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Bf wants to keep baby, but I don't want to..
Just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant, and my bf at first wasn't as excited.. Now he's ecstatic and wants to be a dad and so on.
I have a daughter but not by my bf.
I was with my ex for 5 years, and with my current bf, we don't even have a year.
We are in the process of buying a home, but I have been feeling differently since my ex has been trying to get back with me. He doesn't know I'm pregnant, but he's been calling my mom and brother in law.
He's been telling her he wants his family back etc..
Now i'm feeling different towards my bf. Very hard to explain. I love him but I don't know if having this baby is the right thing. I know what we were doing but I just feel like I'm still able to 2nd think it. My bf told his parents already, and wants to get married now. Telling me we can't turn back.. but I really want to.. I don't see myself with another kid right now.
I just want positive answers, I know everyone has different situations but good advice is always helpful..........
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Okay, if you don't feel okay with having another kid, then you don't have to, a real thoughtful guy who really loves wouldn't push you to do things that you aren't ready for. Also not to be rude or anything but a year together doesn't seem like enough time to decide whether or not to get married, this is just my opinion, furthermore that you guys should learn more about each other before you decide to do this big step in life. I suggest you tell your parents, though they might be a little angry with you, they will help you through your tough times. Also probably in the future you guys can get married, but that's if you BOTH are comfortable with it! Good luck and I hope this is helpful, because this is my first answering advice thing! ~LittleMissSunshine
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