i saw him in my mind and i heard him. i true feel hes my spirit guide. hes very beautiful and has the most comforting voice ever. how can i talk to him easier???? any tips from people who ACTUALLY know about spiritual thigns?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Spirituality? Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday March 8 2016, 3:56 pm: I believe in spirit guides only after having my experience of meeting mine. My experience however starts with being in the church and told we can communicate with God back and forth. Prayers to me are a laundry list of what I need and want. I just began directing everyday regular conversations towards God who is also spirit like angels and guides. So whatever I tell you about my experiences with God first, applies also to angels and guides. First, it starts with God or spirits who work for God that do not interfere in your life. They do not approach you to talk to you first. Its a very rare situation if they do, more likely that you'd be in dire trouble if they didn't. So depending on the situation, any new spirit that comes to me first to speak without my inviting them to do so, I am always watchful and careful, lest they be pretending to be on Gods side when they are really not looking out for my best interests and to eventually lead me astray.
So, when taught to talk to God, it took lots of me doing the talking and hearing nothing back. While some people hear with their actual ears, for most, like me, its with our internal ears and the voice you will hear in return is most often in your mind and sounds much like your own. Its possible to hear a different sounding voice if its necessary such as a medium trying to convey to a person things about the spirit who wants her to refer on a message and verifying by sound of voice, looks, and facts that only the two could know are then important. I have never heard my guides sound like a separate voice. Not saying that its impossible though.
If you have ever listened to convo's done with psychics about themselves, many will say spirit guides are not angels, but souls who have lived past mortal lives before and most likely were related to you or friends in some lifetimes way long ago but you won;t recognize them as such until you pass over and all memories come flooding back. This all I believe too before I heard it from others.
When my first guide appeared to me, he just stood there, in my mind not saying a thing. It wasn't until I realized he wasn't going away that I started asking myself what I should do and the idea "Talk to him" came to mind. So, I did talk, the same way I do with God, internally, or like telepathy, just speaking the conversation in my head. Once I asked "Who are you and what do you want?" my guide barely could stop talking. He had a lot to say, also telling me that he worked as a team with another spirit guide for me whom I'd meet later.
The only reason I could ask my guide a question and hear an instant reply in my head was because of the years I'd spent talking to God. We are like a radio unable to pick up stations at all, or once we start learning how to connect, we bring in the stations kind of fuzzy with static. This meant for me, that I tended to question whether I was hearing right from God or not and so God tested me over and over again in many ways such as "Go to so and so and tell them God sent you to pray for their headache to go away" My instant question was, "What if they dont have a headache and I heard you wrong. I'll look stupid and be very embarrassed?" I did my share of arguing with God first, but doing as he said after, as I knew it was all part of what was best for me to learn. And I did get better and better.
So years later, when meeting my spirit guides, it wasn't hard to talk to them. Once I had initiated the contact, they could come talk to me anytime they needed to but most of the time waited for me to tune in to them first. So I hope you can see that there isn't really anything you can do right now to instantly be able to have good conversation with him.
One thing psychics and mediums do caution is that you protect yourself spiritually using pure white light energy from God, and this means they all believe in and have a relationship with God. You may find a few out there who dont and you cant rely on them, mediums or spirits because they are not connected to the source of all that is good and right. So my first thought is that if you do not have any relationship with God, that you establish that too. Practice talking with God becuase God loves you and won't lead you astray and you can ask God to verify if anything an angel or guide says is okay.
Beautiful looking is not important in a guide and to me actually gives me concern as I know Lucifer as a fallen angel was once the most beautiful angel in heaven. Now that He's working against God, he will use a mask of beauty to lure the attention of unsuspecting humans to lead them astray. Not to say we dont know right from wrong, but the changes if made slowly, can eventually bring a person to accept little things that dont seem to matter until after years of it when it all adds up to finding ourselves haunted by some entity that has attached itself to us. My first guide looked like a hermit in the woods. Tall, beady eyes, long scraggly hair and scraggly beard, plaid shirt under overalls. Thats it. Nothing you'd find in a model magazine.
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