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Question Posted Thursday January 30 2014, 1:45 am

I don't want a question answered just need to get off my chest what has happened in my life and why I feel they way I do and what Ive decided. Please tell where I can do this.

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Additional info, added Friday February 7 2014, 2:40 am:
I have been debating with myself whether to add more info or not. On the date I asked the question I had a big fight (all I asked was in a msg are you still coming?). I felt a valid question as she was 15min late and just about ready to give birth anything could have happened. It ended with my daughter who was pregnant knocking me to the ground in a hungry jacks car park and her not wanting me in their lives. Things between us were never fine but since she has been with this guy I feel he has caused no end of trouble between us. He treats my granddaughter badly. He loved my granddaughter when we just knew him as friends but he has now got my daughter and doesn't need to be nice to her daughter. Unfortunately she can't see this. I have been feeling that I am not good for anyone as when I say something my daughter blows up at me we have a fight and she no longer wants me in her life. This is 3 times now. My heart feels like its tearing apart. I feel I cannot do anything right and now I feel ive done the wrong thing again. My daughter gave birth a few days ago. Firstly I wasn't suppose to be in their lives and when my daughter went into labour her partner rang and said so I replied well she doesn't want me in her life so what does she want? I would love to have her daughter just let me know. Well he told my daughter I didn't want her daughter. In the end I looked after my granddaughter but as I had no access to a car ( usually I get the use of my daughters company car when I need to take my granddaughter to school, ballet etc) Her partner has said to my daughter I want the car. Its not like they wouldn't have a car. They have his car so I feel she should have been considerate like she use to be so I could get her daughter to school etc. My son even said don't say you need the car. What was I suppose to do. This has been really affecting me where Im at the point of every little thing upsets me. It's not a want it's a need. As I had very little money to catch buses to get her to school and back and to see her mum in the hospital ( it would have cost $11 a day ) I did what I could but never told her I kept home from school. I only had enough money to get her there this morning and organised with a parent to take my granddaughter back with her as my daughter was ment to go home today. When I originally told her she was fine with it but she now will not be going home today and she was pissed with me that I arranged that but I thought it was best to take her at least once as it is her first week in grade 3. I really feel that she hates me with a passion and have felt this way for a while and felt I shouldn't be on this earth I was originally going to pick a time when I had money to get sleeping pills and do it that way but ive just been diagnosed with a medical condition which has been the answer to me knowing I wasn't ment for this earth and it is so much easier to do what I want to. Don't worry it won't happen until next year as my granddaughter has been selected with her ballet school to dance in Disneyland and I am doing fundraising and paying for her fare plus I am going too. This will be my last happy time on this earth. I feel even I am imposition to my son as well as I don't ask for much but I did ask for help to get my granddaughter to school and pick her up and his fiancé is the one who should be helping me but I felt she didn't want to. I have taken her shopping etc every week when I had a car and she could not drive and this was I felt something important yet her reaction was I don't really want to. I have NO friends I live on my own and I feel Im not ment to have anyone around me as I can never do anything right. I am sorry this is long and Im hoping I got every thing out I just needed to get this out as like I said before I have no friends release my feelings so I can get through the next 12months then no one will need to worry about me..
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adviceman49 answered Thursday January 30 2014, 9:58 am:
Your question has the makings of an interesting question. I'm sure that besides me there are others that would like to offer suggestions if only you had offered a bit more information.

There are many different ways I can interpret what little you have said and I hope you are not planning on hurting yourself. We can help you with whatever you feel has gone wrong in your life and why you may feel as you do.

What we won't do is help you with an end of life option or where and how to do so. There is no problem so huge that there is not a better solution than suicide. When this looks like the only option you have in reality the problem is you are too close to the problem to see better alternatives. This is where we excel by pointing out better ways to handle a situation.

Write back with more information and let us help you.

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