I am a student and a cheerleader. I am currently studying psychology and i have learned a lot. I have been through a lot in my life- bad parents, alcoholics, druggies, rape, heart break,eating disorders, etc.- and i have gotten throught all of it. I want other people to get through it as well so if you need help, i would like to give advice. And you must know that i am a dedicated christian.
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Location: California
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: March 18, 2008
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13/f.
Okay so, I'm know I'm probably 'too young' to even think about being in love, but whatever.
I have this best guy friend- Andrew. And I have like, the biggest freakin' crush on him. He does use me for money, because I think he knows he has me wrapped around his finger. Now, all my friends tell me he likes me back like; "Omg he so likes you," or "You can tell by the way he acts," or something.
What he does is:
-Always looks me in the eyes when talking to me or just when we're close.
-Ditches his friends to come and talk to me for a minute.
-He'll always smile at me out of the blue.
-When I call him a fagot [purposely or otherwise(:] he gets the "WHAT!?" face [ sorta like :O!?] and gets all emotional.
-Teases me like making faces.
I'm just wondering if he does like me back.
I'd figure it out myself, but
I'm too stupid to :P
Kthnx (link)
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It definitely sounds like he does!! You should totally flirt back like crazy cause he is into you
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hey i wanted to ask you some ?s can i have your email
alexandra.16 (link)
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yea
cute_sami07@yahoo.com
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my boyfriend & i have been together now for about 5 months.
i am his first serious relationship since his last ex. & they dated for 20 months. they lost their virginities to eachother & everything.
just here recently, has made a year since they broke up. & she was the one who broke up with him, because he cheated on her.
my boyfriend & i made plans to go to a club one night & she was there. she kept giving me awful looks & staring at us. i've seen her before & she's never really acted that way to me.
then one day she sends me a message on myspace trying to say that i was talking bad about her to her friends & telling them that they couldn't be around her.
she & i get in a big argument & my boyfriend basically tells me to leave her alone.
my boyfriend & i go to different schools, but his ex & him go to the same school. & he told me that she came up & was talking to him really bad about me & that she apologized to him & everything. & he accepted her apology.
i'm not sure what i'm asking but i need your opinions on this situation. i've never started anything with this girl & i blocked her from my myspace & everything & i don't understand why she is always trying to talk to my boyfriend.
i mean, is she jealous? because she has a blog on her myspace that is specifically aimed at how bad she hates my boyfriend because he cheated on her, but i just don't understand. (link)
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she obviously loved him if she lost his virginity to him...and that kinda makes u get attached. she probably tried to get over him and then as soon as she saw him with another girl, all of those feelings came back and she realized that she wanted to be that girl. Be careful with this guy because we never really get over our first loves and he may go back to her. To get better with her, talk to her. Tell her how this makes you feel and in a nice way ask her what her problem is.
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15/F/PA and he is 18/M/PA
My boyfriend of 5 months dumped me and he said he didnt know why and that he still loved me but he dosnt want to be with me. now he wont talk to me and I dont know what to do. He let me keep my stuffie he gave me but i dont under stand why he would dump me but want me to keep the stuff and why he still loved me (link)
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give him a little time so he doesnt feel suffocated and then ask him. If he wont talk to u then write a note. If he is still being weird then just have fun with friends and he will probably come around if he sees how happy u r. And if not, you only have one chance at this life thing so have fun with it.
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My closest guy friend has his tongue pierced. He got it done like 5 months ago and it's completely healed.
I've made out with him a couple of times, but not within 5 months.
Since he got the piercing I've been wanting to kiss him so badly. I want to know what it's like to make out with someone who has a tongue piercing.
Like when I'm alone with him and were talking I just want to jump on him and kiss him.
That's how bad it is.
He doesn't have a girlfriend, I don't have a boyfriend. We like each other, we both know it, but due to some family problems we're not gonna date until we're both 16 (which is less than a year, for both of us)
Any hints on how to kiss him..or well hint that I want to kiss him.
He's open about kissing in school, so it's not like I have to wait until we go to the movies or anything.
Any help?
Thanks. (link)
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play with his tongue ring with your tongue. its pretty much the same as kissing someone without it, like it doesnt change their kissing but its fun to play with it and he will like it
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Okay so I had my period for a few months and it was pretty normal and light. Then it went away for like 5 months and I thought it was fine but then I just got it back a few days ago and it's been suuper heavy. Like everytime I put on a pad it fills it up in like 2 minutes. It's disgusting. And like when I go to the bathroom the toilet paper will be covered in blood. Is this normal? Will it become lighter again? :/ (link)
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yea if it went away for like 5 months then it is probably just catching up. You should go to the doctor and find out why it didnt come for so long. Its normal for it to be abnormal sometimes but 5 months is something that you should get checked out.
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what things can i do to get my bf hard without touching his thing?? like he and i arent sexually active but i really wanna arouse him and he loves it when i do soo what will get him hard?? where to touch, how to kiss, where to kiss, anything is open!! THANX (link)
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when u kiss him, bite his bottom lip a little bit
if he is a virgin, run ur hand up his leg and kind of tease him
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i'm verrrry good at track.
the problem is i'm a junior in high schoo. i have no time for home work because I'm so sleepy and tired and can never finish it!
like right now. i'm supposed to be at track practice, but i have the most homework i've ever had in my life and my mom is making me go to practice!! i need this advice.
i get home at 4:45
eat which takes 30-40 mins. (sometimes i only eat a snack that will fill me up which is really unhealthy and is bad for athletes, i know.)
do my hw, but i am never done.
i'm getting sleepy at arounf 9:00 and can't keep my eyes open and theyre burning and everything.
my mom won't listen. what do i do??? (link)
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I have the same problem, working 2 jobs, and i am also a junior and involved in everything that i can possibly be involved in. Ask your mom what is more important--grades or track? And if she forces you to stay in track,then do homework in other classes. Like if you have free time in 1st period do your 3rd period's hw or something. Good luck!
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I'm 17 years old, 5'5", and weigh around 96 pounds. I'll go ahead and say I am pretty thin, but there are some areas that could use some muscle definition. Before I even ask my question, I am NOT looking to lose any weight. Weight loss is not a concern for me. I'm not involved in any sports, and I used to run in my free time, but haven't gotten around to doing so in about a year. I would really just like to tone up my whole body in general, especially for summer. I'm enrolled in a fitness gym that opens the first of June, so just some exercises or activities that I can do at home to give me a head start on toning would be extremely appreciated. (link)
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Make a goal for yourself. Run a certain amount everyday and up the amount weekly or even daily. My sister and I used to rip up a bunch of pieces of paper and write a workout on each and mix it up into a hat. Then pull each out and do it. For motivation do this with a friend. On a few write like water break or something and only take a break when you get to those ones. And remember to have fun with this!!
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I am a 16 year old female, 5 9, and 220 lbs.
Ok, I am overweight and have been for a few years. I desperately want to change that, but the first thing I need to know is how to plan a good workout. I have 2 workout DVDs that I plan to use. One is a dance video, and one is Fat Blasting Yoga. I also want to be able to run the mile in less than 20 minutes, but right now it takes me five minutes just to run 1/4 of a mile, and after that, i get tired. (These are all important factors for me...please think about these when you answer this question.) So any ideas on how to use these things to plan an effective but fun workout? (FYI, I get bored with a structured routine after a few days.)
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Make a goal for yourself. Run a certain amount everyday and up the amount weekly. My sister and I used to rip up a bunch of pieces of paper and write a workout on each and mix it up into a hat. Then pull each out and do it. For motivation do this with a friend. On a few write like water break or something and only take a break when you get to those ones. And remember to have fun with this!!
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If you've lost a decent amount of weight, how did it affect your face and facial features? Did your eyes look bigger, or did your lips get thinner? I'm just curious what happens. Does the size of your neck even change? Ridiculous question, I know, but I really want to know! (link)
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Usually the first thing that changes in your face are your cheeks--they get a lot thinner and if your aren't eating healthy you can get acne really bad.
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ohk so i was just wondering if people could tell me some things to expect or to not expect the first time you have sex, personal stories would be helpful but i would really just like to know generally is normal and what isn't normal to happen the first time, thanks in advance, i'll rate : ) (link)
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my first time lasted about a half hour and despite what everyone said i didnt bleed and it didnt hurt.
Expect to be nervous. Its very easy though so no worries
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i was a virgin, and about.. 3 weeks ago i lost it. i was 4 days late with my period, so i bought a pregnancy test, i got negitave =) but is it normal for my period to be irregular?
(it hasn't been scene i first got it) (link)
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take another test in a few days if it doesnt start and make sure that you wait the full 3 minutes or however long the pregnancy test says to wait. If you dont, it could say negative at first and then change. You period could be late or you might miss it this month because of stress also or you changed your diet or something like that so it doesnt always mean you are pregnant. Good luck! =D
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I've been with this guy for a couple of weeks. He's had sex about 4 to 6 time before, maybe a year ago...he claims he was just horny and looking for action. He's so good to me and I like him oh so much! But I'm scares he's trying to get in my pants since he's known to he a player. But he's so sweet. One of my bestest guy friends was like he's tricking you to get into your pants. I'm not sure...what are some signs he's trying to get into my pants? (link)
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When you two are making out, if he gets too into it, then thats a good sign. And sometimes when that happens you just go along with it. But if you dont want to be like all the other girls that he has been with, then make him wait. Set a goal for yourself, like how long you want to be with him before certain things happen. If he doesnt respect your limits, then you will know what he wanted in the first place. Good luck.
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I have really long straight fine hair down to my lower back. I hate cutting it, but sometimes I trim my split ends. I like wearing it down, but it looks so flat on the top of my head and has absolutely no volume at all. So most of the time I end up wearing it in a ponytail. BORING! there are so many chunks of my hair that is only like 5 inches long, around my ears and back of neck obviously from always wearing a ponytail.. Question is--how can I get more volume and repair all the short spots without chopping it all off? Hairstyle ideas? Haircuts that won't make my hair more than 2 inches shorter? thanks (link)
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i dont kno if this is the hairstyle where u live but it looks really cute:
tease the crown of your hair with a comb and use a lot of bobby pins to create a "poof"...then put it in a pony tail...for the "little hairs" use hairspray until they grow out.
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When my boyfriend fingers me my legs start to shake and i start to feel like I have to pee...is this normal? (link)
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yea its normal...and it will happen if u guys have sex too...my advice is go pee before you 2 get intimate
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ok well i'm dating my ex again and we get along really well consdiering we've known each other forever and have dated a couple times. but this time it's kinda weird between us.. he calls and we talk for like 10 mins then he says he's tired and he wants to go to sleep. i mean i can understand this sometimes but HE DOES IT EVERY NIGHT. and it makes me think that he's bored with me or something.. do you think he is? what should i do to make him stop doing this? HELP ME!!! (link)
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do something spontaneous and remind him of why he likes you...make him not be bored. Guys always want the next best thing so be the best thing that he can have. Make him feel lucky when he has you, keep him interested and just have fun! Good luck! =D
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Okay. I'm sure this question is on here a million times over, and i know the main remedy is to "be yourself", but i need an answer a little bit deeper than that.
I'm not skinny. I'm not horribly fat. I am chubby, but i know i'm not ugly. (i'm not trying to be conceited at all.) my thing is, i have confidence in myself. And though i am self-conscious about my weight, i'm working on that with all i've got. Here's the problem; i'm a junior in high school, and i still don't know how to act around guys. yeah the main problem is my self-consciousness, but now that i'm past that a little, i don't know how to initiate conversation with guys i'm interested in. there are a ton of guys i'd like to get to know, but i have no idea how to go about it.
saying Hey! randomly is a bit bold for me, though my personality is loud. and i always am myself with my friends and in meeting people; but around guys i'm interested in... i clam up. and if i don't know them, i can never initiate anything. because i'm horribly shy when it comes to that.
so if anybody has any advice on...ice breakers i guess? i'd love to hear them all. :)
thanks in advance. (link)
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You should first do something that drastically makes you look different so the boys notice, like completely dying your hair or get a new outfit or something. It feels good, will make you look great, and definitely will make you more confident. Then ask your friends to help you go up and talk to the boy. Go in a group but make sure that you stand out. I constantly am happy and smiling and people like being around that so you could try that too! Good luck! =D
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ok well For a year now I really wanted to go to the doctor for some anti depressant pills because of many things but as one of my friends have said, they don't know what to do with me because I'm too emotional and it brings people down. I suggested it to my dad once but when he started giving me a lecture of why do I need it, and that I should be thankful that I'm not starving in Africa, I couldn't talk, like I choked and started crying non stop and then after that I never talked to him about it again because if I did, I would just start crying before I even said a word.
My dad always talks us to the doctors, and it's his decision whether or not he gets this or that so I can't just go in privately and expect him to pay up for the prescription to drugs that I'm taking when he doesn't know what I'm taking them for.
Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore but I just think that they'll help. I'm all against drugs and stuff but this one really seems to work. (link)
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Anti-depressant pills don't take away the problem. If you are upset about something, try a journal. I know how corny that sounds but they really work! Getting everything out of your system leaves a smile! =D
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to make a long story short, i was accepted into this very prestigious summer course where you take classes at a local college for 5 weeks. i go to a competitive private school, and of the 50 or so who applied, they only picked 5 people to participate, and i was one of the people picked (my parents made me apply). however, i don't really want to go to it because it will be 5 weeks of my summer taken up along with 3 weeks in europe, so i'll only have 2 weeks at home (and i want more than that!). i also just don't want to do school work during the summer!! for me, the summer is time for me to hang out with my friends and boyfriend, and for me to seriously ride and compete on my horse. it's also a chance to make some money so i can afford gas for driving. the problem is, if i tell my parents i don't want to do it, they'll FLIP. they'll tell me this will help me get into good colleges, and that i'm wasting a great opportunity. i'm very stubborn about not wanting to go though. what do you guys think i should do? bite my tongue and go? or not go and have them hate me? any ideas? (link)
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You should sit them down and tell them to listen to what you have to say before saying how much they hate your decision. Tell them that you wil have your chance at college and you are looking forward to that, but right now is your chance to be a teenager, and you want to take advantage of that. This will be your last summer before you graduate and explain to them that it's important that you have fun and don't just buckle down in school. And make sure that you tell them how much you appreciate them wanting the best for you, because they sound like good parents. Good luck!
=D
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