bad. I wish she was a little older so that she could know. So now I feel really guilty. What should I do?
well just tell her that she'll learn someday why you cant go but jusst when your period is over ask if you can re-schedule or go swimming some other time..

Q: i dont have very many friends at skool..and i want to make more..but how do i make more friends?
Just find people wiht the same interests as you and just talk quite a bit and you'll make some new friends fast :)

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