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my partner lied about having heptitis c
Posted Friday August 1 2014, 7:44 am
What would you do?
My partner hid his diagnosis from me for 6 full months - actually he never told me, I found his medical report last month after becoming terribly suspicious that something was wrong, that I had been lied about something. Still don't know what to think about it and whether I want to continue the relationship or not. And while I truly do understand the fear of losing someone you love once the truth is out, I simply cannot grasp the fact that he did not insist on using condoms, this is simply beyond me. I tested negative last week but it is too early to know for sure. I don’t know what I would have done had he told me the truth at the beginning of our relationship or after a month or two, or ever, but I thin...
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picnic for two
Posted Thursday July 31 2014, 4:50 am
I am going on a date to the beach with a girl. I am looking for some suggestions of food to bring since I wont be able to heat it up. Something surprising! She doesn't yet know I am planning a picnic for dinner. Please and thanks!
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love
Posted Thursday July 31 2014, 1:23 am
How can i make my girlfriend make sex with me
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help
Posted Wednesday July 30 2014, 8:40 pm
Ok um a virgin my bf cam outside my virgina can i still be pregnet ?? But he dident put it in me :(
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Being cheated on before and during pregnancy.
Posted Wednesday July 30 2014, 8:03 pm
If you have a best friend who you can be sure you love, and is really a good person to you, and have been in a relationship with over a year, and then gets you pregnant but cheated before and during your first pregnancy, Do you think its worth and possible for that person to change and continue to try to work the relationship out as long as the male wants to?
I have been so confused, I feel like I am the only one going through this. My partner has always, always, been there for me. Always had respect for me and for my family. I always made him feel like he was the best person for me and our relationship was powerful and very bright. I gave him all the trust and benifit of the doubt a person deserves. But he abused it 100% because he...
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i think my husband is bisexual or maybe even gay. both early 20s
Posted Wednesday July 30 2014, 9:29 am
Lately, I have been having a gut feeling that my husband may be big curious or even gay. In the very beginning of our relationship (been married almost three years together almost 4yrs.) He admitted that when he was younger a friend and him were playing around and the friend ended up giving him a Blow***. I asked him then if he was gay or if he would do it again. He said no. Keep that in mind. A few months back my husband his friend and I started going to the gym. My husband is a man who is in and out of the shower, 7 minutes top! Every time the two went in there they would take ATLEAST 30 mins. I take long showers I would take one myself in the girls room and would still have to wait. I have asked my husband and he said he would just wait ...
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Is it time to move on?
Posted Tuesday July 29 2014, 8:03 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. And lately I want to meet new people. I went out the other night and called someone to meet me at a club which was a guy I had met on a dating app and this was my first time meeting him. And I wanted nothing to do with him...I wanted to meet him and see what I wanted but I broke my own heart.. All I wanted was my boyfriend and I didn't want to be around the guy anymore. But even still my head wants me to wander and live and meet new people but my heart is comfortable and only wants my boyfriend. My boyfriend doesn't even know I've been feeling like this and I don't have the heart to tell him because I truly love him so much but I'm very confused and can't help but to cry, and I never cr...
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Just need some advice about moving on
Posted Tuesday July 29 2014, 12:46 pm
Hey guys. By just the subject, you already know what this is about. And I know there are a lot of stuff I can find on the internet, but I personally want to ask here because I was once helped by people here regarding this relationship.
I got back with him, but then I felt like it was a bad decision. We've had great times, but this last situation really pit a dent in our relationship. Well, he wasn't all patient with me being cautious with other girls around him, so he just maybe snapped and decided to "be done" with me. I made a letter for him because I've been thinking of breaking up with him sooner because I don't want to hurt him even more and that it's what my heart and my brain says. The tone of the letter was ...
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Stuck between two guys, typical love traingle.
Posted Monday July 28 2014, 3:08 pm
Hey everyone, 17 y.o (female)
So I'm stuck between two guys. They're both one year younger. I've seen them both in person a handful of times. They do not know each other.
Guy A: he's very attractive. Has a nice body, nice smile, nice everything. He asked for my number but barely texts me, and when he does, it takes him hours to respond! He calls me once per day, but it's usually after midnight which bothers me a lot. We've talked like 2 times during daylight. Yes, I like late night phone calls but not all the time. Especially when I work, so I have to get up early. He told me his mother knows about me, but I don't really believe him. We have a lot in common, we both study accounting in High School, we'...
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Pet names like baby/babe
Posted Monday July 28 2014, 10:47 am
I feel weird calling my boyfriend baby or babe. It just doesn't flow right. I can call him baby/babe over text with no problem but in person or over the phone it makes me cringe. I know this is petty but with my other boyfriends it came so easy and I would even forget that they had real names cause I was just always calling them baby. Does this mean anything? Or am I just reading too much into it? I'm 24 btw and I've only been dating this guy for 6 months. I dated my last boyfriend for over 2 years before he ended it in April
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I told him I wasn't going to be a side but he keeps talking to me
Posted Sunday July 27 2014, 8:10 pm
21/f
I was dating a guy for 4 months and I asked him whether or not if we were exclusive. He finally admitted that he saw us as a fling and that he liked what we had and would rather continue to it even though he did not see a potential relationship in the future. I sent him a long message (for closure for my own benefit), it was everything. Everything that we had difficulty communicating and all of my thoughts, I also told him at the end that I was not willing to be a side until he found what he wanted.
Since that day, he kept trying to talk to me as if nothing happened. I barely responded to him and I was wondering if he didn't understand the point of it all. Three days ago, he messaged me telling me that he ...
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Fate/ Destiny with soul mates
Posted Sunday July 27 2014, 1:21 pm
This guy I know doesn't believe in fate or destiny. HE thinks that it's unlikely that he will find the perfect girl for him. I believe the opposite. I think that everything happens for a reason and that everyone gets a chance to find the love of their life. I don't know if its me that's too optimistic or him that's too pessimistic. Am I just being stupid and childish for thinking this way? If not how do I convince him otherwise?
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13 year old asian girls
Posted Sunday July 27 2014, 11:46 am
how do i date a 13 year old asian girl
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Am I ok?..
Posted Saturday July 26 2014, 11:37 pm
so I need advice about my boyfriend. He's 21m and I'm 19f. We both have been dating for two years. I love him and like who he is but I have a problem. I don't really think he takes me seriously when I told him to wait on have sex. He's nice and acts like he'll wait but when all of a sudden something seems sexual in the conversation he make it into one not intended to be one and says he was joking about it. He knows that I still get embarrassed about sexual stuff he says to me. Another thing he gets confused about things easily. He irritates me but I keep it to myself because I have no friends sometimes and he proves he's there for me. I feel like I always have to guide him because he doesn't have any idea on how to do many things, I like b...
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Everything was great and now he's indirectly done..
Posted Saturday July 26 2014, 9:08 pm
I'm 21/f and he is 24/m
We have been together for 3 months. Well, for the first time in years, I was finally happy. I was with a man i never argued with, and someone who seemed they appreciated me. Well Sunday, July 20th- I heard from his cousin he was talking to his ex before me. I asked the ex, she confirmed. When I confronted him, he lied about it but soon confessed and said that he may have gave her reasons to think he wanted her back, blah blah blah, but that he didn't mean it and only spoke to her because he thought he was going to lose me although I gave him no reason to think so. He promised me he wouldn't talk to her, but I wasn't fooled. Three days after, things were good. He wasn't talking to her. Well Thursday was the las...
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Itshim or my mother
Posted Saturday July 26 2014, 5:08 pm
Hello there,its love choice girl again
If you are reading this,you all have the understanding that I fell in love with a man who isnt in my beliefs.My mother believes that by me seeing this man,who loves me so much,I am giving up God.I understand that he doesnt,and I am unsure where his beliefs stand,he is worldly,but his heart is so good and we are so close.
My mom is furious over the fact that he cant see me and just wont have it.She so angry at me,and I feel I have no choice,but to say goodbye to my sweetheart and continue on with my life,without him.I told my mother I would break it off,but she was still upset.I havent said anything to my sweetheart at all.
I,I dont want to.
Im so heartbroken,and I fe...
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Fml I feel so used after I had sex with my ex
Posted Saturday July 26 2014, 2:07 pm
Basically like 3 days ago I had sexual intercourse with my ex honestly I feel fucked up I feel like he's only nice to me till he gets what he wants and I'm the biggest idiot ever to go ahead and have sex with him. I feel used and hurt right now cause I know he doesn't want anything serious.. It's like whenever we speak it's sexual. We've been friends since we ended like over 2 years ago but we've only had sex twice since the breakup I honestly don't know what to do cause I feel like I'm emotionally and physically attached I feel so used I wanna cry cause I knew what I was getting myself into I don't know what to do
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Trust Issues After I Snooped On His Phone
Posted Saturday July 26 2014, 10:24 am
My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties and have been together for almost 2 years. One day about 4 months ago, I got a very weird feeling, like instinctively I knew something wasn't right. He left his phone in the kitchen while he was in the bedroom taking a nap. I tried not to let myself stoop so low as to go through his phone, but I couldn't take it any longer and gave in. I found messages to 2 other girls. He was being very flirty with them, saying things like "we should hang out soon" and telling them how beautiful they were. I was so furious I packed my things and left, and drove a couple hours away to stay with a friend.
Up until that day, he had given me no reason not to trust him. I think I was having a m...
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Boy problems..
Posted Saturday July 26 2014, 2:23 am
15, female.
This guy and I are considered 'a thing', at the beginning of our thing, I made it clear I wanted a relationship. He wanted to wait a bit, until we were ready to be a couple. We have become really close, his family are like my second family but I have waited nearly 7 months now..I confronted him about my dislike for the situation as it has been 7 months and we aren't dating.. He said he had nothing to say about it. At the end of the school day, he didn't even bother saying goodbye to me, when we always do. He avoided me that night. Then today I sent him a message, telling him that I was upset by the way he treated me. He replied saying something along the lines of 'You are desperate, I don't want a relationship'. well may...
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Boyfriend's Drug Addiction
Posted Friday July 25 2014, 8:48 pm
My boyfriend (27) and I (22) have been dating for about 2 years. A few months after we started dating, I discovered he was addicted to pain pills. He confessed this to me after he had been going through withdrawals for a couple of days and I could clearly tell something was seriously wrong. After a couple of weeks drug-free, he began to feel better and I even noticed a change in the way he acted because of how great he felt.
About a year after that he told me he was having issues again. He was back to spending hundreds of dollars a week on pills and he decided to get help. He went to a clinic that basically prescribed a drug that would help him with withdrawals as long as he checked in a couple times a week and had a clean ur...
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