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My crush is dating someone
Posted Thursday July 17 2014, 6:52 am
Basically I like this girl and she's a lesbian, I'm also not straight (female 15). She started dating this other girl in our grade and on the day I was going to ask her out she told me all this and how much she liked the other girl. I cried all day after school. They have been dating for 2 weeks and I'm dying. I don't sleep. I want her to be happy but at the same time I am so unhappy. I don't make things awkward by saying I like her, because I know she likes me too (she flirted heaps). The other girl she is dating I used to be friends with a year or so ago, I was so jealous and mad at her at first, but I am not really anymore, I tried talking to her to try be friends again. My question is, what should I do? I know I sound like a stupid 15 y...
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Fear: Somtimes I feel afraid of him
Posted Thursday July 17 2014, 5:40 am
I have a relationship with a guy that seems to be ok.But for no reason there are sometimes that i feel afraid of him.He hasn't done anything but he looks kind of rum.I don't know if I believe that he would never harm me.What should I do?
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I want to date this girl and found out her boyfriend could be cheating
Posted Wednesday July 16 2014, 6:22 am
So I met this girl in school and I've known her now for a year, and I really like her but she has a boyfriend. Now I'm friends with her on Facebook and I looked at her boyfriend and he looks like a low life, degenerate, douchebag. And I've called this girl sweet names before like sweet heart and stuff like that and she said that's one thing she likes about me because her boyfriend doesn't call her sweet names and I would take time out of my day to talk to her when her boyfriend wouldn't even talk to her when he's watching TV. But I went on one of those sites where you can look up people's info from there email and username and I found out her boyfriend has been on dating site and I know they didn't meet on one because they met in school tog...
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I need to break up with my girlfriend.
Posted Wednesday July 16 2014, 12:57 am
Hi there. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for several months now, (8 to be exact.)
I'll get straight to the point. So basically, I am her second boyfriend, and she's absolutely crazy about me. As of recent, she calls me her "partner" and soulmate. I feel extremely uncomfortable, and I don't feel the same way when she expresses these things. We have had arguments here and there, and when I suggest the thought of breaking up/leaving her. She starts crying, getting all emotions and saying things such as: "I don't want to ever lose you, I'd be in pain for the rest of my life, etc etc. I can't handle this anymore, and quite frankly, it's annoying. I'm afraid that if I break up with her, her parents will possibly t...
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so i laid down on my bf's lap and he got a boner...
Posted Tuesday July 15 2014, 2:58 pm
how do i address him about this? do i ignore it and pretend it never happened? what was he thinking about me laying my head in his lap that turned him on?
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About a complicated online relationship
Posted Tuesday July 15 2014, 5:15 am
Okay, hi! This is my first time here so please bear with me, and I just need advice. So, I'm a 20-year old girl and in a relationship with this guy I met on a social networking site (sorry, I don't feel like naming which one). We've been together for like 2 months, and we're actually close. Not iterally close as living near each other. We've never seen each other in person, but we do know what we both look like. I've shown him a picture of me, and so has he. And things were going smoothly. Until earlier. We were talking about gaming online together, and then he said it would be better if we could talk while gaming. I said I don't have a mic, because my brother is really anxious about me talking or being in contact that way to other ...
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What's taking a break mean??
Posted Monday July 14 2014, 1:33 pm
So I'm a 35 y/o f and I met a younger guy (24) on a dating website. He told me straight out that he was only looking to hook up was not looking for anything serious. I was very attracted to him so I agreed to this. Needless to say me being the emotional person I am, I did develop feelings for him after only a few times getting together. When I told him this (through text bc who talks in person anymore? Lol) he was nice but said we should probably end things. I told him I'd still wanted to see him but it was up to him. His response was "let's take a break" that was a few weeks ago and I haven't heard from him. Should I just consider this over? Or should I still cling to that small hope he'll contact me.? I'm so confused....
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tellinga girl her fiance is sneaky
Posted Monday July 14 2014, 10:54 am
Long story short I still talk to my ex in occasion, and we get along OK. Since we broke up we've been in touch to some degree. I see him as a friend and solely a friend. He's now engaged which is great. Problem being is on several occasions since they've been together he's tries to get me to send "dirty" pictures of myself to him. The first few times they had just started dating, I said no but never said anything to her. Just recently he's started asking me again, which I said no, they are due to get married in 3 months. Should I tell her what he's up to or leave it be? I still have the messages in case.
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how to dump a guy who loves you madly
Posted Sunday July 13 2014, 9:47 pm
I am a 20 year old from India. I have been in love with this guy,who is 5 years older than me, for the last six years. And he loves me too. But the thing is i am growing up, i am changing, he isn't. He wants to get engaged and make our relationship proper, and i just dont want to commit to him. We both want diffrent things out of life. The charm is fading. This man loves me immensely, he has changed so much for me and the only person he is vulnerable to is me. I know i am being a jerk for denying love. But i just dont love him anymore, we dont have mental compatibility. If ever i talk about leaving, he says 'have you been lying to me all these years? You came so close, just to quit in the end?' Help, i dont want to hurt him. I care, but I cant marry him.
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How do I tell my guy friend I like him?
Posted Sunday July 13 2014, 9:32 pm
I like mhy guy friend. We're really good friends and we know everything about each other. When we are together, we act like bestfriends, but hes not much of a texter or anything like that. I used to like him, but then got over him once we started hanging out. We've hung out 6 days in a row this week. He has no idea I like him. He's also very awkward. What are some hints I can give him that I like him, without just straight up telling him?
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my friend is obsessed with a jerk
Posted Sunday July 13 2014, 4:00 pm
My friend has fallen really hard for this guy who acts like a total jerk to her. (They are both 19 years old) No matter how mean he is, she just won’t stop and I don’t know how to convince her that this just isn’t good for her. She’s had an enormous crush on him for years and nothing seems to be able to break her blindness. Every time he treats her badly, she plummets into overwhelming sadness, but she still won’t give up on him. It’s gotten even worse this past year and it’s gotten to the point that I am starting to become worried about her mental/emotional wellbeing. How can I help her to get over him?
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I don't know who to be with
Posted Saturday July 12 2014, 8:43 pm
I dated a guy two years younger than me my senior year of high school. We dated for about 6 months and then he broke up with me. Then I started dating a boy a year older than me even though I wasn't 100% over the younger guy. I broke up with the older guy and now I'm back with the younger guy. Everything has been perfect and so much better than the first time we dated. I recently saw my ex (the older guy) and I have been thinking about him a lot. I feel like I cut it off too fast and I should have stayed with him longer. I also really miss the maturity he had and how he supported himself rather than parents supporting him. I'm not sure what I'm feeling and I don't know what to do about it.
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should I try to get him back?
Posted Saturday July 12 2014, 4:50 pm
Ok..I dated this guy for a couple of months but he was 6 yrs older than me..I'm 16..we were first just friends but then we began to "love" each other. I would go by him everyday but we never did anything really..then we almost did and I stopped him...he got a bit mad at me. He said he didnt want to date me now at 16 because he didn't want me to do things that were not right..we didnt talk for awhile...then he called but we are sort of awkward friends now...I still like him though and i told him but he said he dont want to destroy my life. Should I get back with him? If yes how?
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Not Sure Anymore
Posted Saturday July 12 2014, 2:54 pm
I am so confused. I dont know what to do anymore. I am depressed all the time. To the point where all I want to do is cry and at times it takes all I have not to. I feel so alone. I have been married for 8 years but we never talk and lately he and I have been sleeping in separate rooms. We dont even argue we just dont talk. I know I am not happy anymore and I havent been for a long time. But we have children together and this is the only serious relationship I have ever had. To top it all he is controlling so I have never had a job and I dont know if I can support myself or my kids without him. I dont want to be miserable forever but I am terrified of life without him. I dont know how to survive without him. And I have absolutly no friends ...
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sexuality
Posted Friday July 11 2014, 8:42 pm
I've been wondering a lit about my sexuality. I feel so attracted to girls. I've had a boyfriend in the past but, I didn't feel anything compared to this one girl. Like every time I see her or talk to her I feel like I can't even explain it. I get these butterflies in my stomach, and I get all nervous, and like I don't know if I'm lesbian. I've had several girl crushes in the past but, not so many guy crushes. Maybe I've thought a guy was like good looking but, I can't see myself with them in intimately . With girls though I feel like I could have an intimate relationship. Emotionally and sexually. I don't know what to do because come of my close family is homophobic. I feel like I'm going to ebe judged by family if I am lesbian. what should I do?
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how to forget a girl who she is a lesbian
Posted Friday July 11 2014, 8:42 pm
Help me forget my past with the lesbian
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Boys
Posted Friday July 11 2014, 7:41 pm
okay.. so .. theres this guy at my work.. i really like.. but he is shy, and i cant tell if hes interested or just.. idk hes confusing to read. and well whenever me make eye contact we usually stare at each other for a while then smile and i usually laugh and go on with my night at work.. he tends to flirt with me.. but those are the only true signa he could be "interested" and i have asked him to hang before..an he said yes.. he didnt ask but made a suggestion for me to come over once.. but never happend.. and when i ask him to hang now.. he ALWAYS says he might .. but never does.. im so confused..idk what to think or do..help.
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Every time I break up with my boyfriend, he starts crying.
Posted Friday July 11 2014, 11:31 am
My boyfriend and I are 17, and we’ve been dating a little over 5 months. Before then, we were strangers. After about the first three months, we've argued almost everyday, sometimes more than once. He is very insecure, jealous, overdramatic, inconsiderate, and he is my exact opposite. Even his brother has told us that before. Our ways of thinking clash... a lot. Sometimes I feel like I'm being used. yada yada yada. We break up often, and a lot of times I don't mean it, but he'll pressure me into doing it by telling me to, or constantly asking if we're done until I break and tell him yes. I used to not mean it, but lately I've wanted it to do it for good. I've seen a completely different side of him, and it isn't good. I just can't imagine ...
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Could I be pregnant?
Posted Friday July 11 2014, 7:50 am
Okay so I've only had sex twice (three times if you count doing two different positions.) and never did the condom break and I had him pull out before he came however the third time we didn't use a new condom. We used the same one that still had sperm in it. My periods are very very irregular usually (sometimes every two months) and I haven't come to when it should happen yet but I'm getting worried and I'm usually someone who overthinks anything. It would have been a week ago. Are there any signs I should look for? I don't like feeling this anxious.
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so confused i dont know what to do.
Posted Friday July 11 2014, 5:13 am
I recently got a job at a good company, while I was being introduced to all the staffs I bumped into an old high school friend who was 4yrs my senior, and we didn't really talk much in school just hellos and hi"..... I have been working at the company for a few days... This is the 2nd week and suddenly he starts acting really nice, he got my number and calls and text and just 2days ago we went out after work to hang out while I was in his car I could feel him staring at me, he was always holding my hands, and he took me to this very cool, quiet romantic place. while we were talking we kissed, he told me that he liked me a lot, and we talked about us and what we wanted, he said things like will I be loyal to him if we were dating and al...
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