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First love on vacation


Question Posted Thursday July 11 2019, 9:33 pm

I am 16-year-old from Texas this past week I was on vacation in the Caribbean the first two days were pretty normal just vacation but the second day I was there I was walking along the beach with no shirt and I noticed three girls looking at me while I walk past I never really thought it to be anything as it’s just the beach but later in the day I saw those three girls again at the pool looking at me and whispering to each other as I walked past them to go towards the beach One of them stops me and the other two walk in the other direction she asked me if I spoke English and I said yes she then explained to me that one of her friends was into me and asked if she could have my Snapchat I said yes and I am with my day . About 20 minutes later I received a Snapchat from her saying her name why she’s here and she said that she was here to celebrate her birthday with her friends and she’s from Brazil and the funny thing is that my birthday is four days after hers.One thing led to another and she asked me if I wanted to meet her at Beach at five I said yes and was extremely nervous and met her there and at night after just a couple minutes talking I was extremely surprised of how much we had in common from the foods we like to have a strict her parents were and the sports we like the TV show we liked and even our irrational fears everything seems so weird that she was so similar to me and we’re so far apart it seems like every answer she gave was the same as I would’ve given even though we live in two totally different cultures . I eventually had to go because I do go eat dinner at my family after I finished eating I Snapchat of her and told her that I enjoy talking to her and that I had a good time the funny thing about that conversation is we’re both so shy that we never even took off our sunglasses while talking anyway that night she snapped chatted me if I can meet tomorrow and I said I was busy so she asked we could meet again later that night I met her again at night and we sat on the beach and we just talked and I was still surprised about how many things we had in common seems like we’re almost same person and yet there for two totally different cultures everything about it was just so similar to me . And again we both had to go as her parents didn’t want to have us out late that night that night again I texted her how was funny how similar we were and I would love to see her again sometime during the trip

She said that she felt the same way and that will meet up again the next morning she asked if I was available that night I said yes and I think about Waze meeting with her and talking to her that night . We finally met that night I was leaving the next day so I was going to make a big explanation and tell her how I felt. That night when we met on the beach I told her how much I enjoyed spending time with her and that she gave me a special feeling and she said the same thing to me and we hugged about 30 seconds later I said how much I enjoyed being here with her and I didn’t wanna leave after that we made it we locked eyes and kissed who is the first kiss for both of us after that we spent the rest of the two hours cuddling and kissing on the beach who would walk around holding hands up and down the beach saying how much we enjoy each other‘s company and how special each of us felt toward the other I told her how I never had a feeling that towards anyone else like her I had crushes on girls and others but she was special she gave me a feeling I never had before towards someone. Everything that night she said from the quotes like how she want to spend the rest of your time with me and how she want to spend more time with me at all of the other even ran closest she said felt like I could’ve said to myself I was thinking almost the same thing eventually after about two hours of cuddling and kissing on the beach we had to go we both said how we Snapchat each other if both of us need anything

I think we both realized that I was living over 5000 miles apart and over on two separate hemispheres of the earth this relationship really just didn’t make sense and this is probably the last time we would see each other

She gave me a feeling that no one else has given me and I’ve never felt before when she was in my arms on the beach I just felt like everything was right everything was in its place and that something a special doesn’t come very often

I left the next morning on a flight and we’s we said our goodbyes how sad we were.

It’s now been a few days since then and I can’t stop thinking that we Snapchat it maybe a few times but I think we both realize that it was just a simple vacation thing if anyone has a previous experience to this or similar experience please let me know I just want to know a way to get this out of my head I cannot stop thinking about it and how much I miss her thanks for reading this really long story if you did.

I’ve never felt such an extreme emotional connection like I did with her I felt like I could read her mind, i can’t put it into words, and I’ve never felt anything like it before


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Dragonflymagic answered Thursday July 11 2019, 11:05 pm:
Yes, I have actually met someone where as we first talked, it seemed everything each of us said, the other was nodding yes, because we liked the same thing or believed the same things. I was at a potluck at a friends house. They knew and met lots of people and so often there were new people there. It was my 3 or an almost weekly potluck they held in their home. This one day, I introduced myself since I didn't know her. We started talking and felt that closeness. Turns out her birthday was a week after me but she was about 5 years younger. I hadn't seen her before as she goes for chemo, goes into remission and then it starts all over again. So sometimes she doesn't feel good enough to get out.

As it came time to leave and go home, I found myself fighting back tears. It felt like I had just found a long lost friend and I was filled with a fear I might not see her again. This prompted me to get her contact info.

When I got home that night, I prayed and asked God why I had left that party, feeling a friend love for her,(not a romantic love) and asked why I would feel like I might not see her again.

Sorry if you don't believe in the following, but God played a mini scene in my mind. Two girls with long black hair, wearing white Victorian dresses, kneeling in front of a dollhouse, playing together. From what I could tell, from the back which is all I saw, they looked to be duplicates of each other. So I asked, "Why am I seeing this?" God says, "That is you and her as twin sisters in a previous life." I will also tell you that once upon a time, I did not believe in reincarnation.

Next week I told her what I thought I had heard and as I shared, she nodded her head up and down and said, yes, that is correct, we were twins. My eyes popped open large. "HOw do you know?" She, as I found out, was psychic and one of her grandmothers who'd passed over, was the one verifying this info as I spoke. She told me she would speak in more detail with her grandmother and share more with me as she got it. She did not yet know what I had for children but when she came back, she told me that in every past life time, she and I either were twin sisters or we would both meet each other in the life we weren't in the same family. Also that her firstborn child is always a son and mine is always a daughter. As I said, she didn't know I had a firstborn daughter as she told me this. We don't see each other that often as she is often sick, but I saw her a few years ago when she agreed to marry my youngest daughter to her fiancee in a hurried marriage as she had just found out she was pregnant when he was told he could never father children, he was supposedly sterile. I can tell you that I felt much the same way then and we both have different circles we walk in. Hers are mostly involving her psychic skills, and I do not have those skills or go to the meet ups she does. But it certainly makes sense. My mind couldn't know her but my soul did and that is why I felt like I had just met up with someone who felt dear to me like family, though I'd never met her before, at least in this life, and so I was confused as to why I felt this way but if she really had been a sister in past lives, a twin no less, we had been close in many lives. When I read your story, this one of my own came to mind right away before you asked if anyone has such an experience.

So it is possible that you and her were very close in a past life and were allowed as souls to at least meet up once in life for the purpose of now being able to stay in touch. No, you won't be able to spend time with her other than talking on phone or snapchat. I can't say why it is important and happened. But I do understand extreme emotional connection to someone who was a stranger originally. I don't think this happens to too many people and probably why I have never heard of anyone experiencing a similar thing until you.

When I told others of my experience, there were females who told me that perhaps I had a romantic interest, and maybe I was actually bi sexual, since I was married. I know it wasn't that. I do not ever feel sexual desire for a woman, nope, this was something else, like the love for a mother, or sister or grandma. Because the crying I was doing after I went home that first night was as if I lost a family member due to death and was grieving their loss. I hope my story helps you to feel like you have been blessed by a rare event.

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